I Told My Date about My Specific 3-Year-Rule, but He Immediately Left and Blocked Me – Is It Really That Weird?

Addison’s life revolves around her demanding job as a neurologist, leaving little time for romance. When her cheerful coworker Nathan sets her up on a blind date with a seemingly perfect guy named Jake, she finally feels a spark of hope. However, after Addison shares her three-year dating rule, her date abruptly leaves. What went wrong?

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I always thought my life would stay the same.

Day in and day out, the hospital consumed all my time.

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A smiling young doctor | Source: Midjourney

My name is Addison, and I work as a neurologist. My days are filled with patients, charts, and endless rounds.

It’s a fulfilling job, but it leaves little room for anything else, especially dating.

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A busy young woman | Source: Midjourney

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One day, while grabbing a quick coffee in the break room, my coworker Nathan walked in with a bright smile on his face.

Nathan is always in a good mood, no matter how stressful the day gets.

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A smiling doctor | Source: Midjourney

“Hey, Addison,” Nathan said, leaning against the counter. “How do you feel about blind dates?”

I laughed, almost spilling my coffee. “Blind dates? Nathan, you know my schedule. I barely have time to eat, let alone date.”

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Two professionals laughing and chatting | Source: Midjourney

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Nathan chuckled. “I know, but hear me out. My friend Jake is a great guy. He’s kind, funny, and I think you two would hit it off. What do you say?”

I paused, considering it. I hadn’t been on a date in ages, and the idea of meeting someone new was intriguing. Plus, Nathan seemed genuinely excited about it.

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A couple enjoying drinks | Source: Pexels

“Okay, then,” I said, smiling. “You’ve convinced me. When’s this magical date happening?”

Nathan’s face lit up. “Really?? How about next Tuesday night? It’s the only evening that works for both of you!”

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Next Tuesday. I mentally checked my calendar. It was one of the rare nights I didn’t have a late shift or any other commitments.

“Next Tuesday works for me,” I said. “Let’s do it.”

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A female doctor talking to a male doctor | Source: Midjourney

Nathan grinned. “Great! I’ll set it up and text you the details. You won’t regret this, Addison,” he said with a wink.

“We’ll see that,” I laughed and finished my coffee quickly.

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As I walked back to my office, I felt both excited and nervous. It had been so long since I had gone on a date.

My life had become a routine of work and more work, with little time for anything else. But maybe this was what I needed — a chance to step out of my comfort zone.

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A doctor lost in her work | Source: Midjourney

The rest of the day flew by in a blur of patient consultations and medical charts. But in the back of my mind, I kept thinking about the upcoming date. Maybe, just maybe, this blind date with Jake would be the start of something new.

On Tuesday night, I arrived at the quaint restaurant Nathan had suggested.

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It was cozy, with dim lighting and a warm ambiance that immediately put me at ease. As I walked in, I spotted a man sitting at a table near the window.

He looked up, smiled, and waved me over.

This must be Jake, I thought to myself.

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A smiling man at a table | Source: Midjourney

“Addison?” he asked as I approached the table.

“Yes, and you must be Jake,” I replied with a smile.

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We shook hands, and I took a seat. Almost immediately, the waitress came over to take our drink orders.

“I’ll have a glass of red wine, please,” I said.

“I’ll have the same,” Jake added.

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Two people enjoying wine | Source: Freepik

As the waitress left, we started chatting. Jake was easy to talk to, and I felt my initial nervousness melt away.

“So, Nathan tells me you’re a neurologist,” he said, looking genuinely interested. “That must be a challenging job.”

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“It is,” I nodded. “But I love it. What about you? What do you do?”

“I’m a graphic designer,” Jake replied. “I work freelance, so my schedule is pretty flexible. It’s a lot of fun, especially when I get to work on creative projects.”

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Our drinks arrived, and we ordered appetizers — stuffed mushrooms and bruschetta. As we nibbled on the delicious food, we continued to talk about our lives, hobbies, and interests.

“I love hiking and photography,” Jake said, taking a sip of his wine. “There’s something about being in nature that’s so refreshing.”

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“I’ve always wanted to get into photography,” I said. “But I never seem to find the time. Maybe you could give me some tips?”

“I’d love to,” Jake said with a smile. “It’s all about finding the right light and angle.”

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As the evening went on, I found myself more and more charmed by Jake. He was kind, funny, and easy to talk to.

We laughed a lot, and it felt like I had known him for much longer than just one evening.

