Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
“What Happens When You Start Eating Papaya Every Day”
Papaya, the delicious tropical fruit, is not only a treat for your taste buds but also a nutritional powerhouse. Packed with vitamins, minerals, and enzymes, papaya can have a profound impact on your overall health. Let’s explore the incredible benefits you can expect when you start incorporating papaya into your daily diet.
1. Improved Digestive Health
Did you know that papayas contain an enzyme called papain? This enzyme helps break down proteins into simpler, easier-to-absorb forms, aiding in digestion. Regular consumption of papaya can prevent constipation and promote a healthy digestive tract. What’s more, its anti-inflammatory properties can soothe stomach ulcers and ease discomfort for those with irritable bowel syndrome.
2. Enhanced Immune System
Boost your immune system with the power of papaya! Loaded with vitamin C, this tropical fruit helps protect against various illnesses, including colds and flu. In fact, just one medium-sized papaya contains more than double the daily recommended intake of vitamin C.
3. Better Heart Health
When it comes to heart health, papayas are a true ally. Packed with antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals, they reduce the risk of heart disease. The fiber, potassium, and vitamins in papaya help manage cholesterol levels in the blood, leading to a healthier cardiovascular system.
4. Improved Skin Health
Say hello to healthier and more youthful-looking skin with papaya! Thanks to its rich vitamin content (A, C, and E), papaya promotes skin health and helps reduce signs of aging. Vitamin C, in particular, aids in collagen production, which is crucial for skin strength and elasticity. You can even use papaya in face masks for clearer, softer, and more supple skin.
5. Reduced Inflammation
Chronic inflammation has been linked to serious diseases like cancer, heart disease, and Alzheimer’s. Luckily, papaya contains choline and antioxidants that help reduce inflammation in the body, protecting you from these ailments.
6. Cancer Risk Reduction
You’ll be glad to know that papaya is rich in antioxidants, including lycopene, which studies have found may reduce the risk of cancer. Additionally, the fiber in papaya binds to cancer-causing toxins in the colon, aiding in their removal from the body during bowel movements.
7. Protection Against Age-related Macular Degeneration
Taking care of your eyesight is essential, especially as you age. Papaya comes to the rescue once again with its antioxidants, particularly carotenoids like beta-carotene and zeaxanthin. These compounds help protect your eyesight, reducing the risk of age-related macular degeneration.
How to Incorporate Papaya into Your Diet
Now that you know the incredible benefits of papaya, let’s explore some delicious ways to incorporate it into your daily diet:
- As a Breakfast Fruit: Scoop out the seeds and fill a half papaya with Greek yogurt. Drizzle some honey on top for a nutritious and tasty breakfast.
- In Salads: Add chopped papaya to your favorite salads for a tropical touch of sweetness.
- Smoothies: Blend papaya with other fruits like pineapple and mango to create refreshing and nutritious smoothies.
- Desserts: Get creative and use papaya to make sorbets, ice creams, or simply enjoy it fresh with a squeeze of lime.
In Conclusion
From improving digestion and boosting immunity to promoting better skin health and reducing the risk of chronic diseases, eating papaya every day can significantly impact your overall well-being. With its delicious taste and versatility in various recipes, papaya can easily become a delightful addition to any diet. Just remember to choose ripe papayas for the best flavor and maximum nutritional benefits. So why wait? Start enjoying the benefits of papaya today!
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