I Proposed to My Girlfriend of 2 Years & She Immediately Showed a Startling Change in Behavior — I Didn’t Let It Slide

I thought proposing to Natalie would be the start of our forever. Instead, it was the beginning of a nightmare. It took weeks of betrayal to realize I’d never really known her at all.

I felt my heart pounding as I knelt down on one knee in our living room. “Natalie,” I said, holding up the small velvet box, “will you marry me?” Her eyes went wide with surprise, then softened as she smiled.

A man proposing his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

A man proposing his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

“Yes, yes, of course, yes!” she cried, tears welling up in her eyes. She threw her arms around me, and I slipped the ring onto her finger. It sparkled just the way I’d hoped. I stood up, and we embraced, imagining the future we’d always talked about.

It felt perfect. We’d been together for two years, and it seemed like we wanted the same things—marriage, a family, a home. “We’ve always been on the same page,” I thought. “Same values, same future plans.”

A couple hugging | Source: Midjourney

A couple hugging | Source: Midjourney

For the next week, everything was blissful. We told our families, and everyone was excited for us. We started talking about wedding plans, making lists, and dreaming of our future together.

Then, out of nowhere, things started getting weird.

A couple planning their wedding | Source: Midjourney

A couple planning their wedding | Source: Midjourney

One night, I came home from work and found six women in my kitchen. I stopped in my tracks, confused. The countertops were covered with all the fancy food I’d been saving—caviar, fine cheeses, imported snacks—the works.

Natalie turned to me, smiling like everything was normal. “Oh, hey! You’re home!”

I looked at her, then at the women, then back at her. “Who are they? I thought I knew all your friends.”

An angry man in his living room | Source: Midjourney

An angry man in his living room | Source: Midjourney

She just laughed. “These are my inner circle. I didn’t introduce them earlier because I wanted to wait until we were a ‘sure thing.’”

They just nodded, barely acknowledging me. I watched one of them scoop out the last bit of caviar onto a cracker, and my stomach tightened. I pulled Natalie aside.

“I was saving that stuff for a special night. Why didn’t you ask me first?”

She waved her hand, brushing it off like it was nothing. “Don’t be such a buzzkill, David. It’s just food. We can buy more.”

A smiling woman brushing the subject off | Source: Midjourney

A smiling woman brushing the subject off | Source: Midjourney

I bit my tongue, not wanting to start a fight. But it bothered me that she didn’t seem to care how I felt about it.

A few days later, it happened again. I came home to find the same group of women lounging on the couch, watching TV. More of my expensive snacks were gone. I felt my frustration building.

I waited until they left before saying anything. “Look, maybe next time we can plan this out? You didn’t even ask me.”

A man having a serious talk with his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

A man having a serious talk with his girlfriend | Source: Midjourney

Natalie sighed, rolling her eyes at me. “You’re such a buzzkill. They’re my friends, and this is my home too now.”

I didn’t know how to respond. Was I being unreasonable? We were engaged, so maybe this was what sharing a life was supposed to look like. But it still didn’t feel right.

After the fourth unannounced visit, I finally snapped. “I’m locking up the fridge, Natalie. I’m serious.”

A serious man standing next to his fridge | Source: Midjourney

A serious man standing next to his fridge | Source: Midjourney

She just laughed. “You’re no fun,” she said, waving me off. “You’re acting like it’s the end of the world.”

Then she insisted I come to dinner with her “inner circle” at a fancy restaurant. I agreed, hoping it would help smooth things over, but the dinner was a disaster. She’d chosen a fancy restaurant, and I had agreed, thinking it might smooth things over after the last few weeks.

But the moment I walked in, I knew I’d made a mistake.

A woman in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

A woman in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

They were already seated when we arrived. The women were dressed up, sipping on expensive cocktails. As soon as I sat down, the questions started.

“So, David, what exactly do you do again?” one of them asked, leaning forward with a sharp smile.