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As we moved on to our main course, Jake looked at me with a smile. “So, Addison, how about we ask each other some more personal questions to break the ice further?”

“Sure, that sounds good,” I said. “What do you want to know?”

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Jake leaned in slightly. “How about your one-to-five-year plan? What are your goals?”

I took a moment to think. “Well, I hope to advance in my career as a neurologist,” I began.

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“Maybe get promoted to a senior position. I also want to decorate my apartment; it feels too plain right now,” I continued. “I’ve been thinking about getting a pet, maybe a cat or a small dog. And I’d love to travel more, see new places, and experience different cultures. Oh, and I want to expand my bookshelf with my favorite novels. I love reading!”

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“That sounds wonderful. You have a lot of exciting plans!” he grinned.

“What about you?” I asked, curious to hear about his future plans.

“I want to grow my freelance business,” Jake said. “Maybe open my own studio one day. I also love traveling, so I’d like to visit more countries. And, believe it or not, I’ve been thinking about getting a pet too. A dog, probably.”

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We laughed at the coincidence, and it felt nice to find common ground!

“So, how do you feel about marriage and family?” Jake further asked as he sipped his wine.

And this is where it all went horribly wrong.

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“Honestly, I’d love to find a partner to share my life with,” I told him, “someone who understands and supports me. But marriage isn’t a necessity for me. If it happens, great, but if not, that’s okay too. As for children, I don’t see myself having any. For now. I’m happy with my career and personal goals.”

Jake leaned forward, looking serious. “What if you found the perfect guy? How long before you’d marry him?”

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“Three years,” I said. “I believe in building a strong foundation. Six months to really get to know someone, a year of serious dating, and a year and a half of living together before considering engagement or marriage.”

Jake’s face changed, his friendly expression replaced by a frown. He leaned back in his chair, crossing his arms. “Three years? That’s a long time. What if someone wants a quicker timeline?”

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I felt a knot forming in my stomach. “Well, uh, I think it’s important to take time to build a strong relationship. I’m pretty confident about my three-year-plan.”

Jake’s frown deepened, and he abruptly called the waitress. “Check, please,” he said curtly. She looked confused but quickly brought the bill.

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“Jake, what’s wrong?” I asked as he stood up, but he didn’t bother to answer. He paid and walked out of the restaurant without a glance back.

I sat there, stunned and hurt. What just happened?

Later, at home, I couldn’t stop thinking about the evening.

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A woman staring at her reflection | Source: Pexels

How could Jake just leave like that?

Deciding I needed answers, I messaged him.

I sent a selfie we took together and wrote, “Hey Jake, why did you leave so suddenly? I thought we were having a great time.”

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A few minutes later, his reply came: “Don’t contact me again. You’re indecisive and not serious about what you want.”

Then, he blocked me.

I stared at my phone in disbelief. Was I really that off base?

The next day at work, I noticed Nathan giving me strange glances. Gathering my courage, I decided to confront him.

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A man holding a phone in his hands | Source: Unsplash

“Nathan, what did Jake tell you? You know why he left, don’t you?” I asked, trying to keep my voice steady.

Nathan looked uncomfortable and shifted on his feet. “You messed it up, Addy,” he said. “Jake… told me you were wasting his time. He wanted something serious. He was looking for marriage, and you… you weren’t the best person for him. Sorry, I gotta go.”

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I couldn’t believe it.

During my lunch break, I called my best friend, Sophie.

“Hey, Addison. How did the date go?” was the first thing she asked.

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I sighed, feeling the weight of the evening pressing on me. “It started great, but then it ended terribly. Jake left abruptly after I talked about my three-year plan, and then he blocked me when I asked him why.”

Sophie’s eyes widened. “He did what? That’s ridiculous! What exactly happened?”

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A sad young doctor | Source: Midjourney

I recounted every detail, my voice trembling slightly as I relived the evening. When I finished, Sophie shook her head. “Addison, being honest about your expectations is important. If he couldn’t handle that, it’s his loss.”

“I can’t stop wondering if my three-year rule is really that strange, Sophie,” I admitted, my voice breaking a bit.

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“Not at all,” Sophie said firmly. “Everyone has their own timeline and needs. What matters is that you stay true to yourself. If he couldn’t appreciate that, he wasn’t the right guy for you.”

Her words wrapped around me like a comforting blanket. But it didn’t ease all my worries. Was I wrong to be upfront about my expectations? Should I have kept it to myself? All I know is that being honest about what I want is important, even if it means losing a date like Jake.

