Her childhood was unconventional as she grew up during the Blitz period. Years later, Joan thought it would be great to do a film about growing up with her sister during this era but her dream hasn’t come to fruition.
Even so, the actress said that as the war continued, she was just a child, unaware of the bombings. She would collect fragments of debris from the streets and store them in her cigar box each evening.
She narrated, “We would draw silly pictures of Hitler. We were evacuated 10 or 12 times. We would be in the tube stations, and people would be playing their harmonicas and singing.”
Despite the chaos, Joan Collins, who deeply loved her Anglican Briton mother, realized that she did not want to live the same life her mom lived. “Mummy was the 1950s housewife, very sweet and very docile,” she explained.
The actress had previously said that her mom, who died at the age of 52, died very young because she never spoke back to her husband.
oan also shared that “My father never held back. I saw him as a figure to look up to more than my mother. I loved her to death but I considered her to be weak and I hated all the clothes she wore.”
The actress’s mother consistently wore girdles, suspenders, stockings, tight bras, underpinnings, and corsets, which Joan disliked.
Joan, who took great care in her appearance, was voted the most beautiful girl in England by a photographers’ association when she was 18. The newspapers asked her dad what he thought about her daughter’s position, he replied, “I’m amazed. She’s a nice-enough-looking girl. Nothing special.”
At this point, Joan had departed from the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art (RADA), developed a passion for French existentialism, admired the singer Juliette Gréco, and dreamed of becoming a celebrated stage actress.
The focus on her appearance was even more as her film career progressed. Joan disclosed that in Hollywood, she faced daily verbal abuse.
She recounted how the makeup department gave her cruel nicknames, such as “Moonface” due to her baby fat and “Scrawny Legs” because of her thin legs. She remembered the department as a large group of women who were particularly harsh and unkind to her.
In 1955, when Joan was 22, she was cast in the biopic about Evelyn Nesbit “The Girl in the Red Velvet Swing.” Evelyn was considered the most beautiful girl in New York and Joan was to play her.
So, one day, Joan who was still in the Juliette Gréco character and thus had no makeup and was in jeans with scruffy hair, ran into her director Richard Fleischer. Richard told her, “Oh my God, I cannot look at you – you are so ugly. You cannot go around like that – put some makeup on, get your hair done, get a proper dress.”
Just like her career, Joan’s personal life also had its ups and downs. When she was 17, still a virgin, the actress went on a date with actor Maxwell Reed, aged 31. He spiked her rum and coke and raped her.
“I was 17, but I was the equivalent mentally of 12. We did not have sex education,” she noted. Shockingly, Maxwell became the actress’s first husband. When asked why she chose to marry her rapist, she answered, “Because I come from a generation where if you’re going to have sex, you get married.”
However, when Joan learned that Maxwell wanted to give her to older men for $12,710 a night as long as he could watch, she stood up for herself. After four years of marriage, the two divorced.
In her 20s, Joan lived with several men, including Sydney Chaplin and Arthur Loew Jr. She also had an affair with a married man who was eight years her senior. As much as the man was handsome, witty, and fascinating, Joan said the affair was utter hell and she never engaged in one again.
Hollywood men, including directors, also went after Joan. In her autobiography, “Behind the Shoulder Pads,” the actress revealed that she was offered the role of Cleopatra in Joseph L. Mankiewicz’s film on the condition that she got along well with Buddy Adler, the head of Fox, and the chairman of the board.
Joan, who was disgusted by how directors and producers, who were old men, took advantage of young actresses said no as she never wanted to be a part of that. The Cleopatra role was given to Elizabeth Taylor.
In the memoir, Joan also wrote about having an abortion when she got pregnant at 26 with her fiancé, Beatty, a 23-year-old aspiring actor. Beatty convinced Joan to abort the baby because it would derail their career. Years later, she agreed with him, noting that if he had a baby, she would have had to say goodbye to her acting career.
Joan went on to have three kids. She had her first two, Tara and Alexander with her second husband, Anthony Newley. Her last child, Katyana, is with her second husband Ron Kass.
The actress’s third husband was Peter Holm and she is now married to Percy Gibson. Joan announced that she was engaged to Percy in December 2001 and then the pair got married in 2002 at Claridge’s Hotel in London, in front of 175 guests.
The lovebirds, who have been together for over two decades, met when Joan was featured in a touring production of the play “Love Letters” in the US. The Peruvian-born theatre manager also helped Joan edit her novel “Star Quality.”
Many people talked when Joan and Percy Gibson got married because he is 32 years younger than her. Joan was asked to comment on their age difference and she said, “Well, if he dies, he dies.”
