I Became a Burden to My Father after I Lost the Ability to Walk – Story of the Day
I was paralyzed and trapped in a wheelchair in an accident, and my father refused to be burdened with me. But then he gets taught an important lesson.
I was 19 when I was run over by a car on my way to work. For me, it was the end of the world: a screech of tires, darkness, and pain. And when I woke up, I heard the voices say I’d never walk again.
I kept asking for my father, but he only showed up three days later, looking the worse for the wear and I knew he’d been on a bender while I’d lain there fighting for my life.
She was injured in a horrible accident | Source: Shutterstock.com
My mother died when I was 12, a victim of breast cancer. I remember her as a sweet, weary woman, always cringing from my father’s cruel words, working to keep food on the table while he drank his paycheck away.
As soon as I turned 14, he ordered me to find a part-time job to help with the bills, and when I was 16, I dropped out of school and started working full time to support myself — and him.
But when my father finally arrived at the hospital to visit me, there was neither compassion nor gratitude in his eyes. The doctor explained that although my spine was not severed there had been severe bruising and compression.
I might — by a long shot — recover my ability to walk, but most likely, I would be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. And that was when my father walked away. He said to the doctor, “She’s over 18, isn’t she? She’s an adult, right? So she’s not my responsibility anymore. You take her.”
My father was an alcoholic | Source: Unsplash
I remember my doctor’s horrified expression and my father’s gaze sweeping over my limp legs. “Useless! Useless like your mother!”
Those were the last words I’d hear from him for the next six years. A little while later I was transferred to a recovery center where I was lucky enough to be assigned to a therapist named Carol Hanson.
Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
She was an older, motherly woman who immediately took me under her wing. Carol was as loving as she was demanding, and she was very demanding. Over the next year, she pushed me towards a recovery I’d never dreamed possible.
The day I stood on my own two feet and took my first step, I cried like a baby, and so did Carol. It was only the beginning, and the next few months I worked even harder, but finally was pronounced healthy.
I woke to discover I was paralyzed | Source: Unsplash
It was a bittersweet moment for me. I was healed from my injury and I was walking again, but I was terrified. I had nowhere to go, no family. I was all alone in the world.
Carol walked in and found me crying. She sat beside me on the bed and put her arms around me. “Jenny,” she said to me, “it’s all right to be scared. You’re starting your life again.”
“I have no one, and nowhere to go,” I whispered, remembering other patients leaving surrounded by loving family, “I’m alone.”
“No you’re not,” Carol said firmly, “I’ve been meaning to talk to you about that. Would you like to move in with me? Just until you get your life together again…”
I was stuck in a wheelchair | Source: Unsplash
So I did, and it was lovely. Carol and I got on beautifully, and she gave me my own room, a pretty room, the prettiest I’d ever seen. “It was my daughter’s,” Carol explained with tears in her eyes. “I lost her like you lost your mother.”
I started googling for jobs the next day on Carol’s computer, but when I came down to breakfast there were some informative flyers on the table from the local high school announcing night classes for adults wanting to complete their secondary education.
“I think,” said Carol firmly, “that you need to go back to school so you can go back to college.”
My mouth dropped open. “College? I can’t afford college!” I gasped. “Carol, I don’t have a cent to my name and no way to support myself if I don’t get a job, and quickly.”
The physiotherapist helped me heal | Source: Pexels
Carol shook her head: “No, Jenny, you can’t afford NOT to go to college. Listen, I will lend you the money, and when you graduate, you pay me back — just like a student loan with a bank.”
Anyway, she talked me into it, and I quickly completed the high school certification I needed and applied to the local college. I’ll admit Carol’s example inspired me to become a nurse, and four years later, I graduated summa cum laude.
I started working at a local hospital and ended up specializing in neo-natal care. One day, a TV crew came in to do a news story on a set of identical triplets and ended up interviewing me.
For a while, I was a bit of a celebrity, but the attention brought me an unwanted visitor. The doorbell rang and when I opened it, I was stunned to see my father standing there.
I became a nurse | Source: Pixabay
He looked terrible, like a bum, and he reeked of alcohol and sweat. “Jenny, my sweet baby girl!” he cried, reaching out his hands. “I’ve finally found you again.”
“Found me again?” I asked sharply, “You abandoned me in the hospital because I was useless, remember, like my mother?”
He squeezed out a few tears. “Oh my baby,” he sobbed. “Forgive me, I was frightened and in shock… You won’t turn your dad away now, would you? I haven’t been well…”
“You look fine to me,” I told him coldly, but my trained eye had already noted the yellow tinge to his skin and eyes. He had some kind of liver disorder, probably due to his drinking.
