While performing in Denver, Van Ark met actress Julie Harris while interviewing her for a local newspaper, and the actress persuaded her to study acting and drama at the Yale Drama School.
As a result, Van Ark became the youngest student ever to receive a scholarship to the well-respected school and the second woman ever to enroll. The first woman was Julie Harris, who helped Van Ark into the school.
“She wrote to the dean and asked him to meet me. Long story short, my parents drove me to New Haven, Connecticut, to meet the dean, who gave me a scholarship,” she recalled.” It was meant to be.”
Valene Ewing on ‘Dallas’ and ‘Knots Landing’
Van Ark began her professional career at the Minneapolis Guthrie Theater, where she starred in The Miser by Moliere. After working about a year at the Arena Stage in Washington DC, she moved down to work with the national touring company Barefoot in the Park in 1963, which led to her Broadway debut. In 1971, she was nominated for the Tony Award for Best Featured Actress in a Play after starring in The School for Wives.
At that point, Joan Van Ark had begun working in front of a screen rather than on stage. She appeared on television series including Temperature’s Rising, Spider-Woman, and Days of Our Lives and even in one episode of Bonanza.
Even though Joan Van Ark wasn’t short of jobs, she was still looking for her significant breakthrough role as the 1980s approached. In 1978, she made several appearances as Valene Ewing on Dallas – which led her to the role of a lifetime.
Knots Landing – a spinoff of Dallas – premiered in 1979, and Joan Van Ark reprised her role as Valene Ewing. She starred in 327 episodes – acting alongside Michele Lee as Karen and Ted Schakleford as Gary – and became a massive star.
Even though it was a spinoff of Dallas – about the rotten but wealthy Ewing Clan – it was initially brought to CBS years before.
However, the network wanted a “big rich family” show, and Dallas got picked as the one. But later on, Knots Landing became a massive success as the studio realized how big of a show Dallas had grown into, and after only one season, it rose into the top 20 in TV ratings.
How Joan Van Ark almost missed out on her biggest role
Knots Landing became the story of Gary Ewing and his wife Valene – played by Van Ark – and how they decided to start a new life in Knots Landing.
However, Van Ark almost missed out on the part of Valene Ewing. She explained that she had a “three-way clash” where she did The Love Boat simultaneously, as well as a commercial in New York.
In the end, it was her husband – John Marshall, who we will come back to in a minute – that persuaded her into choosing Dallas. And it was a significant – and important – decision.
“I got the call asking me to do a guest appearance in this show called Dallas, which was attracting a lot of buzz, but I said to my husband, ‘John, why should I even read this script? I can’t be in three places at once,’” she told Express. “Then he read it and said, ‘No, you’ve got to do it. It looks wonderful.’”
“So basically, he talked me into a schedule that had me in LA one day, then flying to Dallas for two days, followed by two days in New York and then back to Texas. But looking at this old cast photo from Knots Landing – the spinoff from Dallas – I’m so glad I listened to him,” she added.
Dallas and Knots Landing became a 15-year commitment for Van Ark, who became identified by her role. As earlier mentioned, she and Julie Harris had quite a history – and in 1980, they met again
“I could stay forever on the show and be safe”
Harris was cast in Knots Landing as the mother of Van Arks’ character, and for the actress, it was almost too good to be true.
“When the producers told me they had finally last someone to play my mother, I held my breath,” she recalled in a 1984 interview with Florida Today.
“I thought, ‘Oh my God, are they going to say Phyllis Diller or Zsa Zsa Gabor, or who?’ Then they said it was Julie Harris, and I went right through the roof. I couldn’t believe they had picked her to be my mother. They didn’t even know we were friends.”
Joan Van Ark stayed for 13 seasons and 327 episodes on the show. Then in 1993, just one season after she left, Knots Landing was canceled. But the reason for Joan leaving wasn’t that she didn’t like it. Instead, it was all about her trying on new challenges.“I could stay forever on the show and be safe,” Van Ark told the Los Angeles Times in 1992.
“But three years ago, I did Night of the Iguana in Williamstown (Mass.), and I had a quote from Tennessee Williams taped on my mirror, taken from an essay he’d written on success. It said, and I’m paraphrasing here: ‘Security is in the shape of a kidney-shaped pool in Los Angeles, where you sit waiting for your residual checks.’ I was in a comfortable spot on Knots, and an artist should not be comfortable.”
At the same time, the television series became a huge part of Van Ark’s life. So even though she felt comfortable leaving, it was a tough blow since she thought it would be easier.