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My Father Asked Me to Dance with Him at My Wedding but Didn’t Show Up

My Father Asked Me to Dance with Him at My Wedding but Didn’t Show Up

Heartbreak from my father’s broken promises loomed over my wedding day. Just as despair set in, an unexpected hero stepped forward, turning a moment of disappointment into one of profound love and revelation. This is how I discovered the true meaning of family.

So, my parents split when I was just a little sprout (seven years old, to be exact). From then on, my dad was basically a ghost. He’d promise stuff like park trips, but then bail last minute.

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A sad little girl sitting alone in her room | Source: Midjourney

Birthdays? Nope. Most nights were spent wondering if he’d even bother showing up. My mom did her best, but my dad’s absence left a hole that seemed impossible to fill.

Fast forward to when I was older, and Dad’s appearances became even more random. He’d pop up out of nowhere, full of apologies and promises to be a “better dad.” But then, poof! Gone again faster than you can say “empty promises.”

Important events? Missed, obviously. But hey, at least he tried to “buy” my forgiveness with random gifts: dolls, toys, anything shiny to distract me from, you know, his actual absence.

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A teenage girl feeling sad while holding a gift box | Source: Midjourney

Like, seriously, a toy car can’t fix the fact you missed my graduation! So yeah, despite the whole “disappearing dad” thing, I still held onto hope. Then, BAM! Enter Dylan.

When I met Dylan at a mutual friend’s party, everything felt different. He had this warmth about him that drew me in. One evening, sitting on his couch, I asked him, “Dylan, do you think people can really change?”

He looked at me, his blue eyes full of thought. “I believe people can change if they truly want to, Val. But it has to come from within.”

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A couple hugging on a lakeside | Source: Midjourney

Dylan and I quickly became close. We shared endless late-night talks, laughter, and a connection that felt like home.

One night, at our favorite spot by the lake, he got down on one knee, his voice shaking. “Valeria, will you marry me?”

Tears of joy filled my eyes. “Yes, Dylan, yes!”

As I started planning the wedding, my father suddenly reappeared, more consistently than ever before. He began calling regularly and showing up more often. He even insisted on paying for part of the ceremony.

One day, while we were discussing wedding plans, he asked, “Val, can I have the father-daughter dance at your wedding?”

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A woman talking to her father in their living room | Source: Midjourney

I hesitated. “Dad, I don’t know…”

“Please, Val,” he said, his voice breaking. “I know I’ve let you down before, but I want to make it right. Just one dance. Please.”

I wanted to say no, remembering all the broken promises, but he was persistent. With a heavy heart and against my better judgment, I agreed.

On the day of the wedding, I was a bundle of nerves. Despite my doubts, a part of me hoped he would keep his promise. Throughout the ceremony and reception, he kept assuring me he’d be there for the dance. Each time, I wanted to believe him, hoping he had really changed.

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A woman in a bridal dress on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

“Val, you look beautiful,” Dylan whispered as we stood at the altar. His smile eased my nerves a bit.

“Thank you, Dylan,” I whispered back, my heart racing. “I just hope my dad shows up for the dance.”

“He will,” Dylan said confidently. “He promised, right?”

As the time for the father-daughter dance approached, my anxiety grew. Guests gathered around the dance floor and the music started, but my father was nowhere in sight.

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A bride and groom hugging | Source: Midjourney

I tried calling him, but it went straight to voicemail. My heart sank as I realized he had let me down again. He sent a message with another one of his flimsy excuses but I knew better.

The text read: “Sorry, Val, stuck in traffic. Will be there soon. Promise.” But deep down, I knew it was just another excuse.

“Val, I’m so sorry,” my mom said, hugging me tightly.

“It’s okay, Mom,” I replied, trying to hold back tears. “I’m used to it.”

A while later, one of the wedding staff handed me a small, neatly wrapped gift: expensive earrings.

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A bride feeling angry and displeased while holding a gift box | Source: Midjourney

It was yet another attempt by my father to buy my forgiveness. The disappointment was overwhelming, and I stood alone on the dance floor, tears streaming down my face.

Dylan rushed over, concern etched on his face. “Val, I’m here,” he said softly. “You’re not alone.”

I looked up at him, my vision blurred by tears. “He did it again, Dylan. He promised, and he broke it.”

Dylan wrapped his arms around me, holding me close. “I’m so sorry, Val. You don’t deserve this.”

