The woman was shocked when her Uber driver uninvitedly offered advise on how to take care of her beautiful skin.
The “Queen of the Dark,” as the fashion diva was affectionately called, laughed off his comments and embraced her breathtaking beauty.
Continue reading to find out what this Uber driver said her and how she utilized it as a teaching moment!
Nyakim Gatwech, who spent her early years in refugee camps in Ethiopia and Kenya, thought that living in America would “be like heaven.”
But when Gatwech moved to Buffalo at the age of 14, she stayed by herself a lot, crying over comments made about her very dark skin tone.
“You don’t wash your hair. Because of this, your skin is filthy.Or, “Nyakim, smile so we can see you. You are invisible to us. You have dirty skin as a result. Or grin for us to see you, Nyakim. We cannot see you.
In class, for example, the instructor might ask a question and say, “Oh, Nyakim, can you answer that?””How about a toddler asking, “Who are you talking to?”? We cannot see her. She’s not here. The now 31-year-old woman says, “I would just cry, and the whole class would start laughing,” as reported by Cosmopolitan.
The innocent young girl just wanted to fit in, but it was difficult when random people were speculating about whether or not she was indeed that dark-skinned and whether or not she was wearing leggings.
I did think about [bleaching my skin] at one time. I was 14 years old when I fled an African refugee camp and moved to Buffalo, New York. The beauty admits, “After being teased [about my skin], I would cry myself to sleep.””So many stunning Sudanese women with dark skin tones bleach their skin.”
The model continued by saying that her own sister was one of the Sudanese ladies who had bleached her skin.”It was my own sister.” However, after a few months of living in America, I told her that I wanted to, and she said no. I will not allow my kid, you, or anyone else to do it.
Dark Queen
The woman, who has encountered prejudice from makeup artists, designers, and other models, is now referred to as the Queen of the Dark and feels strong since she has triumphed over the criticism.
Additionally, Gatwech’s 962,000 dedicated Instagram fans encourage her self-assurance and amazing fondness for her deep chocolate skin tone.
“My chocolate is sophisticated. Thus, I stand for this. A country of fighters,” she writes in one of her posts.
And the incredibly beautiful woman’s admirers can’t get enough of her.
One fan writes, “Omgggggg I love your skin and melanin,” while another exclaims, “I love your beautiful skin tone so much!” God creates exquisite things like you to serve as a constant reminder of His majesty.
In response to the tremendous outpouring of love, Gatwech adds, “I learned to love myself.I’m not troubled by the negative anymore. I love and embrace my skin, and I no longer feel insecure about it. I no longer believe I’m ugly. I am confident in who I am.
“The silliest queries”
Speaking about her odd skin, Gatwech recounts about meeting an Uber driver a few years ago who asked if she would ever consider whitening it.
“Oh, you’re dark,” he remarked.Gatwech describes her chat with the driver to Cosmopolitan.”I merely chuckled. I was curious as to why he felt that I ought to. He said that because it would make my life simpler. If I were lighter, I could get into a relationship more easily and guys would be more drawn to me. I’m lighter, so if I went to a job interview, I would receive the opportunity. I just responded, “I’d rather take the [hard] road, even if] being lighter would make my life easier.”
The woman goes on, “I’m used to people asking the stupidest questions ever [about my skin].”
Gatwech then shared the story on Instagram along with a stunning picture of herself with three other stunning dark-skinned Sudanese women.
“A country with people so dark you won’t believe your eyes,” the author writes. Teeth so brilliant, skin so rich. Oh, how I cherish my nation, my people, and all that it entails.
“[SIC] I was asking my Uber driver the other day, and he said, don’t take this personally, but would you bleach your skin for ten thousand dollars?” she says, going on to describe her interaction with the driver. I couldn’t even respond because I was laughing so much.He then responded, “So that’s a no,” to which I replied, “Hell to the f*king yeah, that’s a no, why would I ever bleach this gorgeous melanin that God bless with me?””So you see it as a blessing,” he continued.
Her backers applauded Gatwech right away and raced to her defense.
“I suppose he missed the memo.”Black is gorgeous,” an admirer writes.
Another person says, “I cherish you for cherishing me.”A third wonders, “Why would we ever want to mess up something so beautiful?”