“I work in finance,” I said, keeping my tone neutral.

Another one chimed in, her voice dripping with curiosity. “Finance, huh? That must be good money. What kind of house do you have?”

Women dining | Source: Pexels

Women dining | Source: Pexels

I blinked, surprised by how direct they were. “I have a place just outside the city.”

“Must be nice,” she said, her eyes narrowing slightly. “How much did it cost?”

I hesitated. “I’d rather not discuss that.”

They exchanged glances, then changed the subject. But every time I asked them something, they dodged it.

A smiling woman in a cafe | Source: Pexels

A smiling woman in a cafe | Source: Pexels

“So, what do you do?” I asked the one across from me.

“Oh, you know, a little of this, a little of that,” she said with a vague smile.

“Where are you from?” I tried again.

“Here and there,” another one said, shrugging.

A humble woman in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

A humble woman in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

I felt like I was being stonewalled, but they kept digging into my life, my money, my plans for the future. Natalie just sat there, smiling like everything was fine. I couldn’t believe it. This wasn’t the woman I knew. The woman I fell in love with had clear boundaries and respected mine. This was a complete stranger.

Then the conversation took a turn that left me speechless. They started talking about relationships, modern ones, and what they called “evolving dynamics.”

Women talking in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

Women talking in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

“Polyamory is so misunderstood,” one of them said, twirling her wine glass. “It’s all about love without limits.”

“Yeah, and staying friends with exes. It’s just being mature, right?” another added.

I glanced at Natalie, expecting her to be as uncomfortable as I was, but she was nodding along. “I mean, we shouldn’t be too hasty about these things,” she said lightly.

A man looking at women at the table | Source: Pexels

A man looking at women at the table | Source: Pexels

I nearly choked on my drink. “What?” I said, staring at her. “You’ve always been clear about wanting monogamy. And you’ve never been into staying friends with exes.”

She looked at me with a small, tight smile. “People can change, David. It’s important to keep an open mind.”

I felt like the ground had shifted beneath me. Who was this person? The woman sitting next to me, agreeing with all these strangers, wasn’t the Natalie I knew. I didn’t know what to say, so I just sat there, feeling completely blindsided.

A shocked man in the restaurant | Source: Midjourney

A shocked man in the restaurant | Source: Midjourney

When the bill came, I was already planning my exit. I couldn’t wait to get out of there. But then one of the women slid the bill across the table towards me.

“You can cover this, right?” she said, almost like it was an order.

I stared at her, then looked at Natalie, waiting for her to say something.

She just shrugged. “Come on, you’re the guy.”

A man talking to the woman | Source: Pexels

A man talking to the woman | Source: Pexels

I couldn’t believe it. My jaw tightened, but I didn’t want to make a scene. I paid for my part and stood up. “I’m done here,” I said, feeling utterly disrespected. I walked out without looking back.

The next day, I tried to talk to Natalie, but she brushed it off, saying I was being “fragile” and “toxic.” She apologized, blaming it on work stress, but I wasn’t buying it. Something was off, and I could feel it.

Then came the incident with the golf clubs.

Golf clubs in a bag | Source: Pexels

Golf clubs in a bag | Source: Pexels

I was at work when I got an alert from my Nest Doorbell. I checked the footage and saw Natalie and one of her friends carrying my golf clubs out of the house. My expensive set, the one my dad gave me.

I called her immediately. “Natalie, why are my golf clubs leaving the house?”

She sounded annoyed. “Oh, I told you I was lending them to Emily’s boyfriend, remember?”

“No, you didn’t,” I said, feeling the anger rise. “Get them back here now.”

A man arguing with a woman | Source: Midjourney

A man arguing with a woman | Source: Midjourney

She tried to argue, insisting that I’d agreed, but I cut her off. “You have one hour to return them, or I’m calling the cops.”

Forty-five minutes later, they were back, but they were dumped carelessly on the living room floor. No apology, no explanation. Just complete disregard for something that meant a lot to me.

