I Told My Date about My Specific 3-Year-Rule, but He Immediately Left and Blocked Me – Is It Really That Weird?

Addison’s life revolves around her demanding job as a neurologist, leaving little time for romance. When her cheerful coworker Nathan sets her up on a blind date with a seemingly perfect guy named Jake, she finally feels a spark of hope. However, after Addison shares her three-year dating rule, her date abruptly leaves. What went wrong?

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I always thought my life would stay the same.

Day in and day out, the hospital consumed all my time.

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A smiling young doctor | Source: Midjourney

My name is Addison, and I work as a neurologist. My days are filled with patients, charts, and endless rounds.

It’s a fulfilling job, but it leaves little room for anything else, especially dating.

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A busy young woman | Source: Midjourney

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One day, while grabbing a quick coffee in the break room, my coworker Nathan walked in with a bright smile on his face.

Nathan is always in a good mood, no matter how stressful the day gets.

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A smiling doctor | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Addison,” Nathan said, leaning against the counter. “How do you feel about blind dates?”

I laughed, almost spilling my coffee. “Blind dates? Nathan, you know my schedule. I barely have time to eat, let alone date.”

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Two professionals laughing and chatting | Source: Midjourney

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Nathan chuckled. “I know, but hear me out. My friend Jake is a great guy. He’s kind, funny, and I think you two would hit it off. What do you say?”

I paused, considering it. I hadn’t been on a date in ages, and the idea of meeting someone new was intriguing. Plus, Nathan seemed genuinely excited about it.

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A couple enjoying drinks | Source: Pexels

“Okay, then,” I said, smiling. “You’ve convinced me. When’s this magical date happening?”

Nathan’s face lit up. “Really?? How about next Tuesday night? It’s the only evening that works for both of you!”

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Next Tuesday. I mentally checked my calendar. It was one of the rare nights I didn’t have a late shift or any other commitments.

“Next Tuesday works for me,” I said. “Let’s do it.”

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A female doctor talking to a male doctor | Source: Midjourney

Nathan grinned. “Great! I’ll set it up and text you the details. You won’t regret this, Addison,” he said with a wink.

“We’ll see that,” I laughed and finished my coffee quickly.

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As I walked back to my office, I felt both excited and nervous. It had been so long since I had gone on a date.

My life had become a routine of work and more work, with little time for anything else. But maybe this was what I needed — a chance to step out of my comfort zone.

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A doctor lost in her work | Source: Midjourney

The rest of the day flew by in a blur of patient consultations and medical charts. But in the back of my mind, I kept thinking about the upcoming date. Maybe, just maybe, this blind date with Jake would be the start of something new.

On Tuesday night, I arrived at the quaint restaurant Nathan had suggested.

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It was cozy, with dim lighting and a warm ambiance that immediately put me at ease. As I walked in, I spotted a man sitting at a table near the window.

He looked up, smiled, and waved me over.

This must be Jake, I thought to myself.

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A smiling man at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Addison?” he asked as I approached the table.

“Yes, and you must be Jake,” I replied with a smile.

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We shook hands, and I took a seat. Almost immediately, the waitress came over to take our drink orders.

“I’ll have a glass of red wine, please,” I said.

“I’ll have the same,” Jake added.

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Two people enjoying wine | Source: Freepik

As the waitress left, we started chatting. Jake was easy to talk to, and I felt my initial nervousness melt away.

“So, Nathan tells me you’re a neurologist,” he said, looking genuinely interested. “That must be a challenging job.”

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“It is,” I nodded. “But I love it. What about you? What do you do?”

“I’m a graphic designer,” Jake replied. “I work freelance, so my schedule is pretty flexible. It’s a lot of fun, especially when I get to work on creative projects.”

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A person working on their laptop | Source: Pexels

Our drinks arrived, and we ordered appetizers — stuffed mushrooms and bruschetta. As we nibbled on the delicious food, we continued to talk about our lives, hobbies, and interests.

“I love hiking and photography,” Jake said, taking a sip of his wine. “There’s something about being in nature that’s so refreshing.”

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“I’ve always wanted to get into photography,” I said. “But I never seem to find the time. Maybe you could give me some tips?”