Asking Yahoo Beauty for guidance, she said, “You are beautiful, you are unique, and there are people who love you just the way you are” to young black girls suffering comparable struggles. It’s said that the juice of a cherry is sweeter the darker it is. Accept your gloom!
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I Married My School Teacher – What Happened on Our First Night Shocked Me to the Core
I never expected to see my high school teacher years later in the middle of a crowded farmers’ market. But there he was, calling my name like no time had passed. What started as a polite conversation quickly turned into something I never could’ve imagined.
When I was in high school, Mr. Harper was the teacher everyone adored. Fresh out of university, he had a knack for making ancient history sound like a Netflix series. He was energetic, funny, and maybe a little too good-looking for a teacher.
Young male teacher in a classroom | Source: Midjourney
For most of us, he was the “cool teacher,” the one who made you feel like learning was less of a chore. For me, he was just Mr. Harper—a kind, funny adult who always had time for his students.
“Claire, great analysis on the Declaration of Independence essay,” he told me once after class. “You’ve got a sharp mind. Ever thought about law school?”
Student handing her assignment to her teacher | Source: Midjourney
I remember shrugging awkwardly, tucking my notebook against my chest. “I don’t know… Maybe? History’s just… easier than math.”
He chuckled. “Trust me, math is easier when you don’t overthink it. History, though? That’s where the stories are. You’re good at finding the stories.”
At 16, it didn’t mean much to me. He was just a teacher doing his job. But I’d be lying if I said his words didn’t stick.
Life happened after that. I graduated, moved to the city, and left those high school memories behind. Or so I thought.
High school graduate | Source: Midjourney
Fast forward eight years later. I was 24 and back in my sleepy hometown, wandering through the farmers’ market when a familiar voice stopped me in my tracks.
“Claire? Is that you?”
I turned around, and there he was. Except now, he wasn’t “Mr. Harper.” He was just Leo.
“Mr. Har—I mean, Leo?” I stumbled over the words, feeling my cheeks heat.
His grin widened, the same as it always had been, but with a little more ease, a little more charm. “You don’t have to call me ‘Mr.’ anymore.”
It was surreal—standing there with the man who used to grade my essays, now laughing with me like an old friend. If only I’d known how much that moment would change my life.
People having a chat at a farmer’s market | Source: Midjourney
“You still teaching?” I asked, balancing a basket of fresh vegetables on my hip.
“Yeah,” Leo said, his hands stuffed into the pockets of his jacket. “Different school now, though. Teaching high school English these days.”
“English?” I teased. “What happened to history? “
He laughed, a deep, easy sound. “Well, turns out I’m better at discussing literature.”
What struck me wasn’t just how much older he looked—it was how much lighter he seemed. Less the energetic rookie teacher, more the confident man who’d found his rhythm.
People having a chat at a farmer’s market | Source: Midjourney
As we talked, the conversation didn’t just flow—it danced. He told me about his years teaching the students who drove him crazy but made him proud, and the stories that stayed with him. I shared my time in the city: the chaotic jobs, the failed relationships, and my dream of starting a small business someday.
“You’d be amazing at that,” he said over coffee two weeks later. “The way you described that idea? I could practically see it.”
“You’re just saying that,” I laughed, but his steady gaze made me pause.
“No, I mean it,” he said, his voice soft but insistent. “You’ve got the drive, Claire. You just need the chance.”
People at a coffee date | Source: Midjourney
By the time we reached our third dinner—this one at a cozy bistro lit by soft candlelight—I realized something. The age gap? Seven years. The connection? Instant. The feeling? Unexpected.
“I’m starting to think you’re just using me for free history trivia,” I joked as he paid the check.
“Busted,” he said with a grin, leaning in closer. “Though I might have ulterior motives.”
The air shifted, a current of something unspoken but undeniable passing between us. My heart raced, and I broke the silence with a whisper.
“What kind of motives?”
“Guess you’ll have to stick around and find out.”
Couple on a dinner date | Source: Getty Images
A year later, we stood under the sprawling oak tree in my parents’ backyard, surrounded by fairy lights, the laughter of friends, and the quiet rustle of leaves. It was a small, simple wedding, just as we wanted.
