Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz are perhaps one of the most famous couples in television history. Their romance continued off-screen as well. Their marriage was famously tumultuous, and no one knows that better than their daughter Lucie Arnaz.
Keep reading to know more about their daughter and how her life turned out over the years.
Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were perhaps the most beloved couple on American television at one time. Their show I Love Lucy depicted them as the Ricardos, a middle-class couple that were the ideal nuclear family.
The show had six seasons and ran from 1951 to 1957. It followed Lucille as Lucy Ricardo, a housewife who always gets into hilarious situations. While the couple seemed perfect in their on-screen depiction, in real life, their relationship was quite volatile.
The former Broadway star and the Cuban bandleader met while filming Too Many Girls. Their whirlwind six-month romance led to an elopement and marriage in November 1940.
After over a decade of their marriage, the couple became parents to daughter Lucie Arnaz, born on July 17, 1951. Two years after that, on January 19, 1953, they became parents to their second child, their son Desi Arnaz Jr.
The two children joined their parents in the family business of acting. They starred alongside their mother in the spin-off shows for I Love Lucy. Then in May 1961, after nearly two decades together, the couple filed for divorce.
It took years for Lucie Arnaz to open up about the reality of her parents’ marriage and their subsequent divorce. She revealed in a 2018 interview how “They were fighting all the time when we were growing up. There was a lot of anger and screaming.”
She lamented at her childhood where she had to deal with so many issues, she said, “Their divorce was horrible. And then there was the alcoholism. I had preferred those things had never been there. We didn’t have any abuse, but we did go through some pretty hard stuff, and that’s why my parents didn’t stay together. “
Lucille felt the split even more than perhaps her husband because she felt she had shattered the perception the American public had of her. She remarried soon after to comedian Gary Morton.
In her early twenties in 1971, Lucie Arnaz tied the knot to “The Doctors” actor Philip Vandervort Menegaux. The marriage ended in divorce five years later
But the younger Arnaz’s second try at marriage was much more lasting. She met and married actor and writer Laurence Luckinbill. Now the couple has been together for over four decades.
On June 22, 2023, Lucie celebrated her 43rd wedding anniversary with Luckinbill. She took to Instagram to remember the day many decades ago that she was last single on an apple farm in the coastal city of Kingston, New York.
Their friends and family arrived at the venue in a “big yellow school bus.” She was wearing a “lovely cream crocheted gown” as her father walked her down the aisle. She continued in her post, “…[I] vowed to love Laurence Luckinbill till death us do part. 15,695 days, 5 kids, and three grandchildren later, I am proud to still say,’‘ I do.’”
The Murder, She Wrote actress is still very much in love with her husband. She dedicated a sweet post to him on his 88th birthday late last year in November 2022. She posted a picture of him and wrote how he was “kind, talented, adorable, wise, [and] sexy.”
Luckinbill had two children from a previous marriage; Nicholas Luckinbill and Benjamin Luckinbill. And him and Lucie had three more children together; two sons and a daughter.
Their first child together Simon Thomas Luckinbill was born in December 1980, Joseph Henry Luckinbill was born on New Year’s Eve 1982, and their daughter Katharine Desirée Luckinbill was born on January 11, 1985.
Lucie Arnaz and her husband live in Palm Springs, and their family lives nearby. These days the actress wears her hair in a short pixie cut and spends her time with her beloved grandchildren.
On Grandparents Day in 2019, Arnaz joked about hitting the “jackpot” when the couple welcomed their first two grandchildren just four weeks apart from one another. Since then, they have welcomed many more grandchildren to their brood.
Lucie has been a second-generation actor. She was only 11 years old when she starred alongside her mother in The Lucy Show at 11 opposite her mother, which they then followed up with Here’s Lucy.
She also played the main character in the television movie Who Is the Black Dahlia? and also led in the short-lived comedy The Lucie Arnaz Show in 1985 as psychologist Dr. Jane Lucas.
She has played other roles in guest starring parts in shows such as, Marcus Welby, M.D., Murder, She Wrote, Fantasy Island, Law & Order, and the reboot of Will & Grace.