“I’d love to,” Jake said with a smile. “It’s all about finding the right light and angle.”

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As the evening went on, I found myself more and more charmed by Jake. He was kind, funny, and easy to talk to.

We laughed a lot, and it felt like I had known him for much longer than just one evening.

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As we moved on to our main course, Jake looked at me with a smile. “So, Addison, how about we ask each other some more personal questions to break the ice further?”

“Sure, that sounds good,” I said. “What do you want to know?”

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Jake leaned in slightly. “How about your one-to-five-year plan? What are your goals?”

I took a moment to think. “Well, I hope to advance in my career as a neurologist,” I began.

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“Maybe get promoted to a senior position. I also want to decorate my apartment; it feels too plain right now,” I continued. “I’ve been thinking about getting a pet, maybe a cat or a small dog. And I’d love to travel more, see new places, and experience different cultures. Oh, and I want to expand my bookshelf with my favorite novels. I love reading!”

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Pile of books and cup on top | Source: Unsplash

“That sounds wonderful. You have a lot of exciting plans!” he grinned.

“What about you?” I asked, curious to hear about his future plans.

“I want to grow my freelance business,” Jake said. “Maybe open my own studio one day. I also love traveling, so I’d like to visit more countries. And, believe it or not, I’ve been thinking about getting a pet too. A dog, probably.”

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We laughed at the coincidence, and it felt nice to find common ground!

“So, how do you feel about marriage and family?” Jake further asked as he sipped his wine.

And this is where it all went horribly wrong.

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“Honestly, I’d love to find a partner to share my life with,” I told him, “someone who understands and supports me. But marriage isn’t a necessity for me. If it happens, great, but if not, that’s okay too. As for children, I don’t see myself having any. For now. I’m happy with my career and personal goals.”

Jake leaned forward, looking serious. “What if you found the perfect guy? How long before you’d marry him?”

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Two people smiling at each other and standing close | Source: Freepik

“Three years,” I said. “I believe in building a strong foundation. Six months to really get to know someone, a year of serious dating, and a year and a half of living together before considering engagement or marriage.”

Jake’s face changed, his friendly expression replaced by a frown. He leaned back in his chair, crossing his arms. “Three years? That’s a long time. What if someone wants a quicker timeline?”

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I felt a knot forming in my stomach. “Well, uh, I think it’s important to take time to build a strong relationship. I’m pretty confident about my three-year-plan.”

Jake’s frown deepened, and he abruptly called the waitress. “Check, please,” he said curtly. She looked confused but quickly brought the bill.

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“Jake, what’s wrong?” I asked as he stood up, but he didn’t bother to answer. He paid and walked out of the restaurant without a glance back.

I sat there, stunned and hurt. What just happened?

Later, at home, I couldn’t stop thinking about the evening.

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A woman staring at her reflection | Source: Pexels

How could Jake just leave like that?

Deciding I needed answers, I messaged him.

I sent a selfie we took together and wrote, “Hey Jake, why did you leave so suddenly? I thought we were having a great time.”

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A few minutes later, his reply came: “Don’t contact me again. You’re indecisive and not serious about what you want.”

Then, he blocked me.

I stared at my phone in disbelief. Was I really that off base?

The next day at work, I noticed Nathan giving me strange glances. Gathering my courage, I decided to confront him.

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A man holding a phone in his hands | Source: Unsplash

“Nathan, what did Jake tell you? You know why he left, don’t you?” I asked, trying to keep my voice steady.

Nathan looked uncomfortable and shifted on his feet. “You messed it up, Addy,” he said. “Jake… told me you were wasting his time. He wanted something serious. He was looking for marriage, and you… you weren’t the best person for him. Sorry, I gotta go.”

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I couldn’t believe it.

During my lunch break, I called my best friend, Sophie.

“Hey, Addison. How did the date go?” was the first thing she asked.

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I sighed, feeling the weight of the evening pressing on me. “It started great, but then it ended terribly. Jake left abruptly after I talked about my three-year plan, and then he blocked me when I asked him why.”

Sophie’s eyes widened. “He did what? That’s ridiculous! What exactly happened?”

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A sad young doctor | Source: Midjourney

I recounted every detail, my voice trembling slightly as I relived the evening. When I finished, Sophie shook her head. “Addison, being honest about your expectations is important. If he couldn’t handle that, it’s his loss.”