An unexpected visitor | Source: Pixabay
He shuffled forward. “I’m sick, Jenny, daddy really needs you…And…” he licked his lips thirstily. “And I’m broke, baby, no money for food…You’re not going to let your daddy go hungry, are you?”
“Like you left me to my fate? Helpless in a wheelchair? Guess what ‘DADDY,’ I am. Get out.” I slammed the door in his face and walked back into the lounge.
Carol looked up at me and smiled. “Who was that, Jenny?”
“Oh, just some man selling something!” I went to the sofa, sat down beside Carol, and hugged her fiercely. Carol hugged me back.
Carol adopted me | Source: Pexels
“Jenny,” she said, “there’s something I’ve been meaning to talk to you about. Would you allow me to adopt you? Become your mother? Because in my heart you already are my daughter.”
I started crying and I just couldn’t stop. I had been cursed with a terrible childhood, and now as an adult, I had been lucky enough to find a loving home and a parent who cherished me.
What can we learn from this story?
1. Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
2. What you give is what you get, as Jenny’s father discovered.
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Palm Readers Are Freaking Out! What Does That ‘M’ Mean for You?
Have you ever looked at your palms and wondered what all those lines mean?
If you ask a palm reader, they will tell you that each line has its own special meaning. If you have lines that connect to form the letter M, you are part of a small group of less than 2% of people, including famous names like Meghan Markle, Hillary Clinton, and Robert De Niro. These individuals are believed to have unique qualities that set them apart.
Keep reading to find out what this M shape means on your palm!
Like fingerprints, the lines on your palms are unique to you. No one else has the same patterns. These lines are thought to give hints about your personality and potential life experiences.
Palmistry is an ancient practice where people interpret the lines, shapes, and features of hands, especially the palms. It is considered more of an art than a science. The lines do not predict the future, but they can provide insights into the quality of your life.
Here are the major lines and what they mean:
– **Heart Line:** This line shows your emotional health and relationships. Its shape can reveal how you feel about love and intimacy.
– **Head Line:** This line represents your thinking and decision-making. The length and curve can show whether you are more analytical or creative.
– **Life Line:** Many people think this line shows how long you will live, but it actually reflects your vitality and life experiences. It curves around the base of your thumb.
– **Fate Line:** This line indicates your life path, career, and destiny. A strong fate line may mean you have a clear purpose, while a faint or missing line might suggest you are flexible in your life choices.
– **Sun Line:** This line is linked to fame, creativity, and success. A clear sun line can suggest you will gain recognition for your talents.
If the heart and head lines come together to form an M shape, palm readers believe it shows that you are very gifted and special.
In palmistry, an M shape on your palm shows that you have special intuition, insight, and the potential to be a leader.
This marking is also called the Simian line. It is seen as a sign of a strong personality and suggests that a person can overcome challenges with determination.
People with an M shape tend to be good judges of character, like human lie detectors who can easily spot someone who is being dishonest.
Only 1 to 2% of the population has this unique marking on their palms.
Here’s what it means if you have the Simian line on your hand:
– **Intuition and Insight:** People with an M shape are believed to have strong intuitive abilities. They may be good at reading situations and understanding people.
– **Leadership Qualities:** This marking can suggest that someone has a natural ability to lead and inspire others.
– **Balanced Personality:** It might indicate a balance between intellect (head line) and emotions (heart line). This balance allows for thoughtful decision-making.
– **Potential for Success:** Many palmists believe that having an M shape is a sign of potential success in different areas of life, including careers and relationships.
It’s also important to note that the M shape should appear on your non-dominant hand, which is the hand you don’t use for tasks like writing. For right-handed people, this means the lines on your left hand can indicate positive traits and gifts. If the lines appear on your dominant hand, it may not have the same meaning.
Gary Markwick, a palm reader, explained that people with Simian lines are “quite highly sensitive.” He added, “They’re very focused and determined to get what they want. But sometimes they can have tunnel vision, not noticing what is happening around them or who is nearby.”
Next, speaking about Meghan Markle, who has an M shape on both of her hands, Markwick said, “Some people just have a touch of that line, but Meghan has a Simian line on each hand…so it’s a double whammy. She could do great things.”
The Duchess of Sussex has many achievements. She is an actor, an author, and an advocate for social justice. She also co-founded Archewell with her husband, Prince Harry.
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