I confronted her, but she started talking about my “toxicity” again. I’d had enough. “If this is your true self, maybe I made a mistake.”

A woman shouting at the man | Source: Midjourney

A woman shouting at the man | Source: Midjourney

She freaked out, begging for another chance, blaming it on stress again. But I was done. I didn’t want to hear any more excuses.

The final straw came when she planned a party at my house without asking. I told her no, but she ignored me. So, on the day of the party, I changed the locks and went to a friend’s house.

My phone blew up with 14 missed calls.

“How dare you change the locks when I’ve got 15 people waiting outside?” she shouted when I finally answered.

A woman shouting into her phone | Source: Midjourney

A woman shouting into her phone | Source: Midjourney

“I told you no party, Natalie. Actions have consequences. We’re done.”

I hung up, went home, and walked past the confused guests standing outside. I locked the door behind me and blocked her number.

And that was it. The engagement was over. The woman I thought I knew was gone, replaced by someone I couldn’t trust. I felt a strange sense of relief as I locked the door behind me, shutting out the chaos and reclaiming my life.

A calm man in his living room | Source: Midjourney

A calm man in his living room | Source: Midjourney

I sat in the living room, the silence almost jarring after weeks of chaos. The ring sat on the coffee table, a small reminder of what I thought we had. I stared at it for a moment, then leaned back, feeling a sense of peace and clarity I hadn’t felt in a long time.

People Reveal the Craziest Wills They Ever Saw

From disowning a child to secretly leaving everything to a stranger, people have written many unexpected things in their wills that are only revealed to their family members after their demise. Many times, people have used this closing act to take revenge on their loved ones.

With age, many people tend to think about what would happen to their loved ones after death. They know there’s only much they can do to support them, and with that comes the thought of writing a will. The final document decides what would happen to their assets and property after their death.

A document with the title "Last Will and Testament" | Source: Shutterstock

A document with the title “Last Will and Testament” | Source: Shutterstock

Many people write their will when they are healthy and doing fine, but others do it after the doctors tell them they don’t have much time to live. Some divide their assets into parts and leave them for their close ones, while others write something unpredictable that shocks their family.

Netizens on Reddit shared some of the craziest and most bizarre things people wrote in their wills. Many of their family members had no idea what was coming their way.

Comments have been edited for clarity and grammar.

1. The Unexpected Trust Fund

A fish in a fishbowl | Source: Pexels

A fish in a fishbowl | Source: Pexels

u/scarlett_pimpernel: I am a qualified solicitor. A lady wanted to create a trust fund of £100,000 for her pet fish. When I asked if it was a particular type of fish, she confirmed it was just an ordinary goldfish.

She wanted it to be fed fresh avocado daily and looked after by a local dog walker after she died. She was absolutely serious.

2. No One Knows about Her

An older woman looking at a young girl | Source: Shutterstock

An older woman looking at a young girl | Source: Shutterstock

u/scarlett_pimpernel: Another lady confessed she had a secret daughter and wanted to leave the daughter some money and photographs without the rest of her family finding out. Even her husband does not know. That will be a fun conversation when she passes away.

3. The Lucky Man

A bus driver | Source: Shutterstock

A bus driver | Source: Shutterstock

u/mommy5dearest: I worked at an attorney’s office, and a little older lady gave her house and belongings to a bus driver.

She did it because he was nice to her and would help her. We were all waiting for hell to break loose when her family found out.

Her family can contest it. I was a witness to the signing. She seemed fine and knew the answers to the questions, so she wasn’t having mental problems as far as we could tell.

4. The Interesting Clause

A lawyer talking to a man | Source: Shutterstock

A lawyer talking to a man | Source: Shutterstock

u/WanderCold: I was in my early twenties when I was forced to write a will because of the health insurance I got at work. I discussed it with the in-house lawyer, who approved this specific clause to be added to my will.

