Actor Leslie Uggams has had an exciting career in both theater and film.
Even with a remarkable career spanning seven decades, the singer and actress from Harlem is best known for her role in the *Deadpool* series.
However, her marriage to White Australian Grahame Pratt in 1965 challenged expectations for interracial relationships, making her life story worthy of a movie.
In 1953, Leslie, a talented singer, recorded a song for MGM when she was just 10 years old. Her aunt, soprano Eloise Uggams, recommended that she attend the famous Julliard School of Music in New York and the Professional Children’s School of New York.
But her career didn’t stop after her musical success; in 1969, she hosted *The Leslie Uggams Show,* the first network variety show hosted by a Black person since *The Nat King Cole Show.*
However, Leslie got to know and fell in love with actor Grahame Pratt behind the scenes. During one of her famous tours in Australia, the pair reconnected in Sydney after first meeting as students at the Professional Children’s School in New York.
Leslie was aware of the challenges of dating a white man because she had dated one in her youth and her aunt had discouraged her from thinking about a future with him. Leslie shared with Ebony in 1967, “I remember the shock I felt once when I was dating a white boy.”
He sent me a color photo of himself. I showed it to my aunt. He was a young, attractive man with nice hair. I thought he was very good-looking. But my aunt lectured me after she saw the picture. “Well, I guess he’s alright,” she said, “but only on dates, huh, honey? When you’re ready to settle down, you’ll marry a nice [Black] fella, won’t you?”
Leslie said that after their lucky meeting, she kept visiting Grahame.
“At just 21 years old, it was surprising that I started to fall in love with him.”
It would be a full year before she saw him again after she left Australia.
Leslie was worried about how her family would react and what would happen if Grahame moved to the U.S. for her job, but despite her worries, they had fallen in love. When they had been engaged for five months, Grahame visited her in New York.
“I wanted to know if my family would truly accept Grahame and not just tolerate him, knowing their views on mixed marriages,” she said.
Leslie didn’t have to worry because Grahame was Australian.
“Many white Americans feel awkward about their situation, but he didn’t.” He got along well with my friends, so he easily fit in with them. And both the men and women liked him.
While living in New York, Leslie said she received hate mail because of their marriage, even though they didn’t face the same racial issues as many others in the country.
In an interview with PEOPLE, Leslie said about her marriage, “It wasn’t as difficult as I expected. I think it’s because Grahame wasn’t a white man in America.” Naturally, they did receive some negative mail.
Leslie shared, “I sometimes get anonymous letters about being married to a white man when I go on tour in the United States. I remember getting one, of all places, in Detroit.” It was addressed to “The Little Negro Entertainer.” Those letters were painful to read and often used that term.
Grahame took on the role of Leslie’s manager, and the couple had two daughters, Danielle in 1970 and Justice in 1976.
Leslie got the lead role in the miniseries Roots in 1977, a year after their second child was born. For that role, she was nominated for an Emmy for her character Kizzy.
Two years later, she played Lillian Rogers Parks in the miniseries Backstairs at the White House, earning another Emmy nomination for Best Actress.
In 1983, she won a Daytime Emmy Award for hosting the NBC game show Fantasy, and in 1996 she played Rose Keefer on All My Children.
Leslie has also made appearances on shows like Family Guy, I Spy, Hollywood Squares, The Muppet Show, The Love Boat, and Magnum P.I.
After fifty-five years of marriage and a granddaughter named Cassidy, Leslie and Grahame are still happily together.
“We have a lot of fun together, but it’s not always sunshine and roses,” Leslie said about their happy marriage. “We enjoy being together.”
Their love has stood the test of time and defied expectations. They support each other because they are loyal to one another and have always helped each other.
I Promised a Homeless Man I’d Find Him a Family in One Evening – But First, We Went to a Salon and a Boutique
Mark meets Stuart, a homeless man, on a busy city street and makes an unusual promise to change his life in just one evening. He starts by giving Stuart a fresh haircut and buying him new clothes, determined to find him a family by the night’s end. But can Mark truly fulfill this bold promise and transform Stuart’s life?
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You never know who you’ll encounter in life and how they might change your world.
I’m Mark, and a few days ago, I had this wholesome experience I will never forget.
So, I was sitting on a busy city street, munching on my sandwich during lunch break.
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Out of nowhere, this scruffy-looking guy walks up to me and hands me my wallet.
“Hey, you dropped this,” he said.
I was stunned. “Thanks, man! I didn’t even notice. What’s your name?” I asked, genuinely curious.
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“Stuart,” he replied with a shy smile.
“I’m Mark,” I said, shaking his hand. “I’m a barber. How about I repay you with a fresh haircut?”
Stuart looked down at his worn-out clothes and shrugged. “Why bother? I got no one to impress. Nobody cares about a bum like me.”
I imagined being in Stuart’s shoes, and his words hit me right in the feels. I knew I had to do something more.
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“How about this,” I said, my mind racing. “I bet you I can find you a family in one evening!”
Stuart laughed, thinking I was joking, but I grabbed his hand. “Bet on it!”
I could see he wasn’t really sure, but he agreed.
We headed straight to my shop. “Come on in, Stuart,” I said, holding the door open for him as we arrived. The place was buzzing with activity. My colleagues and a few customers gave us curious looks as we walked in.
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I pointed to the chair. “Take a seat, Stuart. Let’s see what we can do.”
Stuart hesitated for a moment but then sat down. I draped the cape over him and got to work. “You’re in for a treat,” I said, picking up my clippers.
