Artistes The actor Richard “Kinky” Friedman has d ied. He was 79 years old.
The news came through X on Thursday. “Kinky Friedman stepped on a rainbow at his beloved Echo Hill surrounded by family & friends,” said it. “Kinkster endured tremendous pain & unthinkable loss in recent years but he never lost his fighting spirit and quick wit.”
“Kinky will live on as his books are read and his songs are sung,” said the post. His name was John and he went to the University of Texas at Austin. The exact day he d ied was not given.However, Kinky also ran for governor of Texas as an independent candidate in 2006. With 12% of the vote, he came in fourth place out of six candidates. PROFILE IN MUSIC King Arthur & the Carrots was Kinky’s first band, which he started at UT. They only made one record in 1966, which was Schwinn 24/Beach Party Boo Boo. Surf music was made fun of by King Arthur & The Carrots. Ginky Friedman and the Texas Jewboys was Richard’s second band. They were formed in 1973. They didn’t stay together for long, and Kinky’s self-titled album came out in 1974.
Following two years, Kinky went on tour with Bob Dylan. He was a musical guest on Season 2 of Saturday Night Live after the tour. In 2011, the artist went on a world tour as the main act. KiNKY has put out 18 albums so far. His most recent one, Circus of Life, came out in 2018. NOTHING ELSE Later, when Richard’s music career stopped going forward in the 1980s, he started writing.
He mostly wrote detective books, which have made-up versions of himself and lyrics from his songs. In New York City, the character fights crime while telling jokes, giving advice, recipes, and charm. In his mind, he is like Sherlock Holmes from a different time. Kinky Friedman did not appear in Kill Two Birds and Get Stoned or The Christmas Pig, two books that Kinky wrote. Additionally, he had a regular column for Texas Monthly from 2001 to 2005.
He stopped writing the column when he ran for governor in 2006. But two years later, the newspaper brought back his column every two months. In 1986, Richard ran as a Republican for Justice of the Peace in Kerrville, Texas, but lost. This was before he ran for Governor.
I Found Diapers in My 15-Year-Old Son’s Backpack and Decided to Follow Him After School
Finding diapers in my teenage son’s backpack left me speechless. When I followed him after school, what I discovered sent a shiver down my spine. It also forced me to face a truth about myself I’d been avoiding for years.
My alarm went off at 5:30 a.m., the same as every weekday for the past decade. I was showered, dressed, and answering emails before the sun came up.
By 7:00 a.m., I was in the kitchen, making coffee while scrolling through the day’s meetings.
“Morning, Mom,” Liam mumbled, shuffling into the kitchen in his school sweatshirt.
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“Morning, honey,” I said, sliding a plate of toast toward him. “Don’t forget you have that history test today.”
He nodded while his eyes were glued to his phone.
That was our routine.
Brief morning conversations, quick goodbyes, and then I’d go to run MBK Construction. It was the company my father had built from nothing.
When he died three years ago, I promised myself I’d make him proud. I decided the company would thrive under my leadership, no matter what it took.
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To be honest, what it took was my marriage.
Tom couldn’t handle being married to someone who worked fourteen-hour days.
“You’re married to that company, not me,” he’d said the night he left.
Maybe he was right. But if he really loved me, he would have accepted that drive as part of who I am.
Instead, he found someone who put him first. Good for him. I had a legacy to protect.
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And I also had Liam. My brilliant, kind-hearted son who somehow survived the divorce without becoming bitter.
At 15, he was already taller than me, with his father’s easy smile and my determination. Watching him grow into a young man made all the sacrifices worth it.
Lately, though, something had been off. He’d been quieter and more distracted. At dinner last week, I caught him staring at nothing.
“Earth to Liam,” I said, waving my hand in front of his face. “Where’d you go?”
He blinked, shaking his head. “Sorry. Just thinking about stuff.”
“What kind of stuff? School? A girl?”
“It’s nothing, Mom. Just tired.”
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I let it go. Teenagers need space, right? That’s what all the parenting books say.
But then I started noticing other things.
He was always on his phone, texting someone—then quickly hiding the screen when I walked by. He started asking to walk to school instead of letting me drive him.
