Actor Leslie Uggams has had an exciting career in both theater and film.
Even with a remarkable career spanning seven decades, the singer and actress from Harlem is best known for her role in the *Deadpool* series.
However, her marriage to White Australian Grahame Pratt in 1965 challenged expectations for interracial relationships, making her life story worthy of a movie.
In 1953, Leslie, a talented singer, recorded a song for MGM when she was just 10 years old. Her aunt, soprano Eloise Uggams, recommended that she attend the famous Julliard School of Music in New York and the Professional Children’s School of New York.
But her career didn’t stop after her musical success; in 1969, she hosted *The Leslie Uggams Show,* the first network variety show hosted by a Black person since *The Nat King Cole Show.*
However, Leslie got to know and fell in love with actor Grahame Pratt behind the scenes. During one of her famous tours in Australia, the pair reconnected in Sydney after first meeting as students at the Professional Children’s School in New York.
Leslie was aware of the challenges of dating a white man because she had dated one in her youth and her aunt had discouraged her from thinking about a future with him. Leslie shared with Ebony in 1967, “I remember the shock I felt once when I was dating a white boy.”
He sent me a color photo of himself. I showed it to my aunt. He was a young, attractive man with nice hair. I thought he was very good-looking. But my aunt lectured me after she saw the picture. “Well, I guess he’s alright,” she said, “but only on dates, huh, honey? When you’re ready to settle down, you’ll marry a nice [Black] fella, won’t you?”
Leslie said that after their lucky meeting, she kept visiting Grahame.
“At just 21 years old, it was surprising that I started to fall in love with him.”
It would be a full year before she saw him again after she left Australia.
Leslie was worried about how her family would react and what would happen if Grahame moved to the U.S. for her job, but despite her worries, they had fallen in love. When they had been engaged for five months, Grahame visited her in New York.
“I wanted to know if my family would truly accept Grahame and not just tolerate him, knowing their views on mixed marriages,” she said.
Leslie didn’t have to worry because Grahame was Australian.
“Many white Americans feel awkward about their situation, but he didn’t.” He got along well with my friends, so he easily fit in with them. And both the men and women liked him.
While living in New York, Leslie said she received hate mail because of their marriage, even though they didn’t face the same racial issues as many others in the country.
In an interview with PEOPLE, Leslie said about her marriage, “It wasn’t as difficult as I expected. I think it’s because Grahame wasn’t a white man in America.” Naturally, they did receive some negative mail.
Leslie shared, “I sometimes get anonymous letters about being married to a white man when I go on tour in the United States. I remember getting one, of all places, in Detroit.” It was addressed to “The Little Negro Entertainer.” Those letters were painful to read and often used that term.
Grahame took on the role of Leslie’s manager, and the couple had two daughters, Danielle in 1970 and Justice in 1976.
Leslie got the lead role in the miniseries Roots in 1977, a year after their second child was born. For that role, she was nominated for an Emmy for her character Kizzy.
Two years later, she played Lillian Rogers Parks in the miniseries Backstairs at the White House, earning another Emmy nomination for Best Actress.
In 1983, she won a Daytime Emmy Award for hosting the NBC game show Fantasy, and in 1996 she played Rose Keefer on All My Children.
Leslie has also made appearances on shows like Family Guy, I Spy, Hollywood Squares, The Muppet Show, The Love Boat, and Magnum P.I.
After fifty-five years of marriage and a granddaughter named Cassidy, Leslie and Grahame are still happily together.
“We have a lot of fun together, but it’s not always sunshine and roses,” Leslie said about their happy marriage. “We enjoy being together.”
Their love has stood the test of time and defied expectations. They support each other because they are loyal to one another and have always helped each other.
My MIL ‘Accidentally’ Dropped My Daughter’s Vacation Ticket Out the Window—But Karma Didn’t Need My Help
When Willa’s mother-in-law sabotages her daughter’s first vacation in the pettiest way imaginable, Willa chooses calm over chaos. But as karma begins to spin its own revenge, Willa realizes some battles don’t need to be fought because the universe already has her back.
I’ve always been careful about how I love. After my divorce, I learned not to hand my heart to just anyone… not even the people who come with wedding rings or promises of forever.
So, when I met Nolan, I didn’t fall fast. I let him earn us. Me and Ava, my daughter from my first marriage.
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Ava, who has my nose and my laugh and a fierce little heart that refuses to break even when the world tries.
The best thing about Nolan?
He never hesitated. He walked right into our lives like he belonged, like we were never missing anything. He loved Ava like she was his own. Still does. If she skins her knee, he’s the first with a band-aid. If she has a nightmare, he’s at her door before I am.
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To Nolan, she’s his kid. Period.
To his mother, Darlene? Not so much.
Darlene, picture pearls and pinched smiles, never said anything outright. She didn’t have to. It was in the way she’d buy two cupcakes instead of three. The way she’d pat Ava’s head like she was petting a neighbor’s dog.