Blamed herself for ‘Knots Landing’ cancelation
“I have loved more than life the 13 years I’ve had on that show,” she said. “[Knots Landing creator] David Jacobs is a great influence on my life, has taught me so much about so many things. Ted [Shackelford] is the other half of every breath I take on the show, and personally, he’s a large part of my heart. The people are my family–we have shared marriages, deaths, divorces. It’s far more difficult to leave than I thought.”
The show didn’t quite work without the great chemistry between characters Valen and Gary. In fact, Joan took the blame for the show being shut down.
“Well, it was my fault. I jumped over to NBC to do a pilot which did not sell,” she said. “I was so ready to go, after fourteen years with the one lady, so I auditioned for the pilot, and they cast me. It wasn’t as cleanly negotiated as it should have been. When the pilot didn’t sell, they asked me back, and I did do the four-hour finale of the show.”
Joan Van Ark left the soap opera business behind but continued to star in many television series. She had minor parts in television series, including Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, and starred in some television movies. Between 2004 and 2005, Joan appeared as Gloria Fisher in 55 episodes of the hugely successful television drama The Young and The Restless.Joan Van Ark – marriage, husband, children
It’s common for celebrities in Hollywood to marry other celebrities, and show-biz marriages don’t always last very long.
But that wasn’t the case for Joan Van Ark, who met the love of her life back in high school. She met her husband, John Marshall, while the two were students in Boulder. In 1966, the couple married on a military base in Germany.
“Believe me, it was nothing like the marriages [Valene Ewing] has gone through,” she told UPI.
In 1969, they welcomed daughter Vanessa Marshall, who also chose a career in entertainment. She became a well-known voice-over artist and actually gave up on her on-camera acting career. Instead, Vanessa Marshall has lent her voice to animated films, television series, and several video games.
John Marshall went on to become an Emmy newsman, working on KNBC-TV and NBC. He’s had a flourishing career just as his wife Joan, and while the couple was working hard to make it in their respective fields, Vanessa was growing up.
For Van Ark, becoming a mother while trying to navigate through the business was tough. And she gives credit to her husband, John, for keeping the family together during those stressful years.
“He is the reason we have the most wonderful daughter in the world and that the marriage has stayed strong,” Van Ark told The Leader-Post in 1988. “I feel I am the committed person who can’t give up time for this or that.”
“He did not want to miss watching Venessa grow up, and he did not want to miss me,” she added. “He knows correspondents live out of suitcases. John made career choices I didn’t agree with because if it had been me, I would have packed my bags, and I would have been waiving at the airport.”Joan Van Ark – net worth
Besides her acting job, Joan Van Ark has a great interest in running. The 78-year-old has completed several marathons and explained she’s running instead of going to a psychologist. However, when it comes to her husband, she stated that she would never go on a run with him.
Why? Because “it’s the quickest way to a divorce that I know of. You’re always criticizing the other’s style,” Joan said.
In the last decade, Joan Van Ark has continued to work on stage in several productions for theater and starring in television series and movies such as Watercolor Postcards and Psycho Wedding Crasher. But she will always be most remembered for her magnificent spell on Dallas and Knots Landing.
According to Celebrity Net Worth, Joan Van Ark has a net worth of around $10 million.
3 Disturbing Tales of Elderly Abuse: The Shocking Truth About Ageism
In a world where older people are often ignored, some face unfair treatment just because of their age. These stories show times when older individuals were bullied or not taken seriously but chose to defend their dignity. They demonstrated that respect should not depend on how many years someone has lived.
As people age, they usually hope to be treated with kindness and respect. Unfortunately, that does not always happen.
The following stories share the sad moments when elderly people were judged for their age or how they looked. They also show how these individuals stood up for themselves and demanded the respect they truly deserved.
1. I Was Kicked out of the Restaurant Because of My Age and Outfit – Days Later, I Returned for Payback
I’m Everly, and at 82, life still makes me happy. One Thursday, my daughter, Nancy, surprised me by visiting my shop.
“Let’s try that new restaurant downtown,” she suggested, her face lighting up.
Excited, I quickly agreed and put on my usual floral blouse and khakis. I kept it simple and comfortable, just like Nancy, who wore her favorite jeans and a T-shirt.
We didn’t care much about our outfits; we just wanted to enjoy our day together.
When we entered the restaurant, everything felt very trendy. We noticed we looked different from the younger, fashionable guests, but we didn’t mind.
As we were seated, I saw the host give us a quick, judging glance. That was the first sign something was wrong.
A young waiter came over, and his smile vanished when he looked at us.