The clause read, “My funeral wishes are that I should be buried in a coffin which has been springloaded, such that opening the coffin would cause alarm to future archeologists.”

Then, a bunch of stuff about if this is too costly, I’d be cremated and have my ashes scattered in a specific place.

5. Don’t Forget My Horse!

A woman riding a horse | Source: Shutterstock

A woman riding a horse | Source: Shutterstock

u/gabberrella24: I work in probate. The oddest thing I’ve seen in a will is to euthanize their beloved horse, have it cremated, and its ashes scattered with the decedent.

Lucky for her horse, she named a horse that was already dead when she passed away, so the one she got afterward lived to see another farm.

6. A List of Strange Wills

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A dog sleeping on a bed | Source: Shutterstock

u/PirateRobotNinjaofDe: Lots of people send their friends and family on weird errands to spread their ashes (leaving money for people to take trips and spread their ashes around the world).

Pet trusts are a fun one. People leave a whole whack of money in a trust to be used for the care of their pets during their life.

However, my favorite ever (that I obviously didn’t draft) was a lawyer who left the bulk of his estate (millions in today’s dollars) to whatever Toronto-area woman had the most children at a specific date some years later. I recall the winner had 10.

7. My Grandfather’s Wish

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An older woman standing near a window | Source: Shutterstock

u/snoboreddotcom: A few hours after my grandfather’s death, my grandmother came to me with a navy-blue tie featuring pink elephants.

Ridiculous looking, but she said he wore it to intimidate people in business, as someone willing to wear such a ridiculous tie doesn’t care about what people think. That scares people. He wanted me to have it so I could do the same.

8. Different Wishes

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A woman signing a documents | Source: Shutterstock

u/ALighterShadeOfPale: I work for a lawyer who does wills. We’ve had a lady put in her will that one of her adult sons would receive his share when he visited a dentist, and the other son would get it if he lost 70lbs.

Another lady put in her will that she wanted her cats cremated with her when she died. We told her that would not happen since human and animal remains are not cremated together. So, she settled on cremated separately and joined together, then buried together.

9. The Long Will

Close-up of a document with the title "Last Will and Testament" | Source: Shutterstock

Close-up of a document with the title “Last Will and Testament” | Source: Shutterstock

u/ALighterShadeOfPale: Typically, wills are about ten pages long (for an average person), but a woman once wrote 56 pages.

She detailed EVERYTHING from her house to people. For example, she wrote, “wooden ladle to ____, toilet paper holder to ____, magazine basket to ____.” She did this for every single item in her house.

10. She Wanted to Be with Her Husband

A small house between trees | Source: Pexels

A small house between trees | Source: Pexels

u/ALighterShadeOfPale: A lady told us to put in her will that she wanted to be buried on her property next to her husband. She lived on a small rural property.

It’s totally illegal to have human remains buried there. She refused to tell us whether her husband was cremated or not and said she did not want to be cremated.

Edit: Her husband had died 5 or 6 years prior. So, it’s not as though it was 50 years ago when things like that may have been a little overlooked.

11. Some Good People

A person signing a document | Source: Shutterstock

A person signing a document | Source: Shutterstock

u/ALighterShadeOfPale: We had a man put in his will that his family was to go to the zoo immediately after his burial (that day). We thought that was heartwarming.

Besides that, we work with many people from a particular religion. Many people we write wills for leave at least 90% of their estates to the church instead of their families.

12. The Elvis Impersonator

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A young man smiling | Source: Shutterstock

u/whatshisfaceboy: I’m not a lawyer, but I have this story of my rich uncle. He would visit us when we were kids, maybe once every ten years. The last time he did, he brought us to a Denny’s.

When he died, he had no friends. Besides that, his wife died due to substance abuse, and that was because of him. He left his entire estate to an Elvis impersonator. Everything.

13. The Only Beneficiary

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A person holding money | Source: Shutterstock

u/AnotherDrunkCanadian: I used to work at a bank in the estate department. I was an administrator who had to manage the files, including encroachments upon the capital, i.e., “I want to take some money out now, please.”

