My story is about how my ex-husband’s girlfriend realized a truth about him that I grew too comfortable with while married to him. With one important question, his new girlfriend taught me a valuable lesson about self-love after reaching out unexpectedly.
I’ve been divorced for five years now, and it’s been an interesting journey navigating life post-marriage. My ex-husband, Ben, 48, and I, 45, were together for 13 years and had two wonderful kids. Even after our split, we’ve managed to stay on good terms.
We co-parent effectively despite our marriage having its ups and downs. Ben and I are best friends and have also maintained a friendship that surprises most people. Our divorce wasn’t messy; we simply wanted different things out of life.
Yesterday was our eldest’s 16th birthday, and we decided to celebrate with a family dinner. Ben has been seeing someone new, a woman named Lisa, for about four months. He told me about her as soon as their relationship got serious.
Transparency was part of our agreement to keep things open and honest for the sake of our children. He asked if he could bring Lisa to the birthday dinner, and while I wasn’t thrilled as I would have preferred to meet her one-on-one first, I didn’t want to cause any drama or be intrusive. So, I agreed.
On that fateful day, I finally got to meet Lisa who was friendly, and eager to make a good impression, which was a relief. I preferred her to be a good person if she was going to be around my children.
She’s got a kind smile and she immediately struck up a conversation with me about the kids’ school and activities. I could tell she was trying hard to fit in, which I appreciated.
As the evening went on, I noticed how attentive Lisa was to Ben. It was sweet but also a little unsettling because I never saw that side of him during our marriage. I chalked it up to new relationship energy and tried to focus on the kids and the celebration.
Halfway through dinner, things got weird when my eldest handed me a birthday card from her father. This caught me off guard because my birthday was months ago. No one usually remembers it, and Ben has never been one to recall such occasions.
Don’t get me wrong, my children’s father is a great man. But he’s really terrible with things like anniversaries, birthdays, or any special occasions. During all the years we were together, Ben never got me a present or card.
It was also my responsibility to handle events like the kids’ birthdays, Christmas, and more. I don’t know if I was wrong for this, but his forgetfulness didn’t bother me. I thanked my daughter, feeling touched by the gesture.
Lisa, sitting across from me, saw my surprise. I had assumed she’d made him get it, but then I noticed how she was giving me these funny looks. Unsure what they meant, I decided to mingle with other guests to avoid the awkwardness.
But, Lisa somehow managed to get my attention. “Ben mentioned he’s not great with birthdays,” she said with a chuckle. “He forgot mine a few weeks ago. Is it intentional?”
I laughed, remembering all the missed anniversaries and forgotten special days. “I have no idea, Lisa, but 13 years of marriage and two kids wasn’t the benchmark because he never really got the hang of it,” I replied. “It’s just who he is.”
Lisa seemed disappointed and tried to hide it, but I thought nothing of it and wandered off to talk to other guests. I decided to shift the conversation to something lighter and talked about family plans and the upcoming holidays. The rest of the evening went smoothly, and we all parted ways with smiles and hugs.
Later that night, as I was getting ready for bed, I received a text from an unknown number. It was my ex’s new girlfriend. “Hi, this is Lisa. I got your number from Ben. I hope it’s okay to text you. I wanted to ask you something.”
Curious, I replied, “Sure, what’s up?”
Her response came quickly and when I read it, I was STUNNED. She hadn’t gotten over our brief conversation earlier and was asking if Ben’s forgetfulness of special occasions was something that could be fixed. “I know this might seem odd because we touched on it earlier, but I need to know…”
“…Does Ben ever improve when it comes to birthdays and anniversaries? I don’t want to make a big deal out of it if it’s something that won’t change.” I stared at my phone, feeling a mix of emotions. Part of me wanted to warn her, to tell her not to ever expect much.
But another part of me debated whether to give Ben a heads-up as it seemed like this was a serious issue for his new girlfriend and that she expected more attention to such things. Yet, a part of me resented having to teach him to be better about something he never tried with me.