“I’m sorry, but this place may not be right for you,” he said coldly.
I blinked, confused and unsure of how to respond.
“You seem too old for our usual guests, and your outfits don’t fit the vibe we want here,” he added, as if that made it okay.
Are you serious? I thought. I could see Nancy’s face turning red with anger.
Before we could say anything, the waiter called two security guards over.
“You need to leave,” he said. “We don’t want to disturb our customers.”
At that moment, I felt so small as I realized I was being judged for my age and clothes. I had never experienced such blatant disrespect before.
Nancy and I quietly stood up and left, but the story didn’t end there.
“This is unacceptable!” Nancy muttered, taking photos of the security guards outside.
Later, she posted our story on Facebook with the pictures. In hours, the post went viral.
I had no idea that our story would inspire others to share their experiences with discrimination. That night, the restaurant’s reputation suffered.
The next day, Mr. Thompson, the owner, called me.
“Mrs. Everly, I’m very sorry,” he started. “I had no idea this happened while I was away. The waiter who disrespected you is… my son. I apologize deeply for his behavior.”
He explained that his son had been in charge while he was gone, and he was horrified by what occurred.
“Please let us make it right,” he said. “I’d like to invite you back for a meal, and my son will personally apologize.”
At first, I hesitated, but Mr. Thompson’s sincere apology made me agree.
A week later, I returned to the restaurant wearing my best silk dress.
Mr. Thompson warmly greeted me at the door.
“Thank you for giving us another chance,” he said.
His son approached shortly after. “Mrs. Everly, I’m truly sorry for what I said. It was wrong, and I’ve learned from this.”
His apology felt genuine, and I could tell he had been humbled.
Mr. Thompson added, “I’ve told my son that our business will succeed only if we treat every customer with respect. This was a tough lesson, but an important one.”
I appreciated their efforts and enjoyed a lovely meal, but it was more than just the food. It was about reclaiming my dignity.
That night, I posted a message online about the apology and praised Mr. Thompson’s actions.
This experience taught me that everyone, no matter their age, deserves respect. Sometimes, you need to stand up and make that clear.
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2. I Was Mocked by Business Class Passengers, but the Pilot Surprised Me at the End of the Flight
This was my first flight at 85 years old, and everything felt overwhelming as I boarded the plane.
I had saved enough money to buy a business class ticket, hoping for a comfortable trip to New York. But things quickly turned unpleasant when I reached my seat.
“I don’t want to sit next to that… woman!” a man beside me complained, looking at me with disgust.
His name was Franklin, and he was clearly unhappy to see me.
The flight attendant tried to calm him down.
“Sir, this is her seat. She paid for it just like everyone else,” she said gently, but Franklin wasn’t convinced.
“That can’t be true. These seats are too expensive for her! Just look at her clothes!” he exclaimed, pointing at me.
I was wearing my best dress, which wasn’t fancy, and I felt embarrassed as other passengers stared at me. All I wanted was to disappear.
“Miss, it’s okay. If you have another seat in economy, I’ll take it,” I told the kind flight attendant quietly. “I spent all my savings on this seat, but I don’t want to bother anyone.”
“No, ma’am,” she shook her head. “You paid for this seat, and you belong here. No one has the right to make you feel otherwise.”
She turned to Franklin. “Sir, if you don’t calm down, I will have security remove you from this plane.”
I could hear him grumbling under his breath as he reluctantly settled into his seat.
Thank God, I thought. Thank God it’s over.
I tried to relax after takeoff, but I was still shaken by the confrontation. My hands trembled, and I accidentally knocked my purse to the floor, spilling everything out.
To my surprise, Franklin leaned over and started picking things up. His earlier anger seemed to fade.
“This is a beautiful locket,” he said, picking up my ruby necklace.
“It belonged to my mother,” I replied, gently taking it back. “My father gave it to her before he went to World War II. He promised to come back, but he never did.”
“I’m sorry to hear that,” he said, looking sympathetic.
“It was all we had of him after he disappeared,” I continued. “My mother cherished it and passed it to me. I’ve held onto it through hard times.”
Franklin nodded.
“I owe you an apology for earlier,” he said. “I’ve been having a tough time, but that’s no excuse for my behavior. I’m sorry.”
I accepted his apology, and the tension between us eased. I shared why I was flying.
“I’m on my way to New York to see my son,” I said.
“Are you visiting him?” Franklin asked.
“No, not directly,” I began. “I gave him up for adoption many years ago because I couldn’t care for him.”
