Most adults know that being a grown-up isn’t as simple as it seems to a child.
Kids might see things like food in the fridge, a comfy home, and unlimited internet, but they often don’t understand the work it takes to have those things. One mom decided to teach her disrespectful son a funny, “real world” lesson to show him that “nothing comes for free.”
In 2015, Heidi Johnson was struggling with her defiant 13-year-old son, Aaron. She explained that Aaron “wanted the benefits of growing up without the responsibility that comes with it.”
Aaron had started making a little bit of money as a YouTuber and thought he didn’t have to follow his mom’s rules about doing his homework. He even stormed out of her room, saying he was a “free person” because he was “making money.”
In response to his behavior, the single mother wrote a “tough love” letter to Aaron and shared it on Facebook. Almost ten years later, her post has gone viral again.
Johnson’s note begins, “Since you seem to have forgotten that you’re only 13, and I’m the parent, and that you don’t want to be controlled, I guess you need a lesson in independence.” In what she called a “roommate contract,” she laid out the rules Aaron would need to follow if he wanted to act like an adult.
She continued, “Since you’re earning money now, it should be easier for you to pay back for everything I’ve bought for you.” Johnson added that if he wanted things like his lamp, lightbulbs, or access to the internet, he’d have to pay his part of the costs.
In her letter, Johnson listed the conditions Aaron would need to follow, including paying for rent and utilities. She also expected him to cook his own meals and help with regular cleaning around the house.
Johnson signed the letter, “Love, Mom.”
Taking Action
Living in Venice, Italy, Johnson shared that when Aaron saw the letter taped to his door, he crumpled it up, threw it on the floor, and stormed out of their apartment.
Johnson felt he just needed some time to think—and she used that time to start taking back some of the things from his room.
Once Aaron had time to think, he asked his mom what he could do to start re-earning his privileges. He even gathered more items from his room and handed them to her, asking how he could earn them back.
Johnson explained that this was never about making him pay her back; it was about teaching him to understand the cost of things. Aaron quickly realized he couldn’t afford rent, utilities, or food on his own.
Online commenters supported her approach, praising her for her creative discipline style. One person wrote, “Great job! Nothing in the agreement is harsh, but it will teach him a lesson he’ll remember.” Another said, “You’re an amazing mom for giving your son a chance to learn and grow.” A third comment added, “Bravo for being a parent and not just a maid.”
Some people accused her of publicly shaming her son. In response, Johnson wrote another post saying she was “not ashamed” of what she did.
“A teenager will push their limits,” she explained. “They’re in a stage where they’re stepping into adulthood but still rooted in childhood… I can’t send this child into college or the workforce with an attitude of ‘I’ll get to it when I feel like it’ when a boss asks him to get a job done. That’s how the real world works.”
Johnson ended by saying, “Nothing in life is free. Somewhere, someone is making a sacrifice.”
Who is the boy from the movie “Wonder,” what does he look like without makeup, and what does he do?
At such a young age, this actor rose to fame not only in the hit picture “Wonder,” but also in a number of other well-known movies. Although it is obviously impossible to comprehend and visualize how this man seems in real life due to his makeup, he continues to gain fame and popularity on the social media platform Instagram, where he has amassed over 800 thousand followers.
Our hero is a man by the name of Jacob Tremblay, and he was born in Canada on October 5, 2006. His mother works as a homemaker, while his father is a police officer. Jacob also has two sisters, both of whom have acted in motion pictures.
The younger one, Erica, may be seen in the television series Supernatural, while the elder one, Emma, featured in the action movie Elysium: Paradise is Not on Earth.
At the age of 7, Jacob made his television debut in the family comedy “Smurfs 2.” But more than anything, his fans adored him following the success of the film “Room,” in which he and Brie Larson shared the lead role. By the way, “Room” has received several Oscar nominations.
Later, they played parts in the television series The Last Man on Earth and the film Somnia.
The young actor played Auggie in the 2017 movie “Wonder,” for which he visited a children’s craniofacial center and met kids who shared his character’s affliction.
At the age of 13, Jacob has already been in over 20 films and television programs. However, his career is only advancing, and we are confident that we will frequently witness new films with his flawless involvement.
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