I also felt like it wasn’t my place to interfere. After a moment, I typed back, “Honestly, he’s my ex for a reason. I can’t say if he’ll change or not, and I’m not going to have the answers you need.” I continued, “It’s something you’ll have to figure out together. Lovely meeting you, though.”
Months went by without much thought about that night. Then, one evening, Ben called me out of the blue. “Lisa and I broke up,” he said, sounding frustrated.
“What happened?” I asked, genuinely curious.
“She kept making a big deal out of nothing, busy complaining about birthdays and anniversaries. I told her it’s not something I care about, and she just wouldn’t let it go,” he said, sounding furious.
“It turned into this huge argument when I forgot our anniversary, and she left,” he explained, his voice tinged with annoyance.
I sighed, feeling a twinge of guilt as I wondered if I could’ve helped them if I had been more supportive of Lisa when she texted me. “Ben, did she tell you it was important to her?” I asked, feeling like my responses to Lisa played a part in their breakup.
He was silent for a moment. “She told me on many occasions that such things were important to her.”
“But WHO CARES! You never made it a big deal,” he said defensively.
Tired of coddling him, I said, “Well, sir, and that’s why we divorced.”
“That’s mean, Kim,” my ex replied, sounding sad.
“Look, I’m sorry, but I stopped trying because I knew it wouldn’t matter to you,” I replied calmly. “But that doesn’t mean it wasn’t important to me. Or to her. You have to meet people halfway.”
Ben grumbled something under his breath, and I could tell he wasn’t ready to accept that truth. We ended the call on a neutral note, and I sat there, thinking about Lisa. She deserved someone who would appreciate her efforts and reciprocate her feelings.
A few days later, I bumped into Lisa at the grocery store. She looked tired but managed a smile when she saw me. “Hi, how are you?” she asked politely.
“I’m good, thanks. How about you?” I replied, genuinely concerned.
“I’ve been better,” she admitted. “Ben and I broke up.”
“I heard,” I said softly. “I’m sorry it didn’t work out.”
She sighed. “I couldn’t deal with feeling unimportant. I tried to explain it to him, but he didn’t seem to care.”
I nodded, understanding her frustration all too well. “It’s hard when someone doesn’t value what you do. You deserve someone who will.”
Lisa smiled sadly. “Thanks. I appreciate that. I guess I hoped he could change.”
“Change is hard for some people,” I said gently. “But don’t lose hope. You’ll find someone who values you.”
We parted ways, and I felt a strange sense of closure. Lisa’s struggle mirrored my past frustrations, but it also highlighted how much I had grown since my marriage ended. I had learned to accept Ben’s flaws, but I also realized that I deserved more than what he was willing to give.
That evening, I sat down with my children and talked about their dad. I wanted them to understand that while he had his shortcomings, he loved them deeply. We laughed about his forgetfulness and shared stories of the good times we had as a family.
As I reflected on everything, I felt a deep sense of peace. I had moved on from the hurt and disappointment and was ready to embrace whatever the future held. I hoped Lisa would find the happiness she deserved, and I knew that I had done the right thing by not getting too involved in their relationship.
In the end, it wasn’t about birthdays or anniversaries. It was about finding someone who truly valued and appreciated you for who you are. I did not doubt that Lisa would find that person someday, and I knew I was finally content with my own life.
As I looked at my children, I felt grateful for the love and joy they brought into my life. We had our good and bad moments, but we were a family, and that was what mattered most. And as for Ben, I hoped he would eventually learn to value the important things in life.
For now, I was happy. I had my kids, friends, and a sense of peace I hadn’t felt in a long time. And that was more than enough.
If you enjoyed Kim’s story, you’ll love this one about a woman who got pregnant around the same time her son’s girlfriend was also expecting. The son’s girlfriend caused a rift in the family when she made demands of his mother about naming her child.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.
I Found My Wife Locked in the Cellar When I Returned Home from a Business Trip
When Michael returned home early from a business trip, he expected a warm family reunion, not an empty house and eerie silence. His wife was missing, only to be found locked in the cellar, with a shocking story that pointed to a betrayal he never saw coming.
