Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
Wealthy Businessman Criticizes Struggling Mother of Three on Premium Flight Until Captain’s Announcement Silences Him
A wealthy businessman named Louis Newman was frustrated when he saw a mother, Debbie Brown, and her three children being seated in business class. He complained loudly about her presence, insisting that it was inappropriate for someone like her to occupy those seats.
The flight attendant calmly explained that Debbie and her children had the proper tickets for those seats and encouraged Louis to make the best of the situation. Despite his objections, which included concerns about noise during his important meeting, the stewardess firmly stated that Debbie had every right to sit there.
As the flight took off, it was evident that this journey was special for Debbie and her kids, who were excited to be flying. Their enthusiasm only irritated Louis more, especially when Debbie’s daughter cheered about the flight. He demanded that the children be quiet, emphasizing his need for silence during his meeting.
Throughout the flight, Debbie quietly observed Louis as he conducted his business discussions. After his meeting ended, she approached him with a question about the fabric samples he had. Surprisingly, he responded more kindly, revealing that he owned a fashion company in New York that had just landed a significant deal.
Debbie shared that she ran a small boutique in Texas, which had originally been started by her in-laws. However, Louis dismissed her business with sarcasm, suggesting that her modest appearance didn’t match a business-class ticket.
Just as Debbie was about to reply, the pilot made an announcement that changed everything. He expressed gratitude to his wife, Debbie Brown, for her support. Louis’s expression changed dramatically as he realized the pilot was her husband. The pilot, Captain Tyler Brown, revealed it was his first flight as a pilot in business class and that it was also their anniversary. He then proposed to Debbie, kneeling in front of her with a ring.
The cabin erupted in applause as Debbie accepted, tears of joy in her eyes while her children cheered. After the proposal, Debbie turned to Louis and shared a heartfelt message about the importance of love and family over material success. The incident reminded everyone that wealth and status cannot compare to the love and support of family.
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