During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Most People Misunderstand This: What Is the Real Intent of the Drawer Beneath the Stove?
Busting the Myth about Storage
A common misconception is that the drawer under the stove is where pots and pans and other kitchen necessities are kept. This assumption, however, ignores important factors that might be, well, quite flammable.
The strong heat from the oven makes storing anything in this drawer extremely dangerous. Imagine flammable things or plastic containers becoming warm down there and eventually melting or catching fire. Certainly not the kind of warmth you’re after? Additionally, packing too much material in this area can prevent the area surrounding the stove from getting enough airflow, which could result in crumbs and debris building up and cause hygienic problems. Ouch!
Realizing Its Genuine Use: The Warming Drawer
Despite what many people think, the drawer beneath the stove is mainly used as a “warming drawer.” You did really hear correctly! Its function is to maintain food’s warmth after cooking, which is particularly helpful when preparing a large meal or entertaining. Therefore, don’t bother trying to fit your cookware in this drawer; its main purpose is to keep your culinary products warm.
Warming drawers with temperature settings keep food at the perfect temperature so it doesn’t overcook or dry out. They come in especially useful when you need to reheat side dishes while you prepare the main entrée. Consider it your own personal sauna for mashed potatoes!
Beginnings and Development
Let’s go back in time a little now, shall we? With the development of kitchen technology in the early 1900s, the warming drawer concept was born. As gas and electric stoves became more common, producers looked for cutting-edge features to enhance cooking ease. We’re all grateful for it, don’t we?
The warming drawer was first created to solve the problem of keeping meals warm without sacrificing quality, but it soon spread throughout contemporary stove designs. Its development is a reflection of the changing demands and standards of home cooks looking for practical kitchen solutions. Ah, development!
Adaptability Outside of Heating
In addition to maintaining food temperature, the warming drawer can be used for a variety of culinary chores.
In summary
There you have it, then! The drawer beneath the stove plays a crucial function as a warming drawer, while being sometimes misinterpreted as a storage area. You may improve the way you cook, efficiently regulate the temperature of your food, and enjoy dining in your house when you accept its intended use. Accept its adaptability and enjoy the advantages it provides for your cooking pursuits. And never forget that a warming drawer keeps your culinary secrets wonderfully warm in addition to serving as a spot to conceal them!
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