Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.
Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.
Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.
The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.
The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.
After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.
The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.
It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”
She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “
Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.
In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later
But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.
On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.
Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”
The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”
Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.
Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.
Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.
On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.
Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.
She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.
She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.
She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.
In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.
While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’
My Neighbors Had a House Fire, So We Took Them in, What They Discovered in Our Home Shocked Me
When a fire forced our neighbors to seek refuge in our home, I had no idea that a secret hidden in our basement would unravel my trust in my husband Jim and challenge the foundation of our seemingly perfect life.
Life with Jim was always calm. We had built a routine that was uniquely ours, and our little house on Maple Street felt like a haven. Jim, with his easygoing nature, balanced my more cautious, practical side. We shared everything—our morning coffee, late-night chats, and even our dreams and fears. It wasn’t a flawless marriage, but it was ours, and it worked.
One late night, the acrid smell of smoke woke us both. “Do you smell that?” I asked, sitting up in bed.
Jim sniffed the air. “Yeah, something’s burning.”
We rushed to the window and saw flames rising from our neighbors’ house. “It’s James and Eloise’s house!” I gasped.
We hurried outside and found them standing on the lawn in their pajamas, shaken and helpless. I grabbed a blanket and wrapped it around Eloise, who was sobbing uncontrollably. “It was the wiring,” she choked out. “Everything’s gone.”
I hugged her tightly. “What matters is that you’re safe. You can stay with us until you get back on your feet.”
Jim and I took them to our basement, which we had recently converted into a guest space. It wasn’t much, but it was warm and safe. For the first few days, things were calm. James and Eloise seemed to settle in, grateful for the temporary shelter. But then, one morning, James approached me quietly in the kitchen.
“Violet, don’t mention this to Jim, but something strange is going on,” he whispered, glancing around. “He told us not to open the door under the stairs because there was a mess, but we’ve been hearing noises coming from behind it. Could you check?”
My stomach tightened with dread. I rushed downstairs, fumbling for the key. As I unlocked the door and swung it open, a strong odor hit me. My heart dropped. Inside were five rabbits huddled together.
“Jim!” I screamed, panic surging through me.
He rushed to my side. “What’s wrong, Violet?”
I pointed toward the rabbits, my breath shaky. “You promised me—no rabbits in the house. You know I’m allergic!”
Jim’s expression turned sheepish. “I can explain,” he muttered, descending the stairs.
“Explain?” My voice wavered with frustration. “You promised to give them away two months ago! Why are they still here?”
Jim sighed, avoiding my eyes. “I couldn’t do it, Violet. I didn’t want to part with them, so I kept them down here. I’ve been taking care of them daily. I thought it wouldn’t be an issue since you didn’t know.”
I stared at him, torn between anger and betrayal. “You hid them, knowing my allergies—and my fear. You lied.”
“I didn’t mean to hurt you. I just couldn’t let them go,” Jim said softly, looking genuinely remorseful.
James and Eloise appeared at the top of the stairs, looking uncomfortable. “We’re so sorry,” James said. “We didn’t know. We just heard noises.”
Eloise stepped in, trying to calm things down. “Maybe we can help find a solution?”
I glanced at Jim, feeling the weight of everything we’d built together wobble beneath me. The rabbits were just a symptom of something deeper, something I wasn’t sure how to fix. But for now, the immediate issue was all I could focus on.
Just then, our other neighbors, Jules and Ethan, knocked on the door, concerned after hearing the commotion. Jim explained the situation, his voice tense. To our surprise, Jules’s face lit up.
“Rabbits? I love rabbits! We’ve got a big yard. Why don’t we take them? You can visit them anytime,” she offered.
Jim’s shoulders sagged in relief. “You’d really do that?”
“Of course,” Ethan chimed in. “We’ll pick them up later today.”
As they left, I turned to Jim, still raw with emotion. “We need to talk about this, Jim.”
“I know,” he said, his voice low. “I should have told you. I just couldn’t bear to give them up. They mean a lot to me.”
“I get that,” I replied quietly. “But keeping this from me wasn’t fair. You put my health at risk.”
He nodded, reaching for my hand. “I’m sorry, Violet. I’ll do better.”
That afternoon, Jules and Ethan returned with a large pet carrier. They gently gathered the rabbits, and I watched as my anxiety slowly lifted with their departure. Jules smiled at me. “We’ll take good care of them. And Jim, feel free to visit whenever you want.”
“Thanks again,” Jim said, his voice filled with gratitude.
That night, our house felt lighter, but there was still an underlying tension between us. Sitting on the couch, I looked at Jim. “This can’t happen again, Jim. We need to be honest with each other.”
He nodded. “You’re right. I never wanted to upset you, Violet.”
A week later, Eloise and James got word that their insurance company was expediting the reconstruction of their home, and soon they would be able to return. As they packed their things, James gave me a heartfelt hug. “We can’t thank you enough for everything.”
“You’ve been wonderful guests,” I replied with a smile. “We’re glad we could help.”
After they left, our house felt quieter, but it also felt more peaceful. The whole ordeal with the rabbits had been a wake-up call for Jim and me. We needed to communicate better, to be more open with each other.
True to his word, Jim visited Jules and Ethan’s house often to see the rabbits. He would come back with stories about their antics, his eyes sparkling with joy. It made me happy to see him still connected to them, without jeopardizing my health.
One evening, Jim came home with an idea. “Jules suggested we get a pet that wouldn’t affect your allergies. How about a fish tank? Something we can both enjoy.”
I smiled, warmed by the thought. “That sounds lovely.”
A few days later, we picked out a beautiful fish tank together, setting it up in our living room. Watching the fish swim gracefully in their new home brought a sense of calm we hadn’t felt in a while.
“This is nice,” Jim said, wrapping his arm around me as we admired our new pets. “Something we both can appreciate.”
“It really is,” I agreed, leaning into him.
In the end, we learned that secrets, no matter how small, can erode trust. But through communication and compromise, we found a way to move forward, building a stronger foundation for our life together.
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