A woman with a strong sense of curiosity has garnered significant attention on TikTok. She shared a video recounting the remarkable steps she undertook to investigate suspicions of infidelity in her beloved boyfriend. Her finding of an unfamiliar tampon in his room led to a clever solution that triggered various reactions, leaving viewers conflicted about whether to deem her a “genius or psycho.”
The beginning unfolded with a seemingly innocuous finding.
Introducing Lois, a young woman residing in the UK, whose exceptional investigative prowess has captured considerable internet attention, drawing comparisons to the renowned detective Sherlock Holmes.
Lois narrated her story, reflecting on her initial stay at her boyfriend’s university residence. It was during this visit that she came across a tampon and a mascara cleverly hidden beneath his wardrobe. The discovery unfolded as Lois playfully leaned back while seated on her boyfriend’s lap, observing these seemingly innocuous items.
In her video, Lois elaborated on the conversation she had with her boyfriend regarding the mysterious belongings. He staunchly denied any knowledge of their origin and suggested they might have belonged to the previous occupant of the room.
Expressing her unease, Lois remarked, “When you find a tampon and mascara under your boyfriend’s wardrobe, and they deny everything, you have to investigate yourself.” It was at this point that a brilliant plan began to take shape in her mind.
Lois chose a more strategic approach rather than making a scene.
In her video, Lois methodically recorded her inquiry. She narrated, “There’s a tampon and a mascara under Finn’s wardrobe, and he’s in denial that he’s had a girl here.”
“I’m not even joking it’s right there. There’s not enough dust on it to be old,” she stressed, reaching under the wardrobe to retrieve the items.
Later on, Lois proactively reached out to Tampax to ascertain the production date of the tampon. Demonstrating investigative prowess reminiscent of Sherlock Holmes, she leveraged the tampon’s serial number to glean additional details. This allowed her to reconstruct the timeline of her relationship with her significant other.
Lois got a reply from an employee named Grace, who conveyed that the tampon had been produced on December 11, 2019. Fortunately, this date occurred before the start of her relationship with her partner.
Later on, Lois proactively reached out to Tampax to ascertain the production date of the tampon. Demonstrating investigative prowess reminiscent of Sherlock Holmes, she leveraged the tampon’s serial number to glean additional details. This allowed her to reconstruct the timeline of her relationship with her significant other.
Lois got a reply from an employee named Grace, who conveyed that the tampon had been produced on December 11, 2019. Fortunately, this date occurred before the start of her relationship with her partner.
The response from internet users was notably controversial.
The video has amassed nearly 10 million views, triggering a variety of responses. Numerous viewers praised her ingenious determination in solving the mystery surrounding the tampon. One woman couldn’t help but wonder, “I’m not sure if this is genius or borderline psycho,” while another enthusiastically exclaimed, “That’s not toxic. That’s smart.”
Nevertheless, not everyone held the same sentiment. Some individuals viewed it as a “red flag” and advised her to “trust her boyfriend,” while others staunchly defended the inquisitive woman.
One user humorously pointed out, “So funny how it’s all men pointing out she’s a red flag, when women just get it,” while another chimed in, “Why is everyone taking this, so seriously it’s actually very, very funny.”
Having gained insights from the experiences of the protagonists in our previous article, it is evident that there are many ways to expose a cheating partner.
‘Families don’t have to look the same’ – Black couple talks about their experience adopting three white children
Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
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