Moving in together is a big step in any relationship, but what happens if problems arise right away? One man found himself in a difficult predicament when his sweetheart gave him an ultimatum: it was either her or his pet beagle, Molly.
The only problem was that, although he genuinely cared for her and wanted to be with her, his fiancée hated his cute dog. She hated Molly so much that she forced him to decide between saying goodbye to her and giving up the puppy.
Rather than give up, the man decided to post on Craigslist about his predicament in the hopes of finding advice and perhaps even a new home for Molly. He stated in his article, “My girlfriend does not like my beagle Molly.” That means I have to find her a new home.
He went on to highlight Molly’s purebred ancestry and their four years of togetherness as he continued to describe her qualities. Despite her lack of training, he claimed she is enjoyable to be around and likes playing games. Although Molly loves to be spoiled, she does require some upkeep, especially for her long hair and nails.
The man also mentioned some of Molly’s less glamorous habits, such as her tendency to sleep throughout the day while he’s at work and yap all night. But he made it plain that Molly always brings him happiness and that she only ever eats the best, most expensive food.
However, the end of his post took a surprising turn. He quietly revealed his true motives by adding, “So… anyone interested in my 30-year-old, selfish, wicked, gold-digging girlfriend?,” rather than searching for Molly to move in with a new family. Come get her! I really want her to find a new home as quickly as possible, and so does my dog!
This unanticipated turn of events showed the man how committed he is to his loyal companion Molly. By lying to the readers, he quietly let them know that he didn’t respect his girlfriend’s ultimatum. Who, after all, makes someone choose between their cherished pet and a loving partner? Some others claim that his girlfriend got exactly what she deserved.
This story is a heartfelt reminder of the intimate bond that individuals have with their dogs. It’s hard to put into words how much dogs like Molly make our lives happier with their steadfast love and company. Urging someone to give up their animal companion may be extremely painful since animals become a part of our family.
Let’s give this man credit for acting morally and standing up for his loyal friend. With her tail wagging, Molly is a nice puppy who needs love and attention. Perhaps in the future, the man will come across someone who values Molly as a member of their family instead of just accepting her.
Let’s share this charming and funny story with our friends and family to honor the bond that exists between people and their beloved dogs. After all, we can all learn something from this man’s brave choice.
“Stop Equating Thinness With Health and Happiness,” How Lena Dunham Inspires People to Fall in Love With Their Curves and Scars
There are so many things in the world that we may admire or even get inspired by, but there’s one main thing we may want to fall in love with before we start noticing the beauty of other things. It’s our own reflection in the mirror. Among all the numerous recipes for conjuring up self-love within ourselves, psychologists advise us to never compare ourselves to others and stop caring about other people’s opinions. Actress and producer Lena Dunham knows a lot about cultivating love for her own body despite all the criticism she faced, and she happily shares her journey with us all.
Lena Dunham doesn’t accept the term “body positivity,” and here’s why.
Actress and writer Lena Dunham has recently added another string to her bow and collaborated with the brand 11 Honoré to create a plus-size clothing collection. But the very term “plus size” frustrates Lena, and so is the term “body positivity.” In one of her Instagram posts, she explains that she feels more “body tolerant” than “body positive.”
In her interview, Dunham said, “The thing that’s complicated about the body-positive movement is it can be for the privileged few who have a body that looks the way people want to feel positive. We want curvy bodies that look like Kim Kardashian has been up-sized slightly. We want big beautiful butts and big beautiful breasts and no cellulite and faces that look like you could smack them onto thin women.”
Dunham has a very special relationship with her own body.
Dunhams path to self-love started with a decade-long journey with endometriosis. Since she started her own fight against it, she has been candidly sharing how it influenced both her emotional health and her relationship with her own body image. In her Instagram post, she emotionally described how she fluctuated between loving her body and the opposite.
She wrote, “Ya know when you’re home alone, and you realize you’d be happier in a hot lil’ onesie than your ketchup and cat food stained pajamas? And it’s not about a boy or a photo shoot or a weight loss before-and-after, it’s just for the feeling of glee you get from dressing your one and only corporeal form in pleasing fabrics, the unique pleasure of admiring the twists and turns of the body that loves the heck out of you even when you don’t love it.”
Dunham is powerfully addressing all people who come to her page with criticism.
In 2021, Dunham tied the knot with musician Luis Felber. It was such a darling event for her that she wore 3 wedding dresses to marry her love and shared the photos on her Instagram. However, she started getting some “gnarly” comments in her feed from people who commented on her body and appearance. The actress didn’t hesitate for a minute to address them with a powerful message.
She wrote, “One narrative I take issue with, largely because it’s a story I don’t want other women, other people, to get lodged in their heads, is that I should somehow be criticized because my body has changed since I was last on television. […] But lastly, when will we learn to stop equating thinness with health/happiness?”
Dunham’s powerful message can be echoed in the hearts of many.
For all people who have ever hesitated about embracing their body image, Dunham has some simple yet wise advice. She says, “Of course weight loss can be the result of positive change in habits, but guess what? So can weight gain. The pics I’m being compared to are from when I was with an undiagnosed illness. In the last 4 years, I’ve begun my life as someone who aspires toward health and not just achievement.
These changes have allowed me to be the kind of sister/friend/daughter that I want to be and yes — meet my husband (who, by the way, doesn’t recognize me in those old photos because he sees how dimmed my light was). I say this for any other person whose appearance has been changed with time, illness, or circumstance — it’s okay to live in your present body without treating it as transitional. I am, and I’m really enjoying it. Love you all.”
Do you find Lena Dunham’s example inspiring? What do you love the most about your appearance?
Preview photo credit Steve Granitz / WireImage / Getty Images, lenadunham / Instagram
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