Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Only 1% of people can spot the mistake on this watch face in under 11 seconds.
Brain teasers are a fun way to keep your mind sharp. This new test should be finished in 11 seconds, but 99% of people will probably not succeed.
Most of us learn how to tell time when we’re young, but in today’s digital world, how sure are you that you can spot what’s wrong with a classic watch face?
There’s a brain teaser that tests just that. It might make a lot of people scratch their heads while they try to find the answer. This brain teaser is designed to see who’s really sharp and who isn’t. India Times shared an image of the watch face, and those who want to try solving it have just 11 seconds to do so. So, what’s the challenge? At first glance, the watch looks normal, with a leather strap and Roman numerals for telling time. But not everything is as it seems!
The watch has a brown strap and a gold frame around the white dial. The Roman numerals are black, but don’t get fooled by these details; there’s a big mistake on the watch! Can you find it? Try to spot the mistake in 11 seconds, and if you do, you’ll show your friends and family that you have a sharp mind! It’s said that 99% of people who try this brain teaser fail! If you can’t find it, look away now because here’s the answer: the numbers IX and XI have switched places, and only those with really keen eyes will notice the mistake.
Keeping your brain active can help you think better, remember things more easily, and stay focused. Some people even believe that regular brain exercises can help delay dementia symptoms. Many folks use brainteasers and puzzles to keep their minds engaged, and adding a time challenge can make it even more beneficial. By doing these regularly, you might notice that your mind feels sharper and your memory improves. Plus, brain teasers are fun! What better way to challenge your friends than to set a timer and see who can solve it first? You can also try other optical illusions for more fun!
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