It was supposed to be a regular business trip, but I managed to wrap things up early. I couldn’t wait to get home to my wife and kids. I imagined the look on their faces when they saw me walk through the door, two days ahead of schedule. The thought made me smile as I drove up our quiet street.
Michael driving home | Source: Midjourney
I’m 32, and my wife, Emma, is 27. We’ve been married for seven years, and we have two kids—Liam, who’s 8, and Sophie, who just turned 5. Emma stays home with them, handling the endless list of chores and making sure the house runs smoothly. I work long hours, so these surprise homecomings are my way of showing them I’m still around, still present in our family life.
I pulled into the driveway, noticing how still the house was. Strange, since it was a Saturday, and the kids should have been playing outside or watching TV. I grabbed my bag, eager to see them, and walked to the front door.
An empty house | Source: Midjourney
“Emma? Liam? Sophie?” I called out as I stepped inside, expecting their excited voices to greet me. But there was nothing—just silence.
I began searching the house. “Emma?” I called again, louder this time, checking every room. The kids’ rooms were empty, their beds neatly made. The bathroom, the living room—nothing. My heart started to race. Where were they?
An empty kid’s room | Source: Midjourney
As I stepped into the garage, I heard it. A faint noise, like someone banging on a door. I froze, listening hard. The sound was coming from the cellar.
“Help!” It was Emma’s voice, muffled but desperate. I bolted toward the cellar door, my heart pounding.
“Emma! I’m here! Hold on!” I shouted, fumbling with the lock. The door creaked open, and I saw her at the bottom of the stairs, her face pale, her eyes wide with fear.
Michael trying to unlock the cellar | Source: Midjourney
“Oh my God, Emma! What happened? Where are the kids?” I blurted out, rushing down the stairs to her.
Emma’s hands shook as she tried to catch her breath. “It’s—it’s your mother,” she stammered, her voice trembling.
“My mother? What are you talking about?” My mind was spinning. This didn’t make any sense.
Scared Emma | Source: Midjourney
“She came over… with the kids. We were playing hide and seek, and I hid down here. But then—” Emma paused, her eyes filling with tears. “I heard the door lock. I couldn’t get out. I was stuck here for hours. I thought—” She broke off, sobbing.
I pulled her into a hug, trying to calm her down. But my mind was reeling. My mother? Locking Emma in the cellar? Why would she do that? And where were Liam and Sophie?
“We need to find the kids,” I said, my voice firmer now, trying to focus on the immediate problem.
Emma nodded, wiping her tears. “We need to go to your mother’s house. That’s where they’ll be. She—she took them there.”
“Alright,” I said, still in shock but trying to stay composed. “Let’s go.”
Scared Emma talking to Michael | Source: Midjourney
I helped her up the stairs, both of us moving quickly but cautiously. We needed answers, and we needed them now. But deep down, I feared the answers we were about to get would only lead to more questions.
As we left the house and got into the car, the weight of what Emma had said sank in. If my mother was behind this, what had really happened while I was gone? And more importantly, what was I going to do about it?
Concerned Michael | Source: Midjourney
We drove in silence, the tension between us thickening with every passing mile. I didn’t know what to say. I didn’t know what to think. All I knew was that things were about to get a lot more complicated.
As we sped toward my mother’s house, Emma finally began to calm down enough to talk. Her voice was still shaky, but she was determined to explain.
Sad Emma | Source: Midjourney
“It all started when your mom came over yesterday,” Emma said, staring out the window. “She wanted to take the kids for the weekend, but I told her no. We had plans, and I thought it would be better if they stayed home.”
I nodded, listening carefully, though my mind was racing. This was the first I’d heard about any of this. Emma went on, her voice tightening with anger.
Mother-in-law talking to Sophie | Source: Midjourney
“She seemed fine at first, but then she suggested playing hide-and-seek. I thought it was just a game, so I went along with it. I hid in the cellar, thinking it’d be the perfect spot. But then… I heard the door close. And the lock. I was stuck. I yelled and pounded on the door, but no one came.”
