In 2010, Sandra Bullock received a phone call that changed her life forever. “Your placement is here,” said the voice on the other end.
A few weeks later, she was on a stage, accepting her first Oscar for her appearance in The Blind Side, but she didn’t care she was there. “All I wanted was to go was just go home and feed Lou” she said of her newborn, whom she had been waiting for years to arrive.
Keep reading to learn more about this incredible actor and what inspired her to adopt two children!
In 2005, after Hurricane Katrina devastated Louisiana by flooding its grounds, Sandra Bullock had a feeling that inspired her decision to adopt a child.
“Katrina happened in New Orleans, and something told me, ‘My child is there.’ It was weird,” Bullock said in an interview with Today’s Hoda Kotb.
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Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
“He was unexpected, he was not planned. I got a call one day, ‘Your placement is here,’ and that’s after years after having filed it, years,” the 59-year-old star of Speed tells CBS News.
Little Lou
Gushing over Louis Bardo Bullock, the three-month-old boy from New Orleans she secretly adopted in 2010, Bullock said, “I looked at him likе, ‘Oh, there you are.’ It was likе he had always been there,” she recalled. “He fit in the crook of my arm. He looked me in the eyes. He was wise. My child was wise.”
The Miss Congeniality star adds, “The beautiful thing that I was constantly told was, ‘The perfect child will find you. You will find your child.’ But you don’t believe that when it’s not happening. When you’re going, ‘Where is my family?’ When it does happen, you know exactly what they’re talking about.”
Weeks after Lou arrived, Bullock was on stage at the Kodiak Theatre, accepting her first Oscar for her starring role in the film, The Blind Side.
But Lou owned her center stage and she wanted to be at home, with him.
“All I kept thinking about was, ‘He’s at home.’ Like, I didn’t care. I didn’t care that I was there, I just wanted to go home. And then I was sewn in the dress. I was sewn in the dress, and I had to get myself out of the dress, but all I wanted to do was just go home and feed Lou.”
Only days after, her marriage to reality star Jesse James came crashing down and Bullock became a single mother to an infant.
Bullock said, “I mean, so much had happened. How do you process grief and not hurt your child in the process? It’s a newborn, they take on everything that you’re feeling. So, my obligation was to [Lou] and not tainting the first year of his life with my grief.”
‘Louis’ got the stage’
“No one understands the shift in priorities about having a child in your life … until you have a child in your life,” Bullock said of shifting her focus from career to mom. “It naturally shifts…he showed up and now, Louis’ got the stage.”
Growing up in a healthy, happy environment, little Lou one day looked up at mom and predicted “I’m going to have a baby soon.”
Though Bullock admits she wasn’t planning on growing her family, she listened to her son, who planted the seed.
“I realized at that time, maybe he knew something. And when I think about it, it would have been around the time that Laila was born,” Bullock said. “It’s Louis’ way. Louis has a very strong way. He’s a fine leader, and he led me to Lai.”
Laila, who was living in foster care in Louisiana, is her daughter who joined the family in 2015 when she was three.
Recalling Laila’s trаumа from being in childcare, the Ocean’s 8 star said, “She’d be in the closet with all her clothes on, she’d be on a bookshelf, she’d be hiding, she’d always be ready to leave,” the actress recalled of her daughter, adding that she always made sure Laila knew that she wasn’t “going anywhere.”
She then shаrеd a conversation she had about Laila with Bryan Randall, the father figure to her children, and her partner from 2015 until ALS claimed his life in 2023. She said, “My partner said to me, ‘When she’s been with us longer than she hasn’t been, I have a feeling we’re going to see a change.’”
He was right. Recently, Bullock described Laila as “unafraid.”
“She’s a fighter, and that’s the reason she’s here today. She fought to keep her spirit intact. Oh my God, what she is going to accomplish. She’s going to bring some real change.”
Lou, now 13, “is super sensitive…He’s wise and kind,” the Bird Box star tells People. “I saw that when they handed him to me. There was a spiritual bigness to him.”
Though fans will be disappointed, the versatile actor is scaling back her work schedule to again be a single mother.
Bullock last appeared in 2022’s The Lost City with Channing Tatum and Bullet Train with Brad Pitt.
“I can be creative, I can be part of a community, but right now, work in front of the camera needs to take a pause,” she said.
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My Coworker Unintentionally Revealed My Husband’s Affair, So I Took Immediate Action
Gina uncovers a shocking secret when a casual text from her coworker hints at her husband’s betrayal. She decides to confront the situation head-on, determined to uncover the truth. As she pieces together the clues, Gina’s life takes an unexpected turn. How will she deal with the sudden storm in her life?
I was sitting in my living room, scrolling through my phone, when a text from my friend and coworker Linda popped up.
“Hey, I’m excited about tonight’s movie double date! See you at Regal Cinema around 7 p.m.”
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I stared at my phone, confused. George had told me he had a late meeting at work tonight.
We have two kids, a boy and a girl, and our life is usually quite busy. Between George’s job and taking care of the kids, we rarely have time for dates, let alone double dates.
I texted Linda back, “What double date?”
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She replied almost instantly, “George didn’t tell you? He and Carter set it up. Don’t worry, it’ll be fun!”
My heart sank. George hadn’t mentioned anything about this. Why would he plan a double date without telling me? And who was supposed to watch the kids?
Determined to get to the bottom of this, I decided to head to the cinema. I quickly arranged for our neighbor to watch the kids for a couple of hours.
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As I got ready, I thought about our life. George and I have always been close, sharing everything about our days. Our kids keep us on our toes, but we wouldn’t have it any other way.
This sudden mystery about George’s plans felt strange and out of character.