She has also been credited as a producer in three stories related to her parents. Lucy and Desi: A Home Movie, I Love Lucy’s 50th Anniversary Special, and Being the Ricardos. She also produced the 2003 documentary The Desilu Story.
In June 2023 she revealed that she will be doing an encore of her cabaret act titled I Got The Job! Songs From My Musical Past, at 54 Below in New York City. She had performed the show before the pandemic to a sold-out crowd.
While Lucie is very public about her life, her little brother Desi Arnaz Jr. is quite private about his. When Lucille Ball was pregnant with Arnaz Jr, her pregnancy was written into the show. And as fate would have it, she gave birth to him the same day the episode aired in which her character gave birth to ‘Little Ricky.’
A Woman Spoke Loudly on Speaker at a Restaurant, Stained My Mother’s Dress, and Just Said ‘Oops’—but I Wasn’t Letting That Slide
My mother and I were enjoying a rare, elegant dinner when a loud woman barged in, disrupting the entire restaurant. Just as we tried to ignore her, she flung food across the table, splattering sauce onto my mother’s dress. I wasn’t about to let that slide.
My mother and I had been looking forward to this dinner for weeks. Just the two of us, a rare chance to enjoy something special without rushing, obligations, or distractions.
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I had picked the restaurant carefully. It was one of the best in town, elegant but not stuffy, with dim lighting, soft jazz floating through the air, and the quiet hum of conversation.
It was the kind of place where people spoke in low voices, where waiters moved gracefully between tables. Everything there felt just a little more refined.
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Mom rarely indulged in luxury. She was the kind of woman who always put others first, never one to spend money on herself. Growing up, she made sure I had what I needed before ever considering her own wants.
So tonight, I wanted her to simply enjoy. She had spent extra time getting ready, carefully picking out a navy blue dress that made her eyes stand out. I could tell she felt good in it, and seeing her like that made me feel good too.
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“This is lovely,” Mom said as she unfolded her napkin.
I smiled. “You deserve it.”
A waiter approached with a warm smile. “Good evening, ladies. Would you like to start with something to drink?”
Mom glanced at me. “What do you think?”
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“We’re celebrating,” I said. “Let’s get some wine.”
The waiter nodded, and just as he turned away, the restaurant door swung open.
A woman in her 50s stormed in, dressed in a flashy leopard-print blouse, her blonde hair teased too high, her phone already on speaker. Her voice cut through the peaceful atmosphere like a chainsaw.
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“Yeah, so anyway, I told her she better not pull that with me!”
Heads turned. Conversations slowed. The soft elegance of the restaurant cracked under her presence.
A deep, booming voice answered from the phone. “Oh, you KNOW she will.”
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She cackled, a sharp, high-pitched laugh that made people wince. Mom shifted in her chair, her shoulders tensing, while I sighed, already regretting that she had sat so close to us.
The woman strutted toward the table next to ours and dropped into the chair, setting her phone against her water glass. She made no attempt to lower her voice.
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“I told her, ‘I’ll RUIN you!’” she continued, practically shouting as she tossed her purse onto the table. She gestured wildly, her free hand moving through the air with dramatic sweeps.
A couple seated on her other side exchanged a look. The man leaned toward their waiter, whispered something, and moments later, they were quietly escorted to a different table far from her. She didn’t notice. Or she didn’t care.
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The waiter returned with our wine, carefully placing the glasses in front of us, his voice lower than before. “Would you like a moment before ordering?”
I forced a polite smile. “Yes, please.”
Mom exhaled, shaking her head. “Some people have no awareness.”
I took a sip of wine and nodded toward her plate. “Let’s focus on the food.”
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Mom smiled, always one to take the high road. She picked up her fork, twirled some pasta, and took a bite, savoring the moment.
Then, disaster struck. It happened so fast. The woman let out another loud cackle and flung her arm outward, her fork still in her hand. A glob of thick, red marinara sauce flew through the air.
I saw it too late. It landed directly on my mother’s dress.
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The navy blue fabric now had a bright red stain across the front.
A hush fell over the room. The sound of forks clinking against plates stopped. Nearby diners turned, their eyes widening as they registered what had just happened.