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And the things she said?
“Isn’t it strange? She doesn’t look anything like you, Willa. Does she look like her father?”
Or my personal favorite.
“Maybe it’s better you waited to have a real family, Nolan. Not… this.”
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I bit my tongue so many times, I’m surprised it didn’t scar. I kept the peace, for Nolan’s sake. For Ava’s. But inside, I was always watching her. Calculating. Darlene wasn’t a monster, not really, but she was the kind of woman who saw children like mine as placeholders.
Still, I never expected her to actually do something. Not like this.
A few months ago, Nolan surprised us all with a trip to the Canary Islands. I’m talking about a beachfront resort, all-inclusive, everything planned to the last detail. He’d just gotten a work bonus and wanted to celebrate.
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“Ava’s never been on a plane,” he said. “She should remember her first time as something absolutely magical, Willa. She deserves everything good in the world.”
She was thrilled. We all were. Until life did what it does best…
Nolan got called away to Europe a week before the trip. Business emergency. He was devastated.
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“You two go ahead,” Nolan said, brushing Ava’s hair behind her ear. “Mom and Jolene can help with the flight. I’ll join you if I can.”
Jolene is Nolan’s little sister. She’s sweet when she wants to be and likes to think of herself as a singer… but the girl is tone-deaf if you ask me.
Nolan looked gutted. Ava clung to his leg like a baby koala, her tiny fingers curled into his jeans. It took all of us ten minutes and two gummy bears to get her buckled into her booster seat.
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“I want Daddy to come with us…” she said, her lower lip jutting out.
“I know, baby,” I said. “I want that too. But Daddy has to work for now. He might surprise us! So, we always have to be ready for him to show up, okay?”
She smiled at me and nodded slowly.
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And that’s how I ended up in a rental car, the early morning sun slicing through the windshield, with Ava in the back humming her favorite song, her pink neck pillow around her shoulders, and her boarding pass clutched like treasure.
“Daddy said I had to keep it safe,” she said when I asked her about it.
Darlene was in the passenger seat, silent but smiling. Jolene sang along to the radio and scrolled endlessly in the back.
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Halfway to the airport, Darlene broke the silence.
“Can you roll the windows down?” she asked. “It’s a bit stuffy here.”
I cracked mine slightly. I preferred the AC but Darlene had issues with it and her skin.
“Much better,” she sighed and leaned toward Ava.
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“Sweetheart, let me see your ticket for a second. I just want to double-check the gate.”
Ava hesitated, then looked at me. I gave her a little nod.
She handed it over.
Darlene took it with a delicate, practiced grip. She examined it. She smiled at something only she seemed to see.
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Then, just like that, she let it slip. A flutter of paper. A gasp of air. And the ticket soared out the window, caught in the wind like a bird freed from a cage.
“My ticket!” Ava screamed from the backseat.
“Well… isn’t that just a cruel twist of fate?” Darlene said.
And then she smiled at me. Like she’d won.
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I slammed on the brakes. Jolene gasped.
“Look, I think fate just didn’t want the two of you to go,” Darlene continued.
She said it like she was talking about the weather. No regret. No panic. Just calm, casual cruelty.
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I looked at her. Like I really looked at her. And I saw it. The satisfaction behind her eyes. That ticket didn’t slip out the window. It was sent out the window.
I almost lost it. My fingers clenched the steering wheel hard enough to ache. But I didn’t scream. I didn’t cry.
Instead, I breathed in, long and slow.
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“You know what?” I said, my voice sweet and calm. “Maybe you’re right. Fate has a funny way of working.”
I glanced at Jolene from the rear-view mirror. She looked frozen, unsure where to look.
I turned the car around.
“Wait, you’re not going to try to get on the flight? I’m sure the airport will…” Darlene said, her voice trailing off.
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“No,” I said, calm and clear. “You go ahead. We’ll figure something out.”
We could have doubled back to the terminal. Found a kiosk. Maybe even get the ticket reprinted. But I knew we’d miss check-in by the time we got back. And honestly?
I didn’t want Ava to remember her first trip through tears.
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Ava sniffled in the backseat. I reached back and held her hand.
“I’m going to take the car back to the rental place,” I said. “You and Jolene can take another one.”
“But… you already rented this one!” Darlene exclaimed.
“In my name,” I continued. “I don’t want any liabilities.”
“Typical,” Darlene muttered under her breath.
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“Hey, bug,” I said to Ava. “Want to get some pancakes later? Want to go on a secret adventure with Mom?”
“Can I get the dinosaur ones?” she asked, wiping her eyes.
“You bet, baby. Ronda at the diner will be so happy to see you!”
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My daughter beamed at me.
And just like that, we made a new plan.
The next few days were magic. Not the kind of magic that comes from airport gates or sun-drenched beaches. A quieter kind. Something stitched together with syrupy fingers and belly laughs.
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We had pancakes every morning. Dinosaur-shaped for Ava, chocolate chip for me. We visited the aquarium and stood silently in front of the jellyfish tank, her little hand curled into mine.