And then he started keeping his bedroom door closed. All the time.
I figured it was just normal teenage privacy. Until Rebecca called.
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“Kate? This is Rebecca, Liam’s English teacher.”
“Is everything okay?” I asked, cradling the phone between my ear and shoulder as I signed a contract.
“I’m concerned about Liam. His grades have dropped significantly over the past month. He’s missed two quizzes, and yesterday he wasn’t in class at all, even though the attendance office marked him present for the day.”
My pen froze. “What?”
“I just wanted to check if everything is alright at home. This isn’t like Liam at all.”
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“He’s… he’s been going to school every day. Nothing’s wrong at home, and he hasn’t mentioned anything bothering him lately.”
“Well, he’s definitely not making it to my class. And from what I’ve heard from his other teachers, I’m not the only one noticing his absences.”
After hanging up, I sat frozen at my desk.
My perfect son was skipping school? Why? Because of a girl? Some kind of trouble?
That night, I tried to casually bring it up.
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“How was school today?” I asked over dinner.
“Fine,” he said, pushing pasta around his plate.
“Classes going okay? English still your favorite?”
He shrugged. “It’s alright.”
“Liam,” I said, putting down my fork. “Is there something you want to talk about? Anything at all?”
For a moment, I thought he might open up. His eyes met mine, and it looked like he was considering it. But then the wall came back up.
“I’m good, Mom. Really. Just tired from practice.”
I nodded and let it drop. But I knew one thing for certain.
I needed to find out what my son was hiding.
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The next day, I went into his room while he was playing video games in the living room.
I’d never invaded his privacy before, but these weren’t normal circumstances. If he was in trouble, I needed to know.
His room was surprisingly neat for a teenage boy—bed made, clothes put away, everything carefully organized.
Then, my gaze landed on his backpack, sitting on his desk chair.
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That’s where I’m going to find all the answers, I thought. I picked it up and quickly unzipped it.
Textbooks. Notebooks. Calculator. Nothing unusual.
Then, I unzipped a small side pocket and reached inside. What I pulled out made no sense at all.
A plastic package.
Diapers.
Not just any diapers—newborn diapers.
My hands started shaking. Why would my 15-year-old son have baby diapers?Was he hanging out with someone who had a baby? Or… God forbid… was he a father himself?
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I sat on his bed, trying to make sense of the package, but nothing added up.
Liam was responsible and cautious, and he’d never even mentioned having a girlfriend. But these diapers didn’t just appear in his backpack by magic.
I returned everything exactly as I’d found it and walked back to the living room.
Liam sat on the couch, playing video games, completely at ease. He laughed when his character died, casually killing zombies like nothing was wrong.
How could he sit there so casually while keeping such a massive secret?
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After he went to bed, I made up my mind. Tomorrow, I wouldn’t go to work. Tomorrow, I would follow my son.
Morning came, and I stuck to our normal routine, pretending everything was fine.
“Have a good day, honey,” I called as he headed out the door.
“You too, Mom.”
I waited until he was halfway down the block before grabbing my keys and sunglasses. I followed at a distance in my car, feeling ridiculous.
But then Liam did something that proved my suspicions weren’t overblown. Instead of turning left toward school, he went right.
Away from school.
Away from our neighborhood.
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I followed him for twenty minutes as he walked confidently through increasingly unfamiliar streets.
The neat houses and manicured lawns of our neighborhood gave way to older, smaller homes with peeling paint and chain-link fences. This area was the opposite of the exclusive community where we lived.
Finally, Liam stopped in front of a small, weathered bungalow. My heart pounded as I parked across the street and watched him walk up to the front door.
He didn’t knock. Instead, he pulled out a key.
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I watched him unlock the door and step inside like he belonged there.
My son had a key to someone else’s house.
With my heart pounding against my chest, I got out of my car and walked up to the front door. I took a deep breath and knocked, unaware of how everything would change in just a few minutes.
The door opened, and there stood Liam, his eyes wide with shock. But what left me speechless wasn’t my son’s expression.
It was the tiny baby he was cradling in his arms.