In 2023, Joan gushed about her marriage saying that she had found the right man in her current husband, “Oh yes, Percy and I have been married for 21 years and it’s just marvelous.”
Now, Joan is in her 90s but she still has the youthful charm and grace in her presence. When asked if she has had cosmetic procedures done, the actress simply said with a shrug, “If people want to think I’ve had surgery, then…”
Joan added, “You can tell [I haven’t] because I have lines and jowls. When I see women around my age I think: ‘Oh, really? My gosh, I look quite a bit…’ I think I look pretty good!”
The movie star is also needle-phobic and just couldn’t bring herself to have cosmetic work done on her. She attributes her good look, perfect complexion, and youthfulness to staying out of the sun.
She added that her mom taught her to moisturize her skin and use night cream, something she also taught her daughters. Joan’s lovely appearance still amazes her fans.
In April 2024, Joan enjoyed a fun photoshoot for the New York Times Fashion and Style section. She looked radiant in a white cardigan paired with an off-white cap and black trousers.
A fan, amazed by her look, said, “You are simply iconic, dear one, and stunning ♥️♥️.” Another admirer commented, “You always look so beautiful♥️.”
When she turned 90 in 2023, a fan shared a picture of Joan taken on the streets. The actress was in a modest flower dress styled with a white coat, a sun hat, and sunglasses. The fan captioned the post, “Happiest of birthdays to Dame Joan Collins, who turns 90 but easily looks at least 20 years younger.”
At 91, Joan Collins is content with both her personal and professional life. Retirement isn’t on her agenda, as she plans to continue working because of her passion for it.
She acknowledged that performing her one-woman show and staying in a different hotel each night was exhausting, but the enthusiastic audiences and her love for her work made it a rewarding experience.
My Mother-in-Law Baked Me the Perfect Cupcakes – I Was Terrified When I Discovered Her Real Intentions
Kaitlyn’s joyful baby shower spirals into suspicion when her mother-in-law’s gift of cupcakes hides a potentially harmful secret. Will Kaitlyn’s discovery of the real ingredients turn a day of celebration into a shocking revelation about family trust?
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Hey everyone, it’s Kaitlyn. I’m about to share a slice of my life’s story, packed with both sweet moments and unexpected twists. Settle in, because this one’s a rollercoaster.
I’m 23, just a few trips around the sun, but I’ve learned a lot about life and love in a short span.
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My husband, Jasper, is 24, and he’s been my rock since we first stumbled into each other five years ago. Picture this: a busy shopping mall, me—a total mess—having left my purse at home, standing at the checkout with a pile of stuff and not a dime to pay for it.
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Enter Jasper, my knight in shining armor, who saved me from a major embarrassment by covering my bill. We swapped numbers so I could pay him back, but little did we know, that embarrassing mishap was the first brick in the foundation of what would soon be ‘us’.
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After countless dates and shared dreams, we married two years ago. My family adores Jasper. To them, he’s the son they never had and the big brother my siblings always wanted.
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He fits perfectly into our family. But it’s not all picture-perfect. There’s a twist, courtesy of my mother-in-law, Carla, who hasn’t been the biggest fan of our union.
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From day one, Carla’s vibes were off. Jasper’s her golden boy, and she loves him to bits—which I totally get—but her coldness towards our marriage slices through the air every time we meet. It’s like she’s got this invisible barrier up, blocking any chance of us having a typical, loving in-law relationship.
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So here’s the deal: Carla is quite the character, always needing the spotlight on her, even in situations that have zero to do with her. Imagine someone turning every conversation into a monologue about themselves—that’s her, and it’s exhausting. I adore Jasper, so I usually ignore her antics to keep the peace.
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But let me tell you about this recent incident, the one that really tipped the scales. It’s kind of the main event in the saga of my MIL.
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About three months ago, Jasper and I got the best news ever—we were expecting! We were over the moon about our little bun in the oven, and naturally, we wanted to share our joy through a baby shower planned for September.
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However, Carla had other plans. She decided she needed to visit my sister-in-law abroad that same month, which apparently meant pushing our baby shower to an earlier date.
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Jasper came to me one evening, a little hesitant, and said, “Babe, Mom really wants to be here for the baby shower, but she’s flying out in September. How would you feel about moving it up?”
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Honestly, I didn’t mind. “I’m okay with it,” I told him. “If it makes your mom happy, we can have an early shower. We’ll just throw another small one later, right?” Jasper nodded, relieved I wasn’t upset.
So, we agreed to her terms, pulling the plans forward to make sure she could be part of it.