Emma paused, her hands gripping her knees. “It was hours before I heard anything. I was scared, angry, and confused. I couldn’t understand why your mom would do this to me. Then it hit me. She was punishing me because I wouldn’t let the kids go with her.”
Scared Emma in the cellar | Source: Midjourney
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. My mother? Doing something like this? It didn’t add up. But Emma was clearly convinced. “I was down there for fifteen hours, Mike. Fifteen hours with nothing but my thoughts, thinking she did this to me on purpose.”
My heart sank. This was serious. But I couldn’t wrap my head around it. My mom loved Emma—or at least, I thought she did. How could she lock her in a cellar out of spite?
Upset Michael driving | Source: Midjourney
We arrived at my mother’s house. The sight of Liam and Sophie playing in the front yard was a small relief, but it didn’t last. Emma was already out of the car, marching up to the front door. I hurried after her, the tension between us like a storm about to break.
My mother opened the door, her face lighting up with surprise. “Michael! What a surprise! I didn’t know you were coming home early!”
But before I could respond, Emma burst out, “Why did you do it? Why did you lock me in the cellar?”
Emma shouting at her mother-in-law | Source: Midjourney
My mother’s smile faded instantly, replaced by a look of genuine confusion. “What are you talking about? I didn’t lock you in the cellar. I would never—”
“Don’t lie!” Emma’s voice cracked with emotion. “I know it was you. You wanted the kids to come here, and when I said no, you… you left me there!”
“Emma, calm down,” I said, though I was struggling to keep my own emotions in check. I turned to my mother, searching her face for any sign that she was hiding something. “Mom, did you lock Emma in the cellar?”
Angry Michael | Source: Midjourney
My mother looked horrified. “Of course not! I swear, Michael, I have no idea what she’s talking about.”
Before I could say anything else, a small voice interrupted us. “Mommy?”
We all turned to see Sophie standing in the doorway, looking up at us with wide eyes. “Mommy, are you mad?”
Sad Sophie in the doorway | Source: Midjourney
Emma knelt down, trying to soften her tone. “Sophie, honey, did Grandma do something? Did she lock Mommy in the cellar?”
Sophie shook her head quickly. “No, Mommy. It was me.”
The words hung in the air, and for a moment, none of us could speak. Finally, I managed, “What do you mean, sweetheart?”
Sophie’s eyes filled with tears. “Liam and I wanted to go to Grandma’s. But you said no, so I… I locked you in the cellar. I thought… I thought if you weren’t there, we could go.”
My mother gasped, putting a hand to her mouth. “Oh, Sophie, why didn’t you tell me?”
“I didn’t want you to be mad at me,” Sophie sniffled. “I told Grandma you went to a friend’s house, so we could stay here.”
Sophie crying | Source: Midjourney
I felt a mix of emotions—relief that my mother wasn’t guilty, but also frustration at the mess this had all turned into. Emma looked like she didn’t know whether to be angry or heartbroken.
“Sophie,” I said gently, “locking someone up is very serious. You scared Mommy a lot.”
“I’m sorry,” Sophie whispered, clinging to Emma. “I didn’t mean to make you sad.”
Emma hugged her tightly, and I could see the tension starting to ease from her shoulders. But the bigger issue remained.
Emma hugging Sophie | Source: Midjourney
“Mom,” I said, turning back to my mother, “we need to talk. This can’t happen again. We need to figure out how to move forward, for everyone’s sake. Or else…”
My mother nodded, still looking shaken. “Of course, Michael. I never wanted any of this.”
Emma stood up, holding Sophie’s hand. “I don’t want to fight, but we need to set some boundaries. I don’t want the kids caught in the middle of this.”
Emma and Michael having a serious talk | Source: Midjourney
I knew this was just the beginning of a long conversation. But as we all sat down together, I felt a cautious optimism. It wouldn’t be easy, but we were a family. And somehow, we’d find a way through this.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.
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