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A bride crying | Source: Midjourney

Just then, the rescue came in the most unexpected way. My stepfather, Richard, who had quietly supported me throughout my life without ever asking for anything in return, stepped forward.

Richard had always been there, a steady and reliable presence, even when I had pushed him away, insisting he was “just a stepfather.” I had never truly given him the credit he deserved.

“May I have this dance?” he asked gently, holding out his hand.

Surprised, I looked at him, my emotions a whirlwind. I hesitated for a moment but then took his hand.

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A bride dancing with her stepdad on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

As we began to dance, the room seemed to fade away. Richard held me close, his embrace warm and comforting. It was a moment of unexpected solace.

“Richard, I… I don’t know what to say,” I whispered as we swayed to the music.

“Val, you don’t have to say anything,” he replied softly. “I’m just happy to be here for you.”

His words, so simple yet so full of meaning, brought tears to my eyes. The music, a soft melody that seemed to cradle us, made the moment even more surreal.

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A bride talking to her stepdad on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

I had spent so much of my life longing for my father’s presence that I had overlooked the man who had been there all along. When the dance ended, Richard took the microphone for the father-daughter speech. He looked around the room, then at me, his eyes filled with a mix of pride and emotion.

“I never thought I’d be standing here,” he began, his voice steady but full of feeling.

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A man giving a speech at his stepdaughter’s wedding | Source: Midjourney

“I know I’m not your biological father, but from the moment I met you and your mother, I felt a love and a bond that goes beyond blood. Being here today, sharing this dance with you is the greatest honor of my life. I am the happiest man in the world because I get to share this moment with you. You may have called me ‘just a stepfather,’ but to me, you have always been a daughter.”

His words broke through the last barriers I had built around my heart. The room erupted in applause, but all I could see was Richard.

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A bride hugging her stepfather on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

In that moment, I realized that family isn’t defined by blood alone, but by the love and commitment someone shows through their actions.

As we embraced, I whispered, “Thank you, Dad.”

And for the first time, I truly meant it.

The rest of the evening was a blur of joy and celebration. Dylan and I danced, laughed, and soaked in every precious moment. At one point, my mom came up to me, her eyes glistening with tears.

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A bride with her mother on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

“Val, I am so proud of you,” she said, pulling me into a hug. “And Richard… he loves you so much. I’m glad you finally see that.”

“I do, Mom,” I replied, hugging her back tightly. “I really do.”

Later that night, as Dylan and I finally had a moment to ourselves, he took my hands and looked at me with those caring eyes.

“How are you feeling?” he asked gently.

“Overwhelmed, but in a good way,” I said with a small laugh. “I never expected Richard to step up like that.”

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A bride and groom laughing | Source: Midjourney

“He’s a good man,” Dylan said. “And he loves you. I’m glad he was here for you today.”

“Me too,” I said, my heart full of gratitude. “I spent so long waiting for my dad to be there for me, and I didn’t see what was right in front of me.”

Dylan smiled and kissed my forehead. “Sometimes, it takes moments like these to realize what’s truly important.”

As the night came to an end, I found myself reflecting on everything that had happened. My father’s absence had been a painful reminder of broken promises, but Richard’s presence had shown me the true meaning of love and family.

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A woman is sitting on a porch and reading a letter | Source: Midjourney

It wasn’t about grand gestures or blood relations; it was about being there, day in and day out, without expecting anything in return. A few days after the wedding, I received a letter from my father. It read:

Dear Valeria, I’m sorry I couldn’t make it to your wedding and share our father-daughter dance with you. Believe me, I really was caught up in a bad traffic jam. And by the time I got out, it was too late. I hope you will forgive me.

– Your Dad.

But I knew better. I didn’t need his words anymore. I had found the love and support I needed in Richard, Dylan, and my mom.

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A middle-aged man lost in his thoughts | Source: Midjourney

As I sat on the porch, reading the letter, Richard came out and sat beside me. He didn’t say anything, just offered his silent support. I turned to him, my eyes filled with gratitude.

“Thank you for everything, Richard,” I said, my voice trembling with emotion. “You have no idea how much you mean to me.”

He smiled, his eyes gentle and warm. “Val, being a part of your life has been the greatest gift. I love you, and I’ll always be here for you.”

We sat there in comfortable silence, the weight of the past slowly lifting from my shoulders. I had finally found peace, not in the father I had always longed for, but in the family I had right beside me all along. For the first time in a long time, I felt whole.

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A woman sitting with her stepdad on the porch | Source: Midjourney

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