I grabbed my phone, booked a cab, and headed out. A double date that I knew nothing about? It was time to find out what was really going on.
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When I arrived at Regal Cinema, my heart pounded. I paid the cab driver and walked toward the entrance. Just as I got there, I saw George walking in with a stylish woman on his arm.
My heart sank. Who was she, and why was George with her?
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I took a deep breath, trying to keep my composure. This wasn’t the time to jump to conclusions. I needed to see more.
I walked up to the ticket counter and asked, “Can I have two tickets for the movie my husband and that woman just bought?”
The ticket seller looked a bit puzzled but quickly handed me the tickets.
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“Enjoy your movie, I guess,” he said with a shrug.
“Thanks,” I replied, though I didn’t feel like smiling.
As I followed them, I saw George and the woman heading toward one of the theaters. I kept a safe distance behind them, making sure they didn’t notice me.
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The woman was laughing at something George said, and he was smiling back at her. My mind raced with questions and doubts. So you’re cheating on me, George, aren’t you?
As I made my way to the concession stand, I spotted Linda and her date, Carter. “Oh, you guys are already here?” I greeted them with a smile, and Linda’s eyes widened in surprise.
“Hey, hi! Where’s George?” she stammered, forcing a smile.
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“Funny you should ask,” I replied, keeping my voice steady. “I believe he’s already inside with his date!”
Linda sighed, realizing I knew the truth. “Gina, I’m really sorry. I had no idea he was seeing someone else. Carter told me on the way,” she sighed.
“It’s not your fault, Linda,” I said. “You couldn’t have known.”
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We walked into the theater together, and I pointed out George and the stylish woman seated a few rows ahead.
We took our seats, and I tried to focus on the movie, but my mind was elsewhere.
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Midway through the film, I couldn’t hold back any longer. I stood up and called out, “George! Fancy seeing you here! And who’s your lovely companion?”
The theater fell silent. George looked like he had seen a ghost, and the woman seemed completely bewildered.
“Honey, what are you doing here?” George stammered.
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“Oh, I was invited by Linda. You remember Linda, don’t you? Funny thing, she thought we were on a double date. Imagine my surprise when I found out you had other plans!”
Linda stood up, adding to the drama. “I had no idea! I thought George was bringing you, not some other woman.”
The stylish woman, now realizing what was happening, turned to George. “You told me you were single! Is this your wife?”
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I took a deep breath, feeling a mix of anger and determination. “Yes, I am his wife. Or at least, I was. Consider this my official notice that I’m done with your lies and deceit, George. Enjoy your movie, everyone!”
With that, I walked out of the theater, my emotions a whirlwind. Linda quickly followed me.
“Gina, wait up!” Linda called out, catching up to me. “I’m so sorry. I–I ruined everything.”
“It’s okay, Linda. It’s not your fault,” I replied, trying to hold back tears.
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“Do you need a ride home?” Linda offered, concerned.
“Yes, please. I could use the company,” I admitted. “But wait, what about Carter?”
“I think he’ll want to be with George. Let’s get out of here,” Linda said, guiding me to her car.
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As we left the cinema, I felt a strange combination of empowerment and sadness. My marriage was over, but I was ready to face whatever came next. With friends like Linda by my side, I knew I’d be okay.
The next day at work, I walked into the office feeling a bit anxious.
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The story of what happened at the cinema spread like wildfire. But my coworkers, who had always seen me as the quiet, dependable one, now looked at me with newfound respect.
“Hey Gina, I heard what happened. You handled it like a champ,” said Sarah from accounting.
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“Thanks, Sarah. It wasn’t easy, but it needed to be done,” I replied, managing a small smile.
Throughout the day, I received similar comments from other colleagues. It felt strange to be the center of attention but also somewhat empowering. People who had never said much to me before were now reaching out with words of support.
George tried to contact me multiple times, but I ignored his calls and messages.
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Each time my phone buzzed, I felt a twinge of pain, but I knew I had to stay strong. I couldn’t let him pull me back into his web of lies.
Instead, I focused on rebuilding my life. I made a list of things I wanted to do — projects I had put off, hobbies I wanted to take up again, and ways to spend more quality time with my kids. They deserved a mother who was present and happy, not distracted by a broken marriage.
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At lunch, Linda called to check on me. “How are you holding up, Gina?”
“I’m doing okay, Linda. Thanks for being there last night. It meant a lot to me,” I said, grateful for her support.
“Anytime, Gina. You’re strong, and you’ll get through this. Just take it one day at a time,” she encouraged.
“I will,” I promised.
I knew I had made it through the tough time without falling apart.
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A few weeks later, I was busy preparing lunch when the doorbell rang unexpectedly. I opened it to find Veronica, the stylish woman from the cinema.
“Hi, Gina. I’m Veronica,” she began. “Can we talk? I had no idea George was married. I’m really sorry.”
Her sincerity struck me. “Sure, come on in,” I replied, curious about what she had to say.
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We sat in the living room, a pot of coffee between us. Veronica seemed nervous, but she took a deep breath and started talking.
“I found out everything about George a few days after it happened. I didn’t know he had kids. It crushed me. I can’t imagine how you must have felt,” she said, her eyes brimming with tears.
“I appreciate you coming here,” I said. “It’s been a tough few weeks, but I’ve had a lot of support.”
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We talked for hours, sharing our stories and our pain. Despite the awkward start, we found common ground in our mutual betrayal. Surprisingly, it felt good to talk to someone who truly understood what I had gone through.
“You know, this isn’t what I expected when I came here,” Veronica admitted with a sad smile. “But I’m glad we talked. It’s helped me find some closure.”
“Me too,” I said, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. “It’s strange, but in a way, this has helped me heal.”
What would you have done?
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