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“Mom?” His voice cracked. “What are you doing here?”
Before I could answer, a familiar figure appeared behind him. An older man with stooped shoulders and salt-and-pepper hair.
I immediately recognized him. It was Peter, our former office cleaner. The man I fired three months ago for chronic tardiness.
“Ma’am,” he said quietly. “Please, come in.”
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I stepped inside, my mind struggling to connect the dots. The small living room was modestly furnished with baby supplies scattered everywhere.
“Liam,” I said. “What’s going on? Why are you here with… with a baby?”
My son looked down at the infant in his arms, then back at me. “This is Noah. He’s Peter’s grandson.”
Peter gestured to a worn couch. “Please, sit. I’ll explain everything.”
As I sat down, still stunned, Liam gently bounced the baby, who couldn’t have been more than a few months old.
“Remember how I used to hang out with Peter when Dad would drop me off at your office after school?” Liam began. “He taught me how to play chess.”
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I nodded slowly. Peter had worked for MBK Construction for nearly a decade. He’d always been kind to Liam.
“When I heard you fired him, I wanted to check on him,” Liam continued. “So, I found his address and came by after school one day.”
“And I welcomed the visit,” Peter said. “But I wasn’t alone.”
“Where did the baby come from?” I asked, still trying to process everything.
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Peter’s eyes filled with sadness. “My daughter, Lisa. She… she’s had a rough life.” He hesitated, then sighed. “About a month ago, she showed up with Noah. Said she couldn’t handle it. By morning, she was gone. Left the baby and never came back.”
“Why didn’t you call social services?” I asked.
“They’d take him away,” Peter said simply. “Put him in the system. Lisa will come back when she’s ready. She always does.”
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“But in the meantime, Peter needed help,” Liam added. “He was trying to find a new job, going to interviews, but couldn’t bring a baby. So, I started coming over during my free periods to watch Noah.”
I looked at my son in disbelief. “You’ve been skipping school to babysit?”
“Only my study hall and lunch,” Liam said quickly. “But then Noah got colic, and Peter was so exhausted. So, I… uhhh… I started missing a few classes. I know it was wrong, Mom, but what was I supposed to do? They needed help.”
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That’s when I realized something that sent a shiver down my spine.
While I’d been consumed with board meetings and profit margins, my 15-year-old son had been shouldering an adult responsibility that even I hadn’t noticed.
“Why didn’t you tell me?” I asked.
Liam and Peter exchanged glances.
“You fired him for being late,” Liam said quietly. “You didn’t even ask why.”
That was true. I couldn’t deny it.
I never asked Peter why he’d been showing up late at work. I didn’t care if he was facing problems at home.
I’d been too busy. Too focused on the company.
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That’s when I really saw Peter for the first time.
The man was exhausted and had dark circles under his eyes. Had he always looked this tired when he worked for me? How had I never noticed? Had I been so caught up in my own life that I never even thought to ask if he was okay?
“I’m sorry,” I said to Peter. “I had no idea what you were going through.”
“It’s not your fault,” he replied. “I should have explained.”
“No,” I shook my head. “I should have asked.”
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I watched as Liam gently rocked the baby, who had fallen asleep against his shoulder. My son had shown more compassion than I had in years.
Standing up, I made a decision. “Peter, I want you to come back to work at MBK Construction.”
His eyes widened. “Ma’am, I—”
“With flexible hours,” I continued. “And we’ll set up a proper childcare situation for Noah. Maybe even an on-site daycare for employees. It’s something we should have done years ago.”
“You’d do that?” Peter asked.
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“It’s the least I can do,” I said.
Then, I turned to my son. “Liam, I’m sorry I haven’t been more present. That’s going to change, I promise.”
“Thanks, Mom,” he smiled.
That night, after we’d made arrangements for Peter and Noah, Liam and I sat at our kitchen table with pizza and honesty between us.
“I’m proud of you,” I told him. “But no more skipping school, okay? We’ll figure this out together.”
He nodded. “Deal.”
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As I watched him head upstairs to bed, I realized that in trying to preserve my father’s legacy, I’d almost missed the most important legacy of all: my son.
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