The Power of a Child’s Empathy

The hum of the classroom, usually a symphony of whispers and rustling papers, was replaced by a heavy silence. Little Sarah stood before the class, her small frame trembling, her eyes brimming with tears. “My mommy and daddy are going to court today,” she announced, her voice barely a whisper. “They’re going to make me choose.”

A collective gasp filled the room. The children, their faces etched with innocent concern, looked at Sarah, their eyes wide with unspoken questions. I felt a lump form in my throat. How could I, a grown adult, possibly soothe the pain of such a profound loss?

I knelt beside Sarah, gently placing an arm around her shoulders. “It’s going to be okay, sweetie,” I murmured, my voice as reassuring as I could manage. “We’re all here for you.”

I did my best to steer the class towards our morning routine, hoping to create a sense of normalcy amidst the emotional turmoil. But the air in the room remained thick with unspoken worry.

Later, as the children worked on their art projects, I noticed Sarah by the cubbies, her small body shaking with quiet sobs. She was hugging a classmate, a little boy named Michael, who was also crying softly. My heart pounded. Had something happened? Had the weight of her situation become too much for her to bear?

I rushed over, my voice laced with concern. “Sarah, Michael, what’s wrong?”

They looked up at me, their faces stained with tears, but their eyes held a strange sense of calm. Then, Michael held out a crumpled piece of paper.

“She was sad,” he mumbled, his voice thick with emotion. “So I wrote her this.”

I unfolded the note, my hands trembling. In uneven, childlike handwriting, it read:

“Don’t worry. Whatever happens, it’s in God’s hands.”

The simplicity of the message, the profound depth of its compassion, hit me like a wave. Tears welled up in my eyes, blurring my vision. These two children, barely old enough to tie their own shoes, had shown a level of empathy and understanding that surpassed anything I had witnessed in years.

I had spent my life trying to impart wisdom to these young minds, to guide them through the complexities of the world. But in that moment, they had taught me a lesson I would never forget.

As I drove home that afternoon, the image of Sarah and Michael, their tear-streaked faces and the crumpled note, remained etched in my mind. I felt an overwhelming sense of pride, a deep appreciation for the little family we had built in our classroom.

We often underestimate the power of a child’s heart, their capacity for love and understanding. We dismiss their emotions as fleeting, their words as naive. But that day, I witnessed the true essence of compassion, the pure, unadulterated empathy that resides within the hearts of children.

I realized that my role as a teacher was not just about imparting knowledge, but about fostering kindness, nurturing compassion, and creating a safe haven where these small hearts could flourish. And I knew that even on the toughest days, when the noise and chaos threatened to overwhelm me, I would always remember the crumpled note, the tearful hug, and the unwavering belief that, in the face of adversity, love and compassion will always prevail.

Michael Jackson’s only daughter Paris proud of African-American roots, identifies as black

Paris Jackson, the only daughter of late pop star Michael Jackson, opened up about her African-American roots and how proud she is of that, as well as the criticism she received.

Paris, 25, was born to parents Billie Jean hitmaker and Debbie Rowe in 1998.

Over the years, there have been speculations that Jackson wasn’t the biological father of his three children, Paris and her two brothers, Bigi, 22, and Prince, 27. This was due to the fact that that many couldn’t see any resemblance between the late star and the kids, especially Paris who has white skin, light eyes and now bleached-blond hair.

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The kids were very close with their father who went to great lengths to protect them from media scrutiny. His measures were unlike, however. He would show his son Bigi to the public with his face covered with a blanket, causing him troubles while growing up because his friends often teased him. He now prefers to be called Bigi.

Following the star’s death in 2009, his children were tossed alone in the public eye, turning them a highly profitable prey for the media that were eager to share their photos and followed their every step.

This experience left Paris battling a post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

“I experience audio hallucinations, sometimes, with camera clicks and severe paranoia and have been going to therapy for a lot of things, but that included,” she shared.

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By age 15, Paris attempted suicide “multiple times” and in 2019 she was admitted at a treatment facility. “It was just self-hatred…Low self-esteem, thinking that I couldn’t do anything right, not thinking I was worthy of living anymore.”

Today, she’s a successful musician who follows into her father’s footsteps. Over the years, she has also walked the runway for famous brands such as Chanel. Paris is a member of the band The Soundflowers.

“Everyone in my family does music. I mean, I’m a Jackson,” she said in 2020. “It makes sense that I’m a musician but like, a Jackson doing folk indie?”

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Paris is very close to her brothers and looks up to Prince. “He’s everything to me, you know?” In 2020, she told People of her relationship with her older brother. “I’ve always looked up to him and always wanted his approval and everything, and wanted to be more like him.”

He loves and supports his younger sister as much. “Basically, as a person, she is who my dad is. The only thing that’s different would be her age and her gender,” he said of Paris, adding that she’s similar to her father “in all of her strengths, and almost all of her weaknesses as well. She’s very passionate.”

The physical appearance of the King of Pop underwent significant changes over the course of his life and many accused him of bleaching his skin, which was considerably darker in his younger days, but he claimed he had never done anything to his skin and that it turning white was a result of Vitiligo, during an Oprah interview in 1993.

“I am proud of my race. I am proud of who I am,” Jackson told Winfrey at the time.

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Back in 2017, speaking of herself, Paris told Rolling Stone magazine she “considers [herself] black,” and that “[Michael] would look me in the eyes and he’d point his finger at me and he’d be like, ‘You’re black. Be proud of your roots.’”

“Most people that don’t know me call me white. I’ve got light skin and, especially since I’ve had my hair blond, I look like I was born in Finland or something,” she said. “And I’d be like, ‘okay, he’s my dad, why would he lie to me?’ So I just believe what he told me. [Because], to my knowledge, he’s never lied to me.”

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This declaration of race triggered criticism on Paris. Among the rest, it was host Wendy William’s that mocked Paris’ statement.

 “I get that she considers herself black and everything, but I’m just talking about the visual because you know…black is not what you call yourself, it’s what the cops see you when they got steel to your neck on the turnpike.”

She added: “It’s what they see. But that’s cute and good for her.”

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