“I found him through a DNA test later, but he didn’t want to reconnect,” I explained. “Today is his birthday, and this flight is my only chance to be near him. He’s the pilot.”
Franklin’s eyes widened in surprise, and he leaned back, processing what I had said.
“I don’t think he knows I’m here,” I whispered.
This was the closest I had been to my son in decades, yet he was completely unaware.
The next few hours passed quietly. As we neared our destination, the pilot’s voice came over the intercom.
“Ladies and gentlemen, we’ll be landing at JFK shortly,” he announced. But then, to my surprise, he continued, “Before we land, I want to make a special announcement. My birth mother is on this flight today. It’s her first time flying, and I’d like to welcome her aboard. Hey, Mom, please wait for me after we land.”
At that moment, I realized he knew I was there. Tears filled my eyes as I covered my mouth.
When the plane landed, the moment I had dreamed of finally arrived. My son, Josh, stepped out of the cockpit and walked straight toward me.
The entire cabin erupted in applause as he embraced me.
“Thank you, Mom,” he whispered. “Thank you for everything.”
And just like that, all the years of distance and heartache melted away.
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3. I Was Kicked Out of a Luxury Store, but a Kind Cop Brought Me Back Later
“Grandma, I don’t care about prom!” my granddaughter, Anne, said over the phone, trying to sound casual.
I knew her well enough.
She was embarrassed because we couldn’t afford to buy a dress. My daughter, Lisa, and I struggled with our limited incomes, and Anne didn’t want to ask for help.
But I wasn’t going to let her miss out on such an important moment.
“Are you sure? Prom can change your life! Your grandfather asked me to his out of the blue, and we got married months later,” I told her, hoping she’d change her mind.
“Grandma, it’s fine. I don’t even have a date,” she replied before hanging up.
After that call, I decided I wouldn’t let her stay home. I had been saving a little bit of my pension for my funeral costs, but this was more important.
Anne deserved a beautiful dress for prom, so I went to a fancy boutique at the mall the next day.
I was admiring one of the dresses when a saleswoman approached me.
“Can I help you… um, ma’am?” she asked, looking at me with disapproval.
“I’m looking for a dress for my granddaughter’s prom,” I said with a smile.
“Well, these dresses are quite expensive. Maybe you should shop at Target instead,” she suggested, crossing her arms.
I understood what she meant. She thought I didn’t belong there because of how I looked.
“I know they’re expensive. I’m just going to look around, okay?” I replied, trying to stay calm.
The saleswoman followed me, throwing more snide comments my way. “I don’t think you understand the prices here, do you? Maybe just ask your granddaughter to pick something cheaper. This is a high-end store, and we have standards.”
It took everything in me to keep my composure.
“I don’t have to explain myself to you,” I said firmly, turning to leave.
But before I could exit, the saleswoman called out, “You’re not welcome here. I’ll call security if you don’t leave!”
I felt humiliated as I walked out. As soon as I stepped outside, tears streamed down my face. I thought about calling Anne to tell her I couldn’t find a dress.
Just then, I noticed a police officer nearby. He must have seen how upset I was.
“Are you okay, ma’am?” he asked, approaching me.
I explained what had happened and how I wanted to find a beautiful dress for Anne.
“Let’s go back in there,” he said with determination.
“You don’t have to do that. I’ll be fine,” I replied.
But he insisted.
“Listen, everyone deserves respect, no matter their age or appearance. I’m going to talk to that saleswoman,” he said.
I felt nervous but followed him back inside.
When we entered the store, the officer marched straight up to the saleswoman.
“Ma’am, I need you to treat this lady with respect. She is here for a legitimate reason, and you shouldn’t judge her based on her appearance,” he said firmly.
The saleswoman went pale, clearly realizing she had crossed the line.
“I… I’m sorry. I didn’t mean—” she stuttered.
The officer interrupted her, saying, “You need to learn that everyone is worthy of kindness and respect. Please treat her as you would any other customer.”
With that, he turned to me and said, “You go ahead and find the perfect dress for your granddaughter.”
With a newfound sense of confidence, I looked around the store and finally found a stunning gown. I felt happy for the first time since I entered.
The officer gave me a thumbs-up as I went to the register. I was still nervous but excited for Anne.
In the end, I bought the dress, and I couldn’t wait to see the smile on my granddaughter’s face.
When I told her about my shopping adventure, Anne’s eyes lit up.
“Grandma, you’re the best! Thank you for making this happen!” she said, pulling me into a tight hug.
And just like that, the incident in the store faded away as we planned for prom together.
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