Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
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Robert Wagner was born on February 10, 1930, in Detroit, Michigan. His family moved to Los Angeles when he was seven, which set the stage for his future career in Hollywood.
Wagner developed an early interest in acting and landed his first film role in “The Happy Years” (1950) after being discovered by a talent scout.
Hollywood Success
Robert Wagner’s career took off in the 1950s, with significant roles in films like “With a Song in My Heart” (1952) and “Titanic” (1953). His charm and good looks made him a popular leading man. Throughout the 1960s and 1970s, he continued to build his reputation with roles in movies such as “Harper” (1966) and “The Pink Panther” (1963).
Television Stardom
Wagner is perhaps best known for his extensive television career. He starred in several successful TV series, including “It Takes a Thief” (1968-1970), where he played the suave thief-turned-spy Alexander Mundy.
In the 1970s, he found further success with “Switch” (1975-1978) and “Hart to Hart” (1979-1984), where he played the charming and wealthy Jonathan Hart, alongside Stefanie Powers. These roles solidified his status as a television icon.
Personal Life
Robert Wagner’s personal life has been as intriguing as his career. He was married three times, twice to actress Natalie Wood, whose tragic death in 1981 remains a topic of public fascination.
In 1990, he married actress Jill St. John, and the couple has been together ever since. Wagner’s enduring marriage to St. John and their frequent collaborations highlight their strong personal and professional bond.
Later Career and Legacy
In the later years of his career, Wagner continued to work in television and film, making memorable appearances in shows like “Two and a Half Men” and “NCIS.” He also wrote his autobiography, “Pieces of My Heart,” published in 2008, offering insights into his life and career.
Robert Wagner’s contribution to the entertainment industry spans over six decades, making him a beloved and enduring figure in Hollywood. His versatility and charm have left an indelible mark on both film and television, ensuring his legacy will be remembered for generations to come.
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