Passing down family heirloom from one generation to another isn’t just a tradition but a promise that one is never willing to break.
A woman shared a story of how this beautiful tradition turned ugly because of her new husband’s demand.
Asking whether she was right or wrong, she turned to Reddit and explained that there was this precious piece of jewelry, a green emerald necklace, that has been passed down to the eldest child of the family on their fourteenth birthday. This tradition existed for many years.
The 35-year-old woman further added that her daughter Emily would be turning 14 in January 2024, and that she has been planing to give the necklace to her, as she always wanted.
However, some two years ago, OP tied the knot to her husband Joey, who also has a daughter, Sophia, who’s around the same age as Emily.
One day, while discussing Christmas gifts, Joey mentioned something that made OP’s blood boil. He suggested that she give the necklace to Sophia and that it would mean a lot to his daughter because it would show that OP truly accepts Sophia as her own daughter.
The woman explained that Emily knew of the tradition and that she was already looking forward to the necklace, but Joey insisted.
What’s most, he called her self-centered and told her that if her daughter really wanted a necklace she could simply order one on Amazon for her.
Despite his constant insisting, OP said she won’t be giving the necklace to Sophia, but her husband got mad and gave her the silent treatment. He even shared what happened with his mother and sister who supported him and told him his wife was selfish and biased.
The woman asked fellow Redditors to give her advice, and as expected, most of them were in her favor.
“You’re not favoring one kid over another. Emily is your kid and the necklace is hers. Your [stepdaughter] is not entitled to anything. I would have told him that his daughter can get the knockoff from Amazon if it’s that important to him,” one user wrote.
They then added: “That being said, you need to put the necklace in a safe place like a box in the bank or something because trust me, as soon as Emily has it, it’s going to ‘disappear’ or be broken by ‘accident.’”
“It needs to be locked up in a safe place so that neither your [stepdaughter] nor your husband can get their hands on it. I would sit down with Emily and explain why you are doing so and that while you consider it hers, it’s best to keep it safe,” another person wrote.
Patricia Krentcil: The Evolution of “Tan Mom”
Obsterscence dominates our lives and can provide long -term results, especially in our health. Patricia Clantis is a person who knows him well. Her tanning obsession has led her to internet fame, but it’s also brought her dangerously close to death with a condition called anorexia.
When Patricia was younger, tanning became an important part of her life: she would visit tanning salons five days a week and spend hours in the booths to achieve the perfect tan. This obsession intensified when she was accused of taking her 6-year-old daughter to a tanning salon and endangering her health.The incident made Patricia an internet sensation, with media outlets dubbing her “Tan Mama.” But it also shed light on the condition of tanorexia, where individuals become addicted to tanning and are unaware of just how much color they have. Health professionals warned of the dangers of excessive tanning and its link to skin cancer.
Despite the controversy, Patricia maintained her innocence, claiming that her daughter had been burned while playing outside. The charges against her were eventually dropped, but the public scrutiny took a toll on her and her family. They decided to start anew and moved to Florida.Unfortunately, Patricia’s struggles were far from over. In June 2019, she fell gravely ill due to complications from pneumonia. She was placed on life support, but thankfully, she pulled through. Today, Patricia is doing much better, although the scars from her past tanning are still visible.
In an interview, Patricia expressed that she no longer dwells on the negative aspects of her past. She has embraced her status as “Tan Mom” and even continues to tan twice a week in her own tanning bed. She sees herself as two separate people – Tan Mom, the celebrity, and Patricia Marie, the mom.The story of “Tan Mom” sparks a debate about the existence of tanning salons. Some may argue that they should be shut down due to their potential health risks, while others believe it should be a personal choice. What are your thoughts on this issue?
Regardless of where you stand on the matter, Patricia Krentcil’s journey serves as a reminder of the importance of moderation and self-awareness. Let’s be mindful of our obsessions and ensure they don’t overshadow the other crucial aspects of our lives.Please share this article with your friends and family on Facebook and let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
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