“I can’t stop wondering if my three-year rule is really that strange, Sophie,” I admitted, my voice breaking a bit.

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“Not at all,” Sophie said firmly. “Everyone has their own timeline and needs. What matters is that you stay true to yourself. If he couldn’t appreciate that, he wasn’t the right guy for you.”

Her words wrapped around me like a comforting blanket. But it didn’t ease all my worries. Was I wrong to be upfront about my expectations? Should I have kept it to myself? All I know is that being honest about what I want is important, even if it means losing a date like Jake.

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What would you have done?

If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one: Julia is excited to surprise her husband on his birthday, but everything changes when she hears an unexpected voice. Hiding in the living room, her heart pounds as her husband’s laughter mingles with another woman’s. What will Julia uncover?

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

Wisdom in Nature: Three Tales About Kindness, Patience, and Potential

Nature often holds lessons that resonate deeply with us, offering insights into patience, potential, and kindness.

These three tales, of a humble tortoise, a lost eagle, and a bond between a dove and an ant, show us how wisdom is all around us if we choose to see it.

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A beautiful forest scene | Source: Midjourney

The Tortoise and the Hare: A Tale of Patience Over Haste

Once, in a forest that hummed with life and laughter, a hare darted through the trees, his sleek coat gleaming in the sunlight. He was the fastest animal in the forest, and he never missed a chance to remind everyone of it.

“I’m the fastest there is!” he boasted, chest puffed out. “Who could ever beat me? None of you slowpokes even come close!”

The other animals rolled their eyes, weary of his bragging. All except for one.

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A hare in a forest | Source: Midjourney

The tortoise.

He was known for his calm demeanor and thoughtful nature.

One day, as the hare prattled on about his speed, the tortoise raised his head.

“I may be slow, but I believe I could beat you in a race.”

The forest fell silent.

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A smiling tortoise | Source: Midjourney

The hare blinked, then burst out laughing.

“You? Beat me? That’s the funniest thing I’ve ever heard! Alright, let’s race. I’ll show you just how foolish that idea is.”

Word spread, and soon, animals from all corners of the forest gathered to watch the race. The starting line buzzed with excitement as the tortoise and the hare took their positions.

“Ready, set… go!”

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Woodland animals | Source: Midjourney

The hare bolted, kicking up a cloud of dirt as he sped ahead. In moments, he was out of sight, the cheers of the crowd ringing in his ears. The tortoise, however, began with slow, deliberate steps, inching forward at his own pace.

Certain of his victory, the hare soon spotted a shady tree near the finish line.

“Why not rest a bit?” he thought, smirking. “That old tortoise won’t be here for hours.”

He stretched out beneath the tree and dozed off, his dreams filled with glory.

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A sleeping hare | Source: Midjourney

Meanwhile, the tortoise plodded on, unwavering and steady. The sun dipped lower, painting the forest in hues of gold as he finally reached the tree where the hare lay sleeping.

Without a glance, the tortoise trudged past, his eyes fixed on the finish line ahead.

When the hare woke, he yawned and stretched, confident he still had plenty of time. But his heart sank as he spotted the tortoise just steps away from victory.

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A tortoise walking | Source: Midjourney

Panic surged through him, and he bolted toward the finish line, his legs pumping furiously. But it was too late. With one final step, the tortoise crossed the line, greeted by a roar of cheers from the animals.

The hare skidded to a halt, his ears drooping.

“I… I underestimated you,” he admitted, his voice low.

The tortoise smiled, his gaze kind.

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A leaping hare | Source: Midjourney

“Slow and steady wins the race,” he said. “Patience and perseverance will always triumph over arrogance and haste.”

From that day on, the hare learned to respect others’ efforts, and the tortoise’s lesson was passed down for generations, a beacon of wisdom in the heart of the forest.

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A tortoise in a forest | Source: Midjourney

The Eagle and the Chicks: Unleashing True Potential

On a quiet farm nestled in a valley, a farmer stumbled across something extraordinary.

An eagle’s egg lying abandoned near his barn.

He couldn’t leave it there, exposed to the elements, so he gently placed it in the nest with his chickens.