I had this one account – a multi-million-dollar trust for one single beneficiary – the son of the deceased. Everything about the account looked fine until I learned the child was behind his parents’ death and pleaded insanity.

He was in a mental hospital and called the bank once a year requesting $50 for commissary (to buy chips and gum).

The call was always strange. He was very polite, but the quality of the call made it sound like he was far away from the phone.

14. They Wanted to Take Revenge

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A cat sitting behind a curtain | Source: Pexels

u/Dr_BrOneil: Last week, I handled a matter where the parents left millions in artwork to various people and wads of cash to various charities. Meanwhile, their kids got the family cats as revenge.

It turned out they did it because the kids got them the cats to comfort the parents in their old age. The parents hated the cats, but the kids wouldn’t let them get rid of them.

15. He Wanted to Give Them Something

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An older man walking on a street | Source: Shutterstock

u/gaurddog: My great uncle’s official will stated that the contents of his outhouse would go to the City Council of a nearby town after they had tried to take his land twice to build a new water treatment plant.

He spent several years fighting eminent domain claims and wanted to give them something in return. As a joke, his kids boxed up all the books and magazines in the outhouse and dropped them off at City Hall.

16. The Man Was Clueless

A man leaning against a taxi | Source: Pexels

A man leaning against a taxi | Source: Pexels

u/[deleted]: I am not a lawyer but work for a will writers/trusts specialist in the UK, currently studying toward my TEP.

One of our earlier clients passed away recently. Turns out the man she left almost everything to, including the residue of her estate–which was considerable–was her regular taxi driver.

She had also named him as her executor. He had no clue. The woman named as her executor and primary beneficiary in her previous two wills, a close friend of many years, was understandably flabbergasted and contested the will.

We responded to her solicitor’s Larke v Nugus request, informed Mr. Taxi Driver (who didn’t even know our client had passed), and the will was upheld.

The friend mentioned above was left a legacy of £5,000 if I remember correctly, but her nose was clearly out of joint.

Bonus observation: It takes a lot less than £ 5,000 being up for grabs to make families turn against each other. It can get really nasty. This is one of the most startling things I’ve learned in my short time in this business.

17. Hidden Fortune

The last will and testament | Getty Images

The last will and testament | Getty Images

Deleted user: So, my grandma, bless her heart, lived in this old, run-down trailer for years. Dirt poor, but you wouldn’t know it by the way my husband acted.

He was like a cat on a hot tin roof, waiting for her to pass. He had this wild notion in his head that grandma was sitting on a hidden fortune and that he’d inherit a ticket to Easy Street when she kicked the bucket. Cut to the will reading day.

My husband’s practically rubbing his hands together, telling me, “Sugar, put on a smile, we’re about to be rolling in dough.” We get there, and the lawyer’s all business, asking, “Who’s the ‘husband’ there?” My guy steps up: “That’s me. Is there a problem?”

Then my jaw hitting the floor. The Lawyer: Not at all…The last will of grandma states that the grandma has a hidden fortune. However, it’s to be inherited by the husband only if he fulfills three specific conditions. Otherwise, the entire estate goes to the local animal shelter.”

First, he must live for a year in her old trailer, maintaining it without any modern upgrades or outside help. Second, he’s required to volunteer at the animal shelter every weekend for the next two years.

And finally, he must write a personal essay on the value of humility and compassion, to be read publicly at the shelter’s annual fundraiser.

My husband’s face turned from greedy anticipation to utter disbelief. Grandma sure knew how to teach a lesson from beyond the grave!

A man signing a document | Source: Pexels

A man signing a document | Source: Pexels

These stories shared by Redditors prove that being a part of someone’s will can make your life better or destroy it forever. It only takes a few sentences to change people’s lives if one decides to mention them in their will. What’s the most bizarre thing you have ever read in someone’s will or heard about? We would love to know about it.

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