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As I started cutting his hair, I could see the change happening right before my eyes. The scruffy, tired look began to disappear. Stuart was getting a fresh start, and it showed.
“How’s it looking?” Stuart asked, a bit nervous.
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“Trust me, you’re going to look great,” I replied, focusing on giving him the best cut possible. Other barbers started to gather around, watching the transformation.
“Wow, Mark, you’re doing wonders,” one of them said, impressed.
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When I was done, I turned the chair around so Stuart could see himself in the mirror.
His eyes widened. “Is that really me?” he asked, touching his newly styled beard and hair.
“Yep, that’s you,” I said, smiling. “What do you think?”
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Stuart grinned, looking a bit shy. “I feel like a new man. But do you think it’s too fancy for a guy like me?”
Everyone in the shop chuckled.
“Not at all,” I said. “You deserve this.”
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Stuart’s confidence seemed to soar. He stood up a bit straighter, and there was a sparkle in his eye that hadn’t been there before. “Thanks, Mark. This feels amazing,” he said.
But it wasn’t over yet. After the haircut, I decided it was time to get Stuart some new clothes.
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We walked over to a nearby clothing boutique. As we stepped inside, the staff greeted us with friendly smiles.
“Hi there! How can we help you today?” one of them asked.
“We need to find my friend Stuart here some stylish clothes,” I said, patting Stuart on the back. Stuart looked around, a bit overwhelmed. “I’ve never been in a place like this,” he whispered to me.
“Don’t worry, we’ll find something great,” I assured him. The staff quickly got to work, bringing out various outfits for Stuart to try.
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His reactions were priceless. “These pants are so tight! How do people breathe in these?” he said, making everyone laugh.
I handed him a shirt. “Just try it on, Stuart. You’ll look great.”
He reluctantly took the clothes and went into the changing room. A few minutes later, he came out, looking unsure. “How do I look?” he asked.
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“Wow, Stuart, you look fantastic!” I said, giving him a thumbs up. The staff nodded in agreement.
Stuart looked at himself in the mirror, turning this way and that. “I feel like I’m wearing someone else’s clothes,” he said with a laugh. “But they do look nice.”
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“Exactly, that’s the point,” I said. “You deserve to feel good about yourself.”
After trying on a few more outfits and making everyone laugh with his witty comments, Stuart finally settled on an outfit that made him feel comfortable yet stylish.
“I think I’ll stick with this one,” he said, smiling.
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“Great choice,” I said. “You’re looking sharp, my friend.”
Stuart’s confidence seemed to grow even more. “Thanks, Mark. I really appreciate this,” he said, enveloping me in a hug.
“No problem. We’re just getting started,” I said, feeling excited about what was to come.
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With Stuart looking sharp, we decided to grab dinner at a cozy café.
As we walked in, Stuart seemed nervous. “I haven’t been to a place like this in years,” he admitted.
“Relax, Stuart. It’s just dinner. Enjoy it,” I said, guiding him to a table.
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We sat down and ordered some food. While we waited, I pulled out my phone. “How about we set up a date for you?” I suggested.
“A date? You’re serious?” Stuart asked, his eyes widening.
“Why not? Let’s give it a shot,” I said, smiling.
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I registered him on a dating site and quickly set up a profile. Within minutes, we got a response from a woman named Linda. She agreed to meet us at the café.
When Linda arrived, she seemed interested at first. Stuart stood up and introduced himself, looking a bit nervous. “Hi, I’m Stuart,” he said, offering his hand.
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Linda shook his hand, but her smile faded as we talked. When she found out Stuart was homeless, her expression changed.
“You should have been honest,” she said, standing up abruptly.
“Wait, Linda, he’s a great guy,” I tried to explain, but she was already walking out the door.
Stuart sat back down, looking dejected.
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“I’m sorry, Stuart,” I said, feeling bad for him.
To my surprise, he smiled. “It’s alright, Mark. Today is still one of the best days of my life. It reminded me of when I used to go out with friends and meet girls.”
I didn’t know what to do at that point. I had promised him I would help him find a family, and I knew that I had failed to do so.
But the next morning, on my way to work, I saw something that made me stop in my tracks.
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Stuart was sitting outside a supermarket, chatting with a woman. They were both smiling and laughing.
I walked over, curious. “Hey, Stuart!” I called out, waving.
“Mark! Good to see you,” Stuart replied, standing up and giving me a big smile. “I want you to meet Maria.”
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Maria stood up and shook my hand. “Hi, Mark. It’s nice to meet you,” she said warmly.
“Nice to meet you too, Maria,” I said, looking at Stuart with a raised eyebrow. “Where did you two meet?”
“Believe it or not, we met last night after the date fiasco,” Stuart said with a chuckle. “Maria was kind enough to sit and talk with me. We’ve been chatting ever since.”
Maria smiled at Stuart. “Stuart told me everything. I’ve had my own struggles, so I understand where he’s coming from.”
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I felt a surge of happiness and pride. “That’s wonderful to hear,” I said, genuinely moved. “You two seem to get along really well.”
“We do,” Stuart said, looking at Maria with a grateful smile. “Thanks to you, Mark. That bet led to something really good.”
“I’m just glad to see you happy, Stuart. You deserve this,” I said, and we shared a hug.
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I still can’t believe it all happened.
Life has a funny way of surprising us, doesn’t it? Stuart found a friend, and maybe even a family, through a series of events that started with a lost wallet. And I learned that sometimes, all it takes is a little compassion to change someone’s life.
Have you ever witnessed something like this or changed someone’s life for the better?
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