Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
Wisdom in Nature: Three Tales About Kindness, Patience, and Potential
Nature often holds lessons that resonate deeply with us, offering insights into patience, potential, and kindness.
These three tales, of a humble tortoise, a lost eagle, and a bond between a dove and an ant, show us how wisdom is all around us if we choose to see it.
A beautiful forest scene | Source: Midjourney
The Tortoise and the Hare: A Tale of Patience Over Haste
Once, in a forest that hummed with life and laughter, a hare darted through the trees, his sleek coat gleaming in the sunlight. He was the fastest animal in the forest, and he never missed a chance to remind everyone of it.
“I’m the fastest there is!” he boasted, chest puffed out. “Who could ever beat me? None of you slowpokes even come close!”
The other animals rolled their eyes, weary of his bragging. All except for one.
A hare in a forest | Source: Midjourney
The tortoise.
He was known for his calm demeanor and thoughtful nature.
One day, as the hare prattled on about his speed, the tortoise raised his head.
“I may be slow, but I believe I could beat you in a race.”
The forest fell silent.
A smiling tortoise | Source: Midjourney
The hare blinked, then burst out laughing.
“You? Beat me? That’s the funniest thing I’ve ever heard! Alright, let’s race. I’ll show you just how foolish that idea is.”
Word spread, and soon, animals from all corners of the forest gathered to watch the race. The starting line buzzed with excitement as the tortoise and the hare took their positions.
“Ready, set… go!”
Woodland animals | Source: Midjourney
The hare bolted, kicking up a cloud of dirt as he sped ahead. In moments, he was out of sight, the cheers of the crowd ringing in his ears. The tortoise, however, began with slow, deliberate steps, inching forward at his own pace.
Certain of his victory, the hare soon spotted a shady tree near the finish line.
“Why not rest a bit?” he thought, smirking. “That old tortoise won’t be here for hours.”
He stretched out beneath the tree and dozed off, his dreams filled with glory.
A sleeping hare | Source: Midjourney
Meanwhile, the tortoise plodded on, unwavering and steady. The sun dipped lower, painting the forest in hues of gold as he finally reached the tree where the hare lay sleeping.
Without a glance, the tortoise trudged past, his eyes fixed on the finish line ahead.
When the hare woke, he yawned and stretched, confident he still had plenty of time. But his heart sank as he spotted the tortoise just steps away from victory.
A tortoise walking | Source: Midjourney
Panic surged through him, and he bolted toward the finish line, his legs pumping furiously. But it was too late. With one final step, the tortoise crossed the line, greeted by a roar of cheers from the animals.
The hare skidded to a halt, his ears drooping.
“I… I underestimated you,” he admitted, his voice low.
The tortoise smiled, his gaze kind.
A leaping hare | Source: Midjourney
“Slow and steady wins the race,” he said. “Patience and perseverance will always triumph over arrogance and haste.”
From that day on, the hare learned to respect others’ efforts, and the tortoise’s lesson was passed down for generations, a beacon of wisdom in the heart of the forest.
A tortoise in a forest | Source: Midjourney
The Eagle and the Chicks: Unleashing True Potential
On a quiet farm nestled in a valley, a farmer stumbled across something extraordinary.
An eagle’s egg lying abandoned near his barn.
He couldn’t leave it there, exposed to the elements, so he gently placed it in the nest with his chickens.
Time passed, and the eagle’s egg hatched alongside the chicken’s eggs. With no knowledge of who he truly was, the young eagle grew up scratching the dirt for seeds and fluttering his wings for short, awkward flights, just like the other chickens.
A baby eagle with baby chicks | Source: Midjourney
Years went by, and the eagle accepted his life among the flock. He didn’t question it, until one bright afternoon, when a shadow swept across the ground.
Looking up, he saw a majestic eagle soaring high above, its wings slicing through the sky with power and grace.
“What’s that?” he asked one of the chickens, his heart stirring with something unfamiliar.
An eagle flying | Source: Midjourney
“That’s an eagle,” the chicken replied. “They’re kings of the sky. But don’t think about it… we’re just chickens. Forget about it.”
The eagle sighed, his gaze falling back to the ground. He pecked at the dirt, burying the strange feeling deep inside.
One day, a wise traveler passed by the farm and stopped in his tracks when he saw the eagle among the chickens. His brow furrowed.
A traveler standing at a farm | Source: Midjourney
“Why is this eagle living like a chicken?”
“He’s always been here,” the farmer replied. “He doesn’t know he’s an eagle.”
The traveler couldn’t accept that. Determined to show the eagle his true potential, he gently scooped him up and carried him to a high cliff overlooking the valley.
“Spread your wings,” the traveler said, his voice firm but kind. “You are not a chicken. You’re an eagle. You were born to soar.”
An eagle perched on a man’s hand | Source: Midjourney
The eagle hesitated, his talons gripping the rocky edge. The ground below seemed safe, familiar. The sky was vast and terrifying.
“What if I fall?” he whispered.
“Oh, but what if you fly?” the traveler countered, stepping back.
The eagle took a deep breath, the wind rustling through his feathers. Slowly, he spread his wings, feeling their strength for the first time. With a leap of faith, he launched himself into the air.
A flying eagle | Source: Midjourney
For a moment, fear gripped him. Then the wind caught beneath his wings, lifting him higher and higher. He soared, his heart bursting with exhilaration.
From that day forward, the eagle embraced the sky as his home. He never returned to the farm, carrying with him the lesson that sometimes, all it takes is a push, and the courage to trust yourself, to discover who you truly are.
An eagle flying above mountains | Source: Midjourney
The Dove and the Ant: Kindness Always Comes Back
One afternoon, an ant wandered along a stream, searching for food.
She paused at the edge, leaning down for a sip of water. Suddenly, her foot slipped, and she tumbled into the rushing current.
The water swept her away, her small legs flailing against the force.
“Help!” she cried, but her voice was drowned out by the roar of the stream.
An ant on a rock | Source: Midjourney
High above, a dove perched on a tree branch, preening her feathers. Her sharp eyes spotted the struggling ant below. Without hesitation, she plucked a broad leaf from the tree and dropped it into the water.
The ant clung to the leaf as it floated to safety. Dripping and exhausted, she looked up at the dove.
“Thank you, kind dove,” the ant said, her tiny voice trembling. “I won’t forget this.”
Days later, the dove rested on the same tree, basking in the golden sunlight. She didn’t notice the hunter approaching silently with a slingshot in hand, his eyes fixed on her.
A leaf in a stream | Source: Midjourney
Hidden in the grass below, the ant saw the danger. Remembering the dove’s kindness, she raced toward the hunter and climbed up his leg. With all her strength, she bit down on his ankle.
“Ow!” the hunter shouted, dropping the slingshot and stumbling backward. Startled by the commotion, the dove flew off, her wings cutting through the air.
Later, the dove circled back to the ant, her eyes shining with gratitude.
“You saved my life,” she said softly.
A flying dove | Source: Midjourney
“And you saved mine first,” replied the ant. “Kindness always finds a way to return.”
The tortoise taught us that patience and perseverance can overcome even the greatest odds. The eagle reminded us that sometimes we need a little push to discover our true potential.
And the ant and the dove showed us that even the smallest act of kindness can ripple into something extraordinary. These tales from nature remind us of life’s timeless wisdom, lessons that guide us to live with integrity, courage, and compassion.
A smiling old woman sitting in a forest | Source: Midjourney
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