At home, we turned the living room into a sleepover den, blankets on the floor, popcorn in a bowl big enough for Ava’s toys to swim in, and glow-in-the-dark stars that we stuck to the ceiling with gummy tack.
She painted my nails (and fingers) five different colors and insisted on glitter. I let her. Even when I caught the shimmer on my pillowcase days later, I smiled instead of wiping it away.
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We were happy.
That’s what Darlene never understood. You can’t sabotage something this rooted in love. All she did was remind me how strong we were.
I didn’t tell Nolan right away. I let him think we’d made it. Let him breathe.
But when he finally texted us from his work trip… something changed.
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“How was the flight, love? Did Ava love it?! Send pics of Ava’s first time on a plane! Love you. Both.”
I sent back a selfie of Ava and me in fluffy matching robes, faces covered in sparkly sticker stars.
“Didn’t make it, Nolan. Ask your mom why. We miss you.”
The phone rang five minutes later.
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“What happened?” his voice cracked, tight and restrained.
I told him everything. The open window. The ticket. The smile.
Silence.
“She did this on purpose,” he said eventually. “I’m so sorry, Willa. I’m booking a return flight—”
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“Nolan, no,” I breathed in slowly. “Let her have her trip. Ava and I already got what we needed.”
He didn’t like it. But he understood.
“We’ll do our own trip,” he said. “Just us… I promise.”
And that? That promise was enough.
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But karma wasn’t finished with her yet.
Two days after their flight, Jolene called me, breathless.
“You will not believe this,” she said. “Mom… fell.”
She launched into it like she couldn’t say it fast enough. Darlene had been strutting through a local artisan market, silk scarf around her neck, oversized sunglasses perched on her head, when she stepped on a wet tile outside a spice shop.
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They hadn’t even made it to the Canary Islands yet, all of this had happened during a layover.
Down she went.
Jolene said that it looked like something out of a slapstick comedy. One second she was lecturing a vendor about currency conversion, the next she was on the ground, limbs tangled, tourists staring.
She sprained her wrist and shattered the screen on her phone. But that wasn’t the worst part.
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Her passport? Gone.
It had vanished somewhere between the market and the hospital. Stolen? Dropped? Nobody knew. No passport meant no flight home. Embassy visits, frantic forms, signature verifications.
Five extra days in a two-star motel that smelled like mildew and served eggs that bounced.
As for Darlene’s luggage? Rerouted to Lisbon.
When I told Nolan, he sighed.
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“Wait… so how’s she getting home?” he asked.
“She’s not,” I said, stirring my coffee. “Not for a while.”
He didn’t laugh, but his lips twitched on the video call.
“Seriously?”
“She’s at the mercy of government paperwork and bad continental plumbing.”
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“Wow,” he said, leaning back in his chair.
That was all he said. Wow.
“I’ll be home tomorrow,” he smiled. “We can take Ava to the carnival. Rob’s wife said that she’s taking their kids, too.”
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I didn’t gloat. I didn’t need to. The universe had done it for me, swift, elegant, and brutal. She wanted to control the trip? Now, she could enjoy her solo extension in what Jolene called the “European equivalent of a broom closet.”
Some things don’t need vengeance. They just need time.
Three weeks later, we were halfway through brunch — pancakes, eggs, real maple syrup, the works — when the front door creaked open without a knock.
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Darlene walked in like she still owned air rights to our house. Jolene followed a step behind, looking like she’d rather be anywhere else.
“Smells… cozy,” Darlene said, eyeing the plate of bacon on the table. Her wrist was still wrapped in a bandage and dark circles took up residence under her eyes.
I didn’t say a word. I just moved my coffee cup closer to Ava, who was happily dunking strawberries into whipped cream.
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“We just wanted to stop by,” Darlene added, settling herself into a chair like she was the guest of honor. “Such a lovely morning for family.”
Nolan stood. Not quickly. Not angrily. Just… firmly.
“You’re not welcome here,” he said.
“Excuse me?” Darlene’s smile flickered.
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“You heard me,” he said. “You’re not welcome near Ava until you apologize for what you’ve done. And you’re not invited to anything in the future unless you start treating my wife and daughter like they matter.”
The silence that followed wasn’t awkward. It was… heavy.
“You’re joking,” she scoffed, eyes darting toward Jolene, who stared at the floor.
“I’m not,” my husband said simply.
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Darlene stood up so fast that her chair scraped back like it had been burned.
“You’d throw me out?”
“I’m asking you to do better, Mom,” he said. “But until you can, yes, I’m choosing them.”
She didn’t slam the door when she left. That would’ve meant she cared enough to make noise.
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Instead, she walked out with that same frost-bitten dignity she always wore, dragging Jolene out with her.
And now? Just silence.
No Sunday calls. No little digs. Just a void where her control used to live.
And honestly? It’s the quietest peace we’ve ever known.
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