I looked at my mother. She had frozen in place, her fork hovering mid-air, her gaze locked on the stain. Slowly, she placed it down.
I turned to the woman.
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She had seen it. She had watched the sauce hit my mother’s dress.
And then, she smirked.
“Oops.”
That was it. No apology, no concern, not even a second glance before she turned back to her phone.
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Mom reached for her napkin, dabbing at the stain with slow, careful movements. She didn’t say anything, but I could see the disappointment in her eyes, the moment of hurt she was trying to swallow down.
She continued dabbing at the stain, her expression calm, but I knew better. She wasn’t the type to make a fuss, no matter how much she deserved to. But I wasn’t my mother.
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I leaned in, my voice sharp but steady. “Excuse me, you just got food all over my mother.”
The woman barely glanced up from her phone. “Yeah, well, accidents happen.” Her voice was flat, dismissive, as if she had spilled a drop of water and not ruined someone’s evening.
My fingers tightened around my glass. “Right. Just like how it would be an accident if someone bumped into your table and—whoops—spilled this very full glass of wine?”
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That got her attention.
Her eyes flicked to the deep red liquid swirling dangerously close to the rim. I tilted the glass slightly, just enough to let her imagine the worst.
“You wouldn’t,” she scoffed, but her voice had lost some of its edge.
I smiled. “Wouldn’t I?”
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For the first time, she looked uneasy.
She sat up a little straighter, finally lowering her phone. “Listen, sweetheart, don’t be so dramatic. It’s just a little sauce. Your mom can get it dry-cleaned.”
A sharp breath left my nose. “It’s not about the dress. It’s about basic human decency.”
She rolled her eyes and reached for her fork. “Jesus. People are so sensitive these days.”
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Before I could respond, a new voice cut in.
“Ma’am.”
The restaurant manager had appeared beside us. He was tall, dressed in a crisp black suit, his expression carefully composed. His voice was smooth, polite, but firm. He had seen everything.
He turned to my mother first. “I’m so sorry for what happened. Please forgive us for the inconvenience, and of course, dessert is on the house.”
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Mom, ever gracious, nodded. “That’s very kind of you.”
Then the manager turned to the woman.
“And as for you,” he said, his polite smile never reaching his eyes, “lower your voice or leave. Oh, and just so you know—” he gestured toward the couple that had moved earlier “—we’ve covered their meal. No one should have to suffer through such inconsiderate behavior.”
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The woman blinked. “Excuse me?”
“You heard me.” His voice remained leveled, but his patience had thinned.
She let out an incredulous laugh. “Are you serious? This is discrimination.”
“Not at all, ma’am,” the manager replied smoothly. “We just value respectful diners.”
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For a moment, she looked like she might argue. Her mouth opened, but then she glanced around the room, noticing the way people were staring. The weight of dozens of judging eyes pressed down on her.
A ripple of quiet applause spread through the room.
Karen’s face turned an angry shade of red. She scoffed, looking around as if expecting someone to come to her defense, but no one did. Her eyes flicked to the manager, then back to me.
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“You won’t get away with this!” she snapped, her voice louder than ever.
James, still composed, tilted his head slightly.
Karen let out an irritated huff, yanking her phone off the table with one hand while shoving her chair back with the other. The legs scraped against the floor, making a sharp screech that cut through the quiet.
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“Unbelievable,” she muttered under her breath. She reached into her bag, pulled out some cash, and tossed it onto the table without counting. Then, with one final glare in my direction, she stormed out of the restaurant, her heels clicking loudly with each step.
The second the door swung shut behind her, the room seemed to breathe again. Conversations resumed, waiters moved with a little more ease, and the soft hum of jazz once again filled the air.
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I exhaled, my grip on my wine glass finally loosening. When I turned to my mother, I expected to see frustration, maybe even embarrassment.
Instead, she chuckled. “Well,” she said, shaking her head, “that was quite the dinner.”
I let out a small laugh, reaching for my glass. “To karma.”
She raised hers, and we clinked them together, the deep red liquid inside staying exactly where it belonged.
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