Time passed, and the eagle’s egg hatched alongside the chicken’s eggs. With no knowledge of who he truly was, the young eagle grew up scratching the dirt for seeds and fluttering his wings for short, awkward flights, just like the other chickens.

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A baby eagle with baby chicks | Source: Midjourney

Years went by, and the eagle accepted his life among the flock. He didn’t question it, until one bright afternoon, when a shadow swept across the ground.

Looking up, he saw a majestic eagle soaring high above, its wings slicing through the sky with power and grace.

“What’s that?” he asked one of the chickens, his heart stirring with something unfamiliar.

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An eagle flying | Source: Midjourney

“That’s an eagle,” the chicken replied. “They’re kings of the sky. But don’t think about it… we’re just chickens. Forget about it.”

The eagle sighed, his gaze falling back to the ground. He pecked at the dirt, burying the strange feeling deep inside.

One day, a wise traveler passed by the farm and stopped in his tracks when he saw the eagle among the chickens. His brow furrowed.

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A traveler standing at a farm | Source: Midjourney

“Why is this eagle living like a chicken?”

“He’s always been here,” the farmer replied. “He doesn’t know he’s an eagle.”

The traveler couldn’t accept that. Determined to show the eagle his true potential, he gently scooped him up and carried him to a high cliff overlooking the valley.

“Spread your wings,” the traveler said, his voice firm but kind. “You are not a chicken. You’re an eagle. You were born to soar.”

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An eagle perched on a man’s hand | Source: Midjourney

The eagle hesitated, his talons gripping the rocky edge. The ground below seemed safe, familiar. The sky was vast and terrifying.

“What if I fall?” he whispered.

“Oh, but what if you fly?” the traveler countered, stepping back.

The eagle took a deep breath, the wind rustling through his feathers. Slowly, he spread his wings, feeling their strength for the first time. With a leap of faith, he launched himself into the air.

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A flying eagle | Source: Midjourney

For a moment, fear gripped him. Then the wind caught beneath his wings, lifting him higher and higher. He soared, his heart bursting with exhilaration.

From that day forward, the eagle embraced the sky as his home. He never returned to the farm, carrying with him the lesson that sometimes, all it takes is a push, and the courage to trust yourself, to discover who you truly are.

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An eagle flying above mountains | Source: Midjourney

The Dove and the Ant: Kindness Always Comes Back

One afternoon, an ant wandered along a stream, searching for food.

She paused at the edge, leaning down for a sip of water. Suddenly, her foot slipped, and she tumbled into the rushing current.

The water swept her away, her small legs flailing against the force.

“Help!” she cried, but her voice was drowned out by the roar of the stream.

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An ant on a rock | Source: Midjourney

High above, a dove perched on a tree branch, preening her feathers. Her sharp eyes spotted the struggling ant below. Without hesitation, she plucked a broad leaf from the tree and dropped it into the water.

The ant clung to the leaf as it floated to safety. Dripping and exhausted, she looked up at the dove.

“Thank you, kind dove,” the ant said, her tiny voice trembling. “I won’t forget this.”

Days later, the dove rested on the same tree, basking in the golden sunlight. She didn’t notice the hunter approaching silently with a slingshot in hand, his eyes fixed on her.

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A leaf in a stream | Source: Midjourney

Hidden in the grass below, the ant saw the danger. Remembering the dove’s kindness, she raced toward the hunter and climbed up his leg. With all her strength, she bit down on his ankle.

“Ow!” the hunter shouted, dropping the slingshot and stumbling backward. Startled by the commotion, the dove flew off, her wings cutting through the air.

Later, the dove circled back to the ant, her eyes shining with gratitude.

“You saved my life,” she said softly.

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A flying dove | Source: Midjourney

“And you saved mine first,” replied the ant. “Kindness always finds a way to return.”

The tortoise taught us that patience and perseverance can overcome even the greatest odds. The eagle reminded us that sometimes we need a little push to discover our true potential.

And the ant and the dove showed us that even the smallest act of kindness can ripple into something extraordinary. These tales from nature remind us of life’s timeless wisdom, lessons that guide us to live with integrity, courage, and compassion.

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A smiling old woman sitting in a forest | Source: Midjourney

What do you think?

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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