As I slipped the gold band onto Leo’s finger, I couldn’t help but smile. This wasn’t the kind of love story I’d ever imagined for myself, but it felt right in every way.
Bride and Groom exchanging vows on their wedding day | Source: Midjourney
That night, after the last guest left and the house had fallen into a peaceful hush, Leo and I finally had a moment to ourselves. We sat in the dim light of the living room, still dressed in our wedding clothes, shoes kicked off, champagne glasses in hand.
“I have something for you,” he said, breaking the comfortable silence.
I raised an eyebrow, intrigued. “A gift? On top of marrying me? Bold move.”
He laughed softly and pulled a small, worn leather notebook from behind his back. “I thought you might like this.”
I took it, running my fingers over the cracked cover. “What is this?”
An old small note book | Source: Midjourney
“Open it,” he urged, his voice tinged with something I couldn’t quite place—nervousness? Excitement?
Flipping the cover open, I immediately recognized the messy scrawl on the first page. My handwriting. My heart skipped. “Wait… is this my old dream journal?”
He nodded, grinning like a kid confessing a well-kept secret. “You wrote it in my history class. Remember? That assignment where you had to imagine your future?”
“I completely forgot about this!” I laughed, though my cheeks flushed with embarrassment. “You kept it?”
Bride smiling while looking at her journal | Source: Midjourney
“Not on purpose,” he admitted, rubbing the back of his neck. “When I switched schools, I found it in a box of old papers. I wanted to throw it out, but… I couldn’t. It was too good.”
“Good?” I flipped through the pages, reading fragments of teenage dreams. Starting a business. Traveling to Paris. Making a difference. “This is just the ramblings of a high schooler.”
“No,” Leo said, his voice firm but gentle. “It’s the map to the life you’re going to have. I kept it because it reminded me how much potential you had. And I wanted to see it come true.”
Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney
I stared at him, my throat tightening. “You really think I can do all this?”
His hand covered mine. “I don’t think. I know. And I’ll be here, every step of the way.”
Tears welled in my eyes as I clutched the notebook to my chest. “Leo… you’re kind of ruining me right now.”
He smirked. “Good. That’s my job.”
That night, as I lay in bed, the worn leather notebook resting on my lap, I couldn’t shake the feeling that my life was about to change in ways I couldn’t yet comprehend. Leo’s arm was draped over me, his steady breathing warm against my shoulder.
Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney
I stared at the notebook, its pages brimming with dreams I’d long since forgotten, and felt something shift deep inside me.
“Why didn’t you tell me you had this sooner?” I whispered, breaking the silence.
He stirred slightly but didn’t lift his head. “Because I didn’t want to pressure you,” he murmured sleepily. “You had to find your way back to those dreams on your own.”
I ran my fingers over the pages, my teenage handwriting almost foreign to me. “But… what if I fail?”
Leo propped himself up on one elbow, his eyes meeting mine in the dim light. “Claire, failing isn’t the worst thing. Never trying? That’s worse.”
His words lingered long after he drifted back to sleep. By morning, I’d made up my mind.
Woman having coffee while seated on her bed | Source: Midjourney
Over the next few weeks, I began tearing down the walls I’d built around myself. I quit the desk job I’d never loved and threw myself into the idea that had lived rent-free in my head for years: a bookstore café. Leo became my rock, standing by me through late nights, financial hiccups, and my relentless self-doubt.
“Do you think people will actually come here?” I asked him one night as we painted the walls of the shop.
He leaned on the ladder, smirking. “You’re kidding, right? A bookstore with coffee? You’ll have people lining up just to smell the place.”
He wasn’t wrong. By the time we opened, it wasn’t just a business—it was a part of the community. And it was ours.
People at a bookstore with coffee shop. | Source: Midjourney
Now, as I sit behind the counter of our thriving bookstore café, watching Leo help our toddler pick up crayons from the floor, I think back to that notebook—the spark that reignited a fire in me I didn’t know had gone out.
Leo glanced up, catching my eye. “What’s that look for?” he asked, grinning.
“Nothing,” I said, my heart full. “Just thinking… I really did marry the right teacher.”
“Damn right, you did,” he said, winking.
Happy couple gazing into each other’s eyes | Source: Midjourney
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