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If it meant keeping the peace and making her feel involved, I was all for it. Little did I know, this decision would lead to an episode that changed how Jasper and I viewed everything.
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The baby shower day was buzzing with excitement and the scent of fresh baking. Carla had outdone herself, whipping up what looked like the perfect batch of cupcakes.
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I was 15 weeks along and everything about the day felt extra special because of the tiny life growing inside me. Those cupcakes, golden and crowned with swirls of frosting, were the talk of the party.
I thought maybe, just maybe, Carla was turning a new leaf, excited about her grandchild and setting aside our past differences.
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As I was arranging the cupcakes on plates in the kitchen, ready to serve them to our eager guests, Jasper walked in. His face went from curious to horrified in a split second.
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Seeing the cupcakes in my hands, he turned red as a beet and before I could react, he rushed over, snatched them from my grasp, and hurled them into the trash can.
Startled, I screamed, “WHAT IN THE WORLD IS GOING ON, JASPER?!”
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He took a deep breath, his shoulders dropping as if he was shedding the weight of a dreadful secret. “My dear, you MUSTN’T touch these cupcakes! My mom just told me that she has put vanilla in them.”
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I froze, my mind racing. Vanilla. My worst allergy, which could trigger dreadful rashes all over my skin or worse. How could she? She knew—everyone knew about my allergy.
“Jas, I… I don’t know what to say. MIL knew about my allergy and she still decided to put vanilla in these cupcakes. I can’t believe it!”
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My voice was barely a whisper, trembling not from the near-miss with an allergic reaction, but from the shock of the betrayal.
Jasper wrapped his arms around me, his embrace a safe harbor from the storm swirling around us.
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“I know, love. And I’m so sorry. But I’m glad I was able to get to you before you tasted the cupcakes,” he said, pressing a tender kiss to my forehead, his lips a calming balm to my frayed nerves.
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It was clear now; the olive branch I thought Carla had extended was nothing more than a thorn in disguise. As Jasper held me, I knew we had to rethink everything about our relationship with her. This was no mere oversight; it was a clear message, one we couldn’t just ignore.
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Still wrapped in Jasper’s arms, the reality of what had just happened began to sink in. Carla knew about my severe allergy to vanilla—she had witnessed it firsthand at her birthday party last year.
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I had a reaction that night, and she had scoffed at it, accusing me of being dramatic for attention. Now, with the cupcakes, it felt like she was setting a stage to prove to everyone, especially Jasper, that I was faking my allergy.
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As my breathing steadied and the initial shock wore off, Jasper and I knew we had to confront this head-on. We found her in the living room, chatting animatedly with a group of guests as if she hadn’t just potentially endangered my life—and that of our unborn child.
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Jasper cleared his throat, his tone firm yet controlled. “Mom, we need to talk. Now.” The room fell silent, the air thick with tension.
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In the kitchen, away from the curious ears, Jasper didn’t mince words. “Why would you use vanilla in the cupcakes when you know Kaitlyn is allergic?” His voice was a mix of disbelief and anger.
Carla rolled her eyes, her response dripping with disdain. “Oh, please. She’s never had a real reaction. I wanted to show that she’s been exaggerating.”
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I felt my heart pound against my chest, fury mixing with a profound sadness. “How could you think it’s okay to test your theory at our baby shower? What if something had happened to me or the baby?” My voice trembled, the hurt evident.
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Jasper stood by my side, his resolve hardening. “This isn’t just about Kaitlyn anymore; it’s about our child too. I can’t believe you would put them at risk like this.”
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The confrontation was as stiff as it was necessary. After a few tense moments, Jasper asked his mother to leave the party. It was one of the hardest things he had ever done, but it was essential for our family’s safety.
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In the days that followed, we laid down clear boundaries with Carla. We agreed that her involvement in our lives would now come with strict rules to ensure our well-being and that of our baby. It wasn’t about punishing her but protecting ourselves.
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Sometimes, it’s not about grand lessons or dramatic revenge. It’s about protecting yourself and your loved ones from harmful actions.
Setting boundaries became our way of navigating this complex relationship, ensuring that our little family’s health and happiness were no longer at risk.
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So, yeah, that’s the story of how cupcakes at a baby shower unveiled a much-needed truth, leading us to safeguard our little circle with firmer lines than ever before. It’s tough, but hey, it’s necessary, especially when a little one is on the way.
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Do you think my husband and I handled the situation correctly? What would you have done differently? I’d love to hear your opinions and advice, so please share your thoughts.
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My MIL Surprised Me with a ‘Special’ Gift at My Baby Shower—My Husband